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Q: Bad posture runs in my family. My mom's shoulder is one higher than the other, and she constantly slouches. Ive noticed over the past year, i have been becoming the same way. I cant even stand up or sit up straight because it hurts. My shoulders are slouched, and ive already gone to the doctor to get it checked out. They said i dont have scoliosis (spelled it wrong), but how am i supposed to improve my posture if it hurts?

sorry to say if it runs in the family there is really nothing you can do about it.

Q: Ok me and my boyfriend have bene dating 3 weeks and we hug intimately and stuff and I lvoe him..adn I get urges to kiss him..I really want to..but the teachers cant see...cause my parents will know..and only my mom knows about the guy and my dad is not clued in at all...and i really love him and i want to kiss him..but im also afraid..i mean im a very pessimistic, paranoid, frightened, depressed type person...i know he wants to kiss me..so what should we do

Jus kiss him you'll be glad that you did.

Q: I'm British and have no idea about the American schooling age.
Please can someone tell me how old juniors, sophomores, seniors and freshmen are so I can relate to some of the questions being asked. Thanks in advance.

soph-15-16 Freshmen- 14-15, Jouniors are 16-17, seniors 17and up hope i helped

Peaches

Q: is it bad to go out with some one if that some ones best friend likes you? Diane-age 13-female

no, follow your heart.

Q: My best guy friend him and I have gone out before and we eventualy broke up but we still had feelings for each other but instead we stayed CLOSE friends he knows everything about me.Well I recently found out he has a gf which i never thought would happen so quick and when i found out i was crushed i began crying i felt terrible.I don't know what to do I'm thinking bout stop talking to him it might help but im not sure pleae help me! thank you either way for just reading.

omg im going through the almost same thing. I said just fu*k him. But know we are just staying friends i dont kno if i helped. But good luck.

Peaches

Q: OK. I'm allergic to fake earings and it really sucks. I can't get those earings with fake silver that only cost a dollar anymore. Is there any way I can were fake earrings(not clip-ons) with getting a rash on my ear?

thanx

you could maybe wear them durning the day and take them out before you go to bed. hope i helped.

Q: Me and my mom are just not close. I can't talk about anything to her and she has never told me that she loves me. How can we get closer? If I try and talk to her about anything, like boys or make up, she just gets this look on her face, this kinda stupid grin. And then she tells me to shut up. What do I do?

that how me and my mother were and i just wrote her a letter telling he how i feel ever sense we tell eachother almost everything. so maybe try to write her a letter. hope i helped

Peaches_n_cream552

Q: My dog urinates on my mothers pillow every few weeks I have no idea why. Can you give me any ideas why? Thanks. (PS- we have no other pets)

maybe your dog doesnt like your mother. my dog doesnt like my mother either so she chews up her shoes and sometime pees in them also maybe she thinks your mother is trying to invade her teratory
hope i helped

Peaches_n_cream552

Q: Ok...so you know how you get a little alert after you've asked a question and someone has answered it (that little number by 'your questions')? I keep getting that, and half the time no new answers are on my question. What's up with that?
I also saw my question on the question pages and it says I have nine answers, but when I click on it and count the answers it, I only have 4.

the other ones might have gotten deleated by a adminastrater.hope i helped

Peaches_n_cream552

Q: 15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.

your just jealous its normal find a different girlfriend to keep your mind of of her. hope i helped.
peaches

Q: Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks.

i would take it as sexual harrassment i would take it as a little inmature boy thinking he is funny.next time he doed it ask him do you think your funny because you look pretty dumb to me. i dont know but i hope i helped.

Q: i am 13/f, and i know this sounds really gross. but can you have a pimple on your (down there). when i was putting on my jeans the other day it started to hurt. and when i got out of the shower there is this big bumb down there. its kind of white on the top. which to me looks like a pimple. what can i do? i'm scared. how can i get rid of it? I RATE 5's!!!

ps. i am not a virgin, but its just now showing up and the last time i had sex was 3 months ago.

it might mot be a pimple it might be a spider bite i thought the same thing a pimple but i went to my doctor and he said it was a spider bit and that it will go away. so maybe try to get to a doctor or compare it with a spider bite. Hope i helped
Peaches_n_cream552

Q: Okay i have this friend and her name is andrea. we are like best friends but now i dont think so...we tell each other everything but she never sits by me at school. she is having a great time with her other friends and she tells me all there jokes...she never really talks to me anymore. she told me i cant be in there lil group anymore! so are we still best friends or not? or should i stop being her friend? HELP please!

thats something you should ask her. Next time you see or talk to her ask her be like: hey andrea look(tell her how you feel)and ask her are we still best friends or not? me and my best friend tend to seperate once in a while and we talk and after that were are inseperateable. hope i helped.

Q: Okay, i'm a ninth grader, and i can't stand all of the 7th graders, they're all stuck up. i got into a huge fight with one of them cuz they were sayen stuff about me. and then the one girls friends sister got involved and shes 16, and im on 14, she threatened to kick my ass, i duno if she'll actually do it though. i see her alot in the halls , i dont think she exactly knows what i look like either, but alot of people in my school know me, so they might tell her. should i skip school tomorrow, or just go? im soo worried.. thanks!!! and if i do skip school, what can i tell my mom, like what are some good tricks?

if i were you i would go to school get it over and done with. If she does start with you and a fight occures try to get some punches in mainly in her face and if people make fun of you just say: come on know im 14 and she's 16 at least i didnt run away from her and i got some punches in. And if/when this would happen make sure she hits you first(self-defence). And when you hit her think about something that really pisses you off and take it all out on her. you'll feel alot better. Face your fears dont run from them. hope i helped!

Q: im babysitting my friends to kids..ones a girl and shes about 3 and the other ones a boy and he's about 6..what are some good and fun things to do with them?? please help..this is my first time babysitting and i have no ideas...i rate!! :)

try to color or sing songs or try to play barbies with the girl if she likes them or you could watch t.v or even play hide and go seek. hope i hepled!

Q: This is for the girls.. okay.. well i'm on Ortho tricyclen Lo.. and if any of you are i have a question!!.. okay well when will i start my period.. will i start it on my normal day.. or when i start taking the inactive pills? Thanks!

when when i started my birth control i had to start it the sunday after my period! hope i helped!

Q: Can birth control give you really really bad mood swings? I started on Ortho tricyclen about three months ago (I'm 19), and recently I've been having really bad mood swings. Could birth control be causing that? Or could it just be outside stress? (which I do have a lot of right now) Any help will be appreciated...I'll rate a 5!

i think it is because of the birth control because i was on the same stuff and i had really bad mood swings to and i took myself of of it and i am not moody anymore. Soo i think it is because of the birth control. but i could also be wrong. or like you said it could also be because you have been stresed alot so that could also be the reason. I hope i helped!!Good luck!!

Q: okay ive been dieting for the past like 3 dayz...ive been eating about 3 healthy meals a day and stop eating around 6. but today i dunno if i ruined it. I have an orange, an apple and a banana for breakfast, then for lunch i had a portion of turkey and a turkey sandwich with wheat bread, and then for dinner i had a bowl of chicken soup..But inbetween the meals i had another orange, a boiled egg, another apple, and another banana, and a bite of a pickle... it sounds like alot but it was through out the whole day..is this gunna affect my diet because i kinda over did eating the fruits?? thanks!

no you probably didnt ruin your diet. I say that because fruits are very good for you. dont starve yourself just eat the right food. *peaches*

Q: hi im 13/f and my mom still wont let me babysit. its rlly embarrasing bc i am 13 but she thinks im not "matture" enough. i feel like im being treated like a baby. how do i get her to let me start babysitting so tht i dont hav to hav a babysitter? thanx ~steph~

try to prove to her that your mature enough to carry one a job like that. babysitting is a relli hard job and you have to be verry carefull i am almost 16 years old and i have been babysitting sense i was 11. not only for ppl i relli dont know but for all my family members to. Going home at night is so great for me. but then my mom had a baby so i started going to my dads house to get away from it all. KNOW my dads girlfriend had a baby. its very hard now that everyone knows im good with kids everyone wants me to babysit, it sux.(and pluse they dont always pay you). i hope i helped.

Q: hello, ok I just got my Belly button pierced. and the guy told me to clean it once a day with sea salt, is that right? should i use anything else?

you can clean it with sea salt or just normal salt mix the salt with warm water in a cup and clean it. i usually clean it after i take a shower i havent had an infection yet! take care.

bio

Name: Victoria
Current Location: My house!
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Light Brown
Righty or Lefty: Righty!
Zodiac Sign: Cancer
Innie or Outtie: Innie!

-----------------NUMBER OF-----------------
Number of boyfriends you've had: IDK
Number of drugs taken illegally: 3
Number of people I could trust with my life: 4
Number of CDs that I own: to0o many!!
Number of piercings: 7
Number of tattoos: O
Number of times my name has appeared in the newspaper?: None
Number of scars on my body: IDK
Number of things in my past that I regret: Too manny
----------------FAVORITES------------------
Shampoo: ThermaSilk
Fav Color(s):baby blue, pink
Day/Night: Night
Summer/Winter: Summer
Lace or Satin: Satin!
Fave Fruit: Oranges
Fave Movies: Scarry, love

---------------DO YOU BELIEVE IN--------------
Yourself: YES!
Your friends: Yes
Santa Claus: NO!
Tooth Fairy: NO!
Destiny/Fate: YES!
Angels: YES!
Ghosts: Sometimes..
UFO's: No
God: NO!

--------FRIENDS AND LIFE------------------
Do you ever wish you had another name?: No
Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?: No
Do you like anyone?: Yes
Which one of your friends acts the most like you?: IDK
Who have you known the longest of your friends?: Krystal, sense the 3rd grade
Are you close to any family member?: Yes
Who do you hang around the most?: Tanya
When have you cried the most: Ummmm all the time
What's the best feeling in the world?: Loving some1 and them loving you
Worst Feeling?: Loving sum1 and them not love you back