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i think i lost or am losing my best friend
ok so i have this friend. last year in school we were really tight. like we had a lot of classes together and we were always hanging out. we even had after skool stuff together! but now things are different. i hardly talk to her n e more. she use to tell me EVERYTHING. i was always the first person she would come to. we were always open with eachother and we told eachother everything. we use to talk online almost everyday too. now we dont really talk. she hardly says n e thing to me when i try to talk to her online. on her profile she use to have me as one of her friends and she use to always say things like "i luv you so much" and "ill luv you forever" and "ur the best" u know, like normal friend stuff. now im no where in her profile. i even just found out that she had this awesum party and invited all our friends except me. this school year that just ended she started hangin out with other people and just kinda leaving me. i no everybody makes new friends and im ok with that. i made alot of new friends too. but i didnt want to lose her in the process. i dont no wut to do about it. i really luv her and she is or at least was like my best friend. wut should i do? i really need your help
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Let me ask you one question. Have you invited her to do stuff with you when this started happening? I had a friend that started to drift away from me and she was hanging out with who she thought were really cool people but were just freaks! I asked her to come over and we hadn't done anything just me and her together in a long time!! We had so much fun but she went back to being what nobody wanted her to be! Finally I invited her to do something again but this time I talked to her about it!! Do this and you can even say these exact words,"Name of Person, I'm really worried that we are drifting away from each other and I'm really worried about it! Please just remember that whatever you choose to do I am always there for you and you know you can come to me for help! I love you and I want you and me to become closer again." Just remember that when you are telling her this to be calm and rational!! I am pretty sure that this will help but keep on trying to pull your friend in back towards your way!! Just remember not to be to aggresive though cauz they prbably won't like that!!
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