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Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!! (link)
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Well if your boyfriend cheated on you i don't think you would want to stay around and get hurt even more. I think you should go out with his frirend.I hope I helped.
claire
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i havent had my period yet and im 13 is somthing wrong? (link)
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Nope this is normal>Girls periods come at different times don't worry somepeople are late and osme are early.I hope I helped. If you need to ask anymore you can i/m at st4rgu1l.
claire
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ok..theres this guy i like named anthony and he is goin into 9th grade and im goin to 8 ((hes gonna be in a diff school whichs sucks)) and he says im cute and he likes me alittle but since he got left back hes 15 and im 13 so he said it would be weird and im like ok but can we be friends and hes like yea so the year ended and the last day of school the 8th graders had a bbq so i didnt see him to get his sn or # turns out he didnt have and sn and i got his # from a friend of his but its not the right # anymore!!
i really miss him i mean like i no how gay this sounds but i really love him!! what should i do ? should i get over him? (link)
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Well try to get the rightnumber and if that doesn't work i think you should get over him becasue it will drive u crazy.But you will be in the same school soon becasue u will go in 9th and he'll be in 10th right? So maybe something will happen then!!
I hope I helped
claire
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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
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You should totally get to the police soon before its to late and there is no evidence! You should tell your boyfriend just incase he ever found out some how he would be really mad becsue u wouldn' tell him and its the right thing to do because he probally trusts you.No one should ever touch you or do things to your body that you don't want!! I hope I helped.
P.S. you can always talk to someone like counseling!!
claire
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Hello all!
I started a relationship with a man that I'm mentally fascinated with. He is well educated and very articulate, which is what attracted me to him. We were together for about a month when I busted him cheating. Now, two months later, I have told him I forgive him and still want a relationship with him but he is lukewarm. He "says" that he doesn't know what to do/say to make things better between us, but I've told him countless times that I'm not worried about him cheating on me again. His response, "Nothing is certain but death and taxes." My brain tells me that if he could say that to me, he doesn't care about making things right. My heart tells me that he's a good man and he won't do it again. Am I dilusional??? The Bible teaches us to forgive 70 times 70, but that doesn't mean I have to be with him still right? I'm in love with this man but I don't know if I can ever trust him again. Please help! (link)
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Well if he cheated on you and can not say that he won't do it again right to your face then i think you sould move on and find some one new to love. I hope I helped.
claire
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my cuz (5 months older than me, were both 13) is here at my house. she slept over last nite nd is staying the rest of the week! im so happy shes here! last nite we had SO much fun cause we were so hyper nd stuff. but then today we went bowling nd stuff but were bored now! :( wut can we do? were gonna have dinner then make crazy moovs of ourselves being stupid but if that doesnt work out or we get sick of it, ne other ideas? also ideas for the rest of the week? were going to rye play land (amusement park) so dont say that please! by the way, it is 6:30 PM rite now.
thanks so much for reading this! ill rate! always do.
THANKS in advance! (link)
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Well I get hyper A LOT so i know what your going through becuase i'm always bored. Well what I usually do is like drink a ton of pop with my friends then we go screaming through the house...lol and then we give eachother makeovers and take pictures like four rolls of film!! You can also make up new games and dance moves and stuff like that!! I hope I helped!!
claire
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what do i tell to adoctor who wants to look down there? even females make me feel self consious. I will not let them touch me or look me down there or take my shirt off. Please help me i want to tell them not to but how. Is there any other way that they can see if im healthy! Im scared out of my mind.
Im sooooooooo scared that i feel dizzy. I cant go through this. I will rate really high to any 1!!
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If you don't feel comfortable telling the doctor then you should tell your mom or some one who will tlak to the doctor instead of you. I don't think there is any other way but i'm not quite sure. I hope I helped.
claire
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has anyone read the book: ttyl ?
is it good? dont tell me about it im just wondering if its really good or not...whats ur opinion on it?
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Yea i read it and i thought it was really good. But i love friendship stuff and you know the gossiping and stuff and the plot so thats why i think its good.
claire
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Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.
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Well in my opion it was not to eager about asking him for his number>When i wnat something i go for it!! Well if you really want to talk to this guy then call him first unless you have second thoughts then you can let him call you.I hope I helped
claire
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there is this girl.. n everytime some1 likes a guy.. she somehow takes him from the girl.. n she is doing it to me this time.. and I don't wanna let that happen! cause I realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like him and I have for a while.. what can I do to stop her? (link)
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You should talk to her and tell her you don't like her stealing you r man and if that doesn't work then bad talk her or something evil that will get her to stop.You should also ask you man not to leave you if he really likes you. Leave fighting to a last resort. Well if you need more adivce on anything just leave me some in my inbox!!I hope I helped.
claire
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HEY CLAIRE! wassup claire? you better know who this is claire :-P Just kidding claire! Ha fun times claire! Remember the jumping off the stage story claire? I'm gonna go claire! You give good advice Claire! Keep up the good work claire!
-Amander Bander- (link)
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OMG AMANDA HEY AMANDA!!! yes i know who this amanda...yea that jumping off the stage story was funny amanda!!!OMG AMANDA BRING IN THE TACOS AMANDA...ok i'm gunna go amanda cya later amanda!!!!
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To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?
I'm 17 he's 18. (link)
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Well i think you should give him some time to get your wholdreams and feelings for other guys out of his mind.It sounds like he really loves you. i think he was just a little urt but give him some time and do something to show you are commited to him. Thats what i would do. I hope i helped. If you have any other questions send them to me in my inbox
claire!!
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My dad died when I was ten and I acted wierd. I didn't cry very much at all. I only cried once or twice. Now I'm 13 and I don't cry about it still. It makes me feel guilty, and I don't know why I can't cry. It also makes me mad because everybody thinks I'm over it, but I'm really not. The last time I cryed about it was last night. But the wierd thing is, is about a month ago I whent to these family riunons, and just started crying for no reason. So here is my question: Am I a freak because I don't cry, and how can I make it so that I don't have the sudden outbursts? Can you help? (link)
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No you shouldn't feel guilty. This is just your bodys way of handling your dads death. This is very common.I hope I helped. If you need me leave it int he inbox
claire
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How can I be sure that I am ready for sex? I want it, but im scared. So how will i know? (link)
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You'll know when you'll know. You'll do it when you beome un scared.Ok this is sort of bad advice but i hope i helped a little.
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13f. i went out with a friend of mine, tom for 4th of july. just us. he was super-polite, introduced himself to my parents, they loved him. we went walking around town together, and we were laughing and talking the whole time. but it kinda started to feel like a date, and i dont like him that way. he puts his arm around me, and asks if he can kiss me. i say no. it was only akward for a minute or so, then we pretty much forgot about it. then we were sitting alone together watching fireworks and he puts his arm around me. we argue for a minute. (cuz i dont mind, i just dont want to lead him on cuz there's no way i'm making out with this guy). so he promises he wont try to kiss me, and we end up holding hands and putting our arms around each other, and my heads on his shoulder, but thats it. he called me the next day and left a message on my cellphone saying he wanted to say hi and to call him back. i dont really feel like talking to him and i dont know if we would have anything to talk about and it could be kinda akward, so, do i have to call him back? if i dont will he think i'm weird about the other night and am avoiding him? (link)
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Well you should be true to your feelings. If you don't like him then you were right to reject him and say no. You should never be forsed to do anything you don't want to do. I hope I helped!!!
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my ipod can't recharge on my computer, and I can't add new songs or do anything with it on my computer, and all I did was unplug then recharger from my computer and plugged it back in.
does anyone know how to fix it?? plzz (link)
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call the help line thats what i would do.Hope i helped!!!
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So theres this guy... he lives down the street from me. We're basically good for each other, I hear that a lot. He's a football player, I'm on the dance team, we always do the same things accidently, he's cute, I'm cute lol jk. Anyways he's come over a few nights, snuck out on a couple of them and we've kissed and cuddled and I loved it. We've never gone farther than that because I'm scared of getting attatched and hurt. He knows I like him, but I'm not sure he's feels the same. I don't want to be used.. It has happened too much to me (my boobs are big... naturally! and guys like them.. but i hate em). Once I start trusting him, it seems like he kind of pulls away. Ive talked to him about it but he never really says exactly he likes me or he doesnt. I think which him being popular he doesnt want to be a really sweet guy or anything around his friends.. I understand that though. It's fine. But it seems like he's only "with me" when it's good for him. When he's at a party with me or when he's at his house and calls me. But if I want to hang out.. its a bit different. He's not as into me as I'm into him. But I dont want to be into him. I dont want to get hurt :( I'm a hopeless romantic tho. If he did something sweet to show that he really liked me, i'd be his, no questions asked. I'm confused! please help (link)
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Well if he doens't want to be with you all the time then i think you shouldn't take things further, unless he says he wants to be with you and says he wants to be with you then i think you should take things further. I think i am confusing myself i hope i'm not confusing you but anyways i hope i helped!!!
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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first? (link)
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Things might be weird at first but soon after things will become more comfortable.
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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything
i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.
recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren (link)
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You should never kill yourself. You shouold think of Harrison is watching down on you and he would want you to live life. Since you guys loved eachother he would want you to be happy not sad. Remember he is your gardian angel. You should talk to someone about this it will make you feel better. It did for me when i lost a loved one. I hope I helped.
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im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]
i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.
ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff.. (link)
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say mom i'm not happy i need help. but if you don't want to do that then you can have her bring it up by putting the idea in her mind. I hope I helped
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