Member Since: July 18, 2005
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Last Update: July 28, 2005
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Hello. I need your help desperately. I'm a female and I hate the summer because I sweat like crazy. As a result of this, I get massive sweat stains under my arms. This makes me extremely self-conscious. I usually put on tons of deodorant with anti-perspirant in it to stop me from sweatting so much, but it doesn't help. I get really embarassed because of it, and now I only wear darker colored shirts because you can't see them as bad. What do I do?! :-( Thank you so much for your help. (link)
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ok wear dove deoderent it works really good. and just wear tank tops so they wont get as sweaty and no one will see the stains!
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Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend. (link)
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you LIKE the guy you slept with but you LOVE your boyfriend. your bf is probably safer to stay with because the guy you slept with could be sleeping with other girls and you dont even know it.
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alright..there is this guy at my work that i used to like..but now i dont like him anymore and he still likes me and he stalks me everywhere..like at work, online, and we had this fun fest and he even stalked me there..and he freaks out at me when i say i have to go..he makes me real uncomfortable and he always stares at me..and everyone knos it.and im scard cause hes a weirdo..and me doesnt leave me alone! what should i do!? xo and im 14 (link)
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just don't talk to him anymore ok! i had someone like that i just told some of my guy friends and they talked to the guy and they watched out for me!
if he still stalks you tell your parents or the manager
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alright there is this guy at work..hes a jr..and im a freshman..and first time we talked he thought i was 16..so for the first month of work he thought i was 16..until he asked me about it..and i told him i was 14 at first he looked taken aback..then he didnt seem to care..and me and him always flirt..but there is another girl there at is a sophmore and they always flirt right when im walking with him and the other girl hates me cause she knos he might like me cause "Robbys" older brother told my sister that he might like me cause it seems like it..but i dont kno..and plus hes 2 years older than me! what should i do?! xo (link)
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hunny just keep flirting away with him! chances are if he didnt care your age he must really care about you!
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well all of my friends wear special underwear, thongs, and i dont like them ,but i dont wanna tell them that, they'll call me granny, but im also not allowed to wear them, and when i do i feel uncomfortable and guilty thinking wut would my parents think if they know im wearing them, HELP ME! (link)
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wear whatever you want! its your choice and what are the chances they'll see the underwear anyway..
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what is dry humping? (link)
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just humping haha when your grinding basicly with clothes on
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im not sure what i should do, a few weeks ago my bf stayed at his mates house who is 39. my bf is 16. his mate let my bf smoke a LOT of weed and he was so drunk he couldnt controll himself.(this has happened a few times whilst stayin at this guys house) my bf has now told me that he is goind to move in with this guy, trouble is it is about 45 mins away from where i live and im afraid i wont get 2 see him anymore. i have spoken 2 my bf and he has just said that he wont do anything stupid but i just dont wanna lose him... any1 got any advice? please? thank you lucee xXx (link)
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okay just tell your bf you are really worried about him staying at that 39 year old house. tell him you dont want him to smoke or drink and its really hurtting you. tell him that you love him too and you want to be able to see him more often! hope it helps!
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is it normal for a girl to have an upset stomach during her period? Because my stomach feels naseaus(sp?)and i feel like i wanna puke and my stomach is all bubbly feeling..this is my 3rd time having my period so any suggestions what i can do. i dont have any medicine so that wont help. 14/f....thanks for neone who tries to help. (link)
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i've had that. get your mother to buy you tylenol or advil it helps a lot! stay away from dairy and candies! it will make it worse! lay down also...
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me and my old best friend emma usta do EVERYTHING together. we were unseperable. i was over there everyweek end, and she came to maine with me wen ever she could.. but then after she went away for x-mas vacation, wen she got back, we just stopped hanging out. maybe because i became closer with my friends here? well im not sure.. but we havnt hung out in.. like 6 months!! any advice on how to get our best friend sparks flying again? pleasee comment with advicee =)
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give her a call and ask her if she'd like to hang out with you, maybe she thinks that you like your other friends more and you dont like her. she could be feeling left otu and she would love it if you called her!
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i'm gonna get my hair colored again pretty soon. my hair color is brown and i have blonde highlights but they're already grown out. should i get highlights again or dye it another color do something differnt? i'm tan & i have brown eyes if that matters. i rate thanks a bunch (link)
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you should die your hair light brown then get honey blonde hightlights! it will looks super cute!
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my boyrfriend is going to college and i was wondering if you had any cute ideas of things i could do for him (link)
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have a special day for him..watch his favorite movie and go to his favorite restaurant then just hang out and just talk about things and tell him how much you love him! take pictures and send them to him so he'll always remember and love you!
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Okay so i'm going to be 14 in August and my period still hasent come yet. My boobs are VERY large for my size (4ft 11in and size 32B).I also masturbate so i dont know if that is affecting it, should i stop? My mom got her period at the age of 11 so i feel like something is wrong. I'm anxious to get my period because dont want to get it at like a really bad time( example: down the beach with my friend). At least if i have it i'll no what/when to expect it. ALL my friends have it so i also feel VERY left behind. Will rate for good advice. Please dont tell me i'm lucky i havent gotten it or its not that great to have, or ne thing like that. Much love, Please help! (link)
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every person is different when getting her period your problem sounds very close to what i had. you can get your period as late as 16 and hey your lucky not to have it you dont have to change your pads or tampons! hah dont stress theres nothing wrong with you and you can still masterbate it donesnt do a thing! hope it helps!
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All my friends masturbate and stuff, but not me. I'm sort of scared because i dont really no about it. I have a few questions.
1-Is it bad for your health
2-will it effect your period
3-will it make sex worse in the long run
4- how do u really masturbate
so confused and so left out. please answer all questions fully and i'll rate high, much love(and confusion) PLEASE HELP! (link)
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okay no for all of the above it is completely healthy and natural. for the last one just rub yourself and finger yourself using 2 fingers or more if you'd like..
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Well my boyfriend wants to have sex with me...but im like i dont know how to explain it but i dont like showing my lower part of my body and no matter what i try to do it still kinda uhm smells a little bit..i shower 2 times a day and it still doesnt help...i dont want to ask my mom either because that's jsut too embarrassing and im aafriad he might hate me after he does it and sees it and you know....
-stuckNconfused (link)
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shave your lower area so it is bald most guys do not like pubic hair down there it gets in there way..ifi it still smells than just shower and maybe rub lotion all over your self or use perfume..thers always gonna be an odor thats just part of the female body
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My sister and I planned a one week vacation in Paris. She lives in Colorado and I live in California so we do not get to see each other often. I made all the arrangements and was very much looking forward to going. Recently, she got back together with her boyfriend and has canceled her trip with me because she would rather do something with her boyfriend. I feel hurt about my sister's choice and resentful towards her boyfriend (although my sister says it was solely her decision). I say she can see her boyfriend every weekend and during the week too and that she can go on vacation with him next year. She says this is her only opportunity to go on a vacation this year with him and she doesn't want to miss it. I know my relationship with my sister is more important than any vacation, but I'm having trouble feeling ok about this. Should my sister have honored her commitment to me? Should I just get over it and wish them well on their vacation? (link)
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this is not your fault. your sister shouldnt have canceled your trip just to be with her boyfriend she can see everyday. call her tell her you are hurt an say you would really enjoy spending time with her. tell her, her bf is invited to that might be the only way that you can spend time with her..
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I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her? (link)
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in some cases teenagers just start to drift away because you have been together so long she might want to try dating other people. ask her to hang out and talk to her about what your feeling and whats going on. sometimes you just need to take a break..
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On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes? (link)
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i think you should see how it goes for a little while and call him on the phone and chat so you two get to know eachother a little better. if he continues to talk about your friend..dump his sorry ass haha or if you really like him talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt even relize hes talking about her! hope it helps hun!
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I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him. Cause i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too. (link)
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i had the same problem..ok do friends with benifits for awhile soon he will start digging you and you will be more!
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my friends are always getting the guys. ill plainly say that. i am pretty, or at least everyone thinks i am, and i personally think i have a great personality. i flirt, i try to act interested but the guys always seem to go for my freinds, even if it seems they are flirting with me, or like me. i mean, i have so much more to offer than my freinds. im going to a an art school for painting, i play the guitar, the piano and the drums, i am the life of the party, i paint, i write, i compose. but it seems that my freinds, who personaly i think are...i hate to use the word...posers(even though we arnt goth or anything, they just think they know art when they, exuse my french, dont know shit). but sometimes i wonder, am i just to mature, should i wait to find a guy, or for someone to find me? i just feel that people will give me a second look, but not want to waste their time or energy on a third. im really sorry if this question had no point. and im sorry for wasting you tome reading it. but can anyone help me get out of this shadow? (link)
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im really not trying to be rude...
maybe boys can sense that you think your better than everyone. by what you wrote up there it seems like your full of yourself. you just need to lighten up around them and have fun!
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school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers! (link)
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okay hun use a revlon hair straightner it works like a dream! you can use straight and sleek hair serum from john freeda or frizease they both work great!
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