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iiM Ariella . iim 13 . uhmm i love qivinq advise so IM me or leave me 1 here ifu need anythinq. muuah! -AriiElLa* . oh and thanx ~*Annie*~ ur great!.








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Why do people make fun of white people? I mean, it's just a color....Also, people will make fun of me because I'm Jewish and it hurts because Jews fought for their freedom just like black people, so why is skin color such a big deal?

Im also jewish and i used to take it personally whens someone made a rude comment about jews or a skin color but then i just think to myelf fthat the person is stupid and ugly haha sorry anyways back to the advice..dont take it personally there are just some really stupid people out there! xox Ari hope i helped!!

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when i laugh really hard i start to pee..its starting to get embarrising. is this a problem? or what can i do to stop?

go to the bathroom a lot, and its not bad it happens to everyone.. it happened to my friend yesterday! at the movies! haha xox Ari good luck!

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a lot of my friends tell me to dump my boyfriend because hes hurt me a lot. but hes also made me so much happier. i dont know what to tell them to stop them from telling me what to do. no matter what they say im not going to leave him. i'd rather die first. literaly. it just gets annoying when they do this to me. its getting me mad at my friends which makes my boyfriend mad at them because i get mad at them. and i havent had too good of friends in the past either. we've been going out for 1 1/2 years. i dont know what to tell them. any ideas?

well usually i would tell you to pick the friends over the boyfriend any day.. but your friends arent the best of frinds.. if they were they'd just be happy for you..tell them how you feel maybe it'll work out. hope i helped! xox Ari

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Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas

get soem art work on it..not like fancy art work like grafitti (ON PAPER) and put all diff kinds of paintings amng stuffcant explain sorry =(

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What are the best excersises and best ways to excercise for a 13 year old in middle school that wants a flat stomach, keep a flat stomach, and build some muscle? And how often should I excersise?

right when you get home from school go around your neighborhood (jog..walk or run lol)..DONT FORGET to stick in your stumach and tighten your but while you run\jug\walk! and at Night you should do atleast 50-100 crunches a night! in about 1-2 months or less you could have a toned stumach!..also eat healthy! xox Ari

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Ok i have a huge problem keeping my room clean i mean literally some days i dont even know if i have a floor under all the clothes on my floor no matter how much i clean. i cant seem to keep my room clean any tips for cleanin it and keeping it clean. Thanks for any help

okay , try putting every single little think that you take out back RIGHt after you use it. You'll get used to it, i used to have the messiesed room in the WROLD but i put everything back before i start something new .. and it works! - hope i helped you! xox Ari

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im a cheerleader and break out alot on my back and on my chest. i am finally done with cheerleading season, so yesterday i put a clearasil acne controll cream on my back and my chest. this morning i got out of the shower, and i was real itchy so i looked in the mirror, and i was forming a rash on my chest, and my back was real red. this had never happend to me before when i had put the acne treatment on it...can someone give me some advice, and what products work best to clear back-acne...THANKS

i kno what you should do! forget about all the other acne crap because it usually doesnt help (and you're probably allergic to the one you used anyways) you should use proactive1 it works SO GOOD it takes EVERYTHING away! -hope i helped xox Ari

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I've never had a boyfriend, because my parents think I'm too young, and I think I am too. But now in high school (i'm a freshman) it's really hard not to want a boyfriend. Another thing is I don't know how to tell my mom that I like someone. Every time I do she always walks away or laughs. She won;t take me seriously. What should I say/do to make her listen. I just want someone to talk to! ;(

haha wow im sort of in your situation accept im not ALLOWED to date!! lol but my mom for some weird reason listens to me and tells me to flirt! haha lol i know its weird! anyways maybe you should just talk to her seriously and tell her you wnat her to take you seriously when you do!hope i helped1 xox Ari

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I have really straight dark brown hair..When I blow dry my hair i have little fly aways.. so I straighten it a little... so then my hair is even straighter then what it normally is... But.. I would love to have like wavy curly hair.. is there any products i could use to make this happen without having to get a perm or doing something that will make it that way forever?

i have the BEST one for you! lol use got2be styling products! they ROCK!! - hope i HELPED! ~please rate my advice =) xox Ari

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ok i havent gotten my period yet this month but it seems like i never have a regular period cycle..and my boyfriend and me were like messing around at his house but i was just giving him a handjob but he cumed but not on me....and i dont think it was any whree near me...and i was expecting my period around the 13 or 14 or around there and me and my boyfriend just recently did this stuff like a few days before the 13...is it possible to be pregnant? but i didnt get morning sickness or anything..

are you kidding me!? NO lol you guys didnt have sex! hope i helped xox Ari

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Ohk i have two questions. Thanks.

First the dance game, i think its called Dance Dance Remix, does anyone know the estimated price of that?

And second.. I want an Ipod and today I went to the mall and checked themn out and i do not want an ipod shuffel but the mini ipod which is i think it said 150 and i was wondering, what other things do i need? Like my mom would make me get a case to hold it in, but How do u get the music on to it do you need a cord for ur computer and how much money would that be?
Thanks so mucH!

its dance dance recolution and im pretty sure its around 60-90 dollars (sorry if I'm wrong!)and laso if you're gonna buy an ipod then get the one with 5000 songs because why spend $250 on only 1000 songs when you can spend 50 dollars more and get 4000 more songs! and the cord for the computer comes with the ipod when you buy it...and im prettys ure it comes with a little rubber carrying case as well! xox Ari ~PS: plz rate my advice =)

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I've seen in previous people asking questions about making out and kissing.. but i'm wondering something. What is the differance, if there is any, between "making out" and "french kissing"

thanks a bundle. ha

yepp, making out has more "feeling" involved lol -HOPE I HELPED!! xox Ari ~PS: plz rate my advice =)

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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

well saying that all guys just want to get laid is a stereo-type (hehe s\p)But the truth is that most guys when they're teenagers only care about sex, they dont really think about finding their "soulmates" or anything as much as girls do. Anyways hope i answred our question and if i didnt leave me a msg. in my INBOX =) xox Ari

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my ex and his gf just broke up he is heart broken and i love the kid to death so feel horrible i have always just wanted to just randomly walk up to him at school and kiss him or tell him i love him but he had a gf so i respected that. they arent dating anymore so what should i do.

Well, if you really like him then first give him some time since he just broke up with her and might still want to be alone or wtvr, and THEN wait to see if he's interested in you as you are interested in him. and THEN you go get him! lol good luck! xox Ari ~PS: please rate my advice! hope i helped! =)

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well i have this friend and one day we started hooking up. After that he asked me if i wanted to keep it between us or tell people and i said keep it between us. We still hook up and we have been for a few months. He hasnt told anyone and i was wondering if hes doing that because he promised me he wouldnt or if hes like embarrassed to tell anyone? .. i dont know because sometimes he flirts with me but sometimes he doesnt really pay attention to me. What do you think?

Well, personally i Think he;s usijust to hook up with someone,If you dont mind then it's fine but if you do and you havent realized it yet then you should tell him you want to tell people and see what he does! lol okay i REALLY hope i helped! good luck! xox Ari. -PS:plz give my advice a rating! =)

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ok well what if theres a guy you like but hes a grade younger than you like your in 9th grade and hes in 8th grade....does it make a big difference? i mean i want to tell him i like him but we are like best friends...its really hard

Sure why not, i dont see anything wrong with it, if you really like him then take a chance and tell him how you feel. -HOPE I HELPED! xox Ari

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Alright, my mom is taking me shopping soon, and I was wondering if any girls know maybe where some really good shirts described as these:

1.Long sleeved shirts that are sort of plainish, vintagish.
2.Tommy Hilfigure brand shirts
3.Mainly shirts that are very nice, and has hardley anything on it, and maybe a few idea on where to get a huge choice of jeans

This would be very helpful, high ratings given to those who list.

omg i know so much about this stuff!, shopping is my LIFE! lol you can get the plain\vintage long sleeve shirts from Hollister (thats the BESt place to get them!, i have SO many) oh and SOMETIMES Hollister and defrinatly Abercrombie, but mostly Hollister, okay and also for jeans Hollister and Abercrombie are perfect! and also urban outfitters and lulu jeans. all good stored you'll like them all, oh and if you like those stores you'll probably love amercian eagle and forever21!! lol hope i helped! xox Ari

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ok, i went out with this girl for four months (13/m), and she dumped me over a small fight and tht she "didnt like me anymore". i thought i got over her, but now i love her again. she knows but doesnt like me back. idk wht to do im going crazy i love her so much

thats sweet..lol tell her how yu feel! xox Ari

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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..

So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!

thanx so much!

DONT BE PARANOID...trust me if he didnt like yu he wouldnt be wth you! think about that..and as for the kissing..it can wait..be calm and be urselllff! xox Ari..-HOPE I HELPED!

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I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice?

Flirt with him a LOT =) and idk invite him over and just talk to him..be yourself! xox Ari

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