ok well i love sports,iv played sports for 7 years but anyways ever since about 2 months ago i have been gettin these really painful pains in my knees & achillies tendons(they hurt very bad) after i finish a sporting event(football game,track practice, e.t.c. I told my parents about it but they just said it will go away soon but it hasnt! my science teacher said they wher growing pains but i dont belive her.CAN ANY1 HELP ME! i'll rate 5
13/male
TO: PAIN!
well i dont have much experience in medicine and pains like that since my participation in sports has gone down to a one-season-sport a year. if you reallie think that something is wrong with you then go ask your parents to take you to a doctor for a check up... i mean if its hurting THAT bad and just totally bugging you then why not? live it up for another week or another couple of days and if it STILL wont go away then definitely go to the doctors...ya noe?
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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do?
TO: He likes me and I like him!,
well the first thing i would like to say is be careful with a kid like this. im not saying not to trust him. its just that you dont noe how many girls hes doing this exact same thing to and if hed do this to you when you guys are dating. get to noe him better first. but if you are REALLIE sure about it, no regrets, well the only thing i can tell you is to wait it off. you cant exactly make him break up with the girl he's with now and you certainly cant make the girl break up with him. and its only fair that she should discover the truth by herself because she is the one with him. ya noe?
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I have three boyfriends. i don't knoe how 2 dump them nicely. Ive slept with 3 of them more than 3 times and i have slept with other guys 2! while i was datin dem!!! AAAAHH HELP ME! how do i break da news 2 dem??????????????? EEKKK!
TO: trouble
well breakups are never easy, and the fact that you cheated on them and have already slept with all three of them may make it a little harder. the first tip i have is to, as much as possible, not to let them find out that you were cheating on them. that would definitely set a bad beginning. also, use your priorities as an excuse. for example, you can say something like: "i would really like to focus on my schoolwork right now and dont think i can balance a relationship," or something like that. lastly, as future advice, try not to do this in the future. its not fair to the next people who come along and would probably create a whole new list of troubles for you. ya noe?
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Dear Advice Giver
I am a sophmore and this is my first year attending public school. I used to be in a all girls catholic school (yeah they exist!!!) I hated it there because all the girls where mean mean girls (like the movie!) I love my new school because i have lots of nice friends, one in particular is charlie (FYI i have never had a guy friend) Charlie does really good in school and we only talk on IM, but whenever we do he signs off real fast (i think it's because he dosen't want to be my friend) The few times I have talked to him in person i stumble over all my words (which i have never done) and blush for no reason. My friends say i have a crush on him, but i have never had a crush so i don't know what they are like. What should i do to make charlie know that i would really like to be his friend, and how do you know if you have a crush. And how do you know if a guy has a crush on you
Waiting Despertly for your advice
Too smart to comprehend
TO: Too smart to comprehend,
first off i would like to deeply apologize on how long it has taken me to reply to your question...i have been awfully busy (as we all are im sure) and im sure you have found a solution by now but if not, well i hope this will help you (and i hope this will be on time, or just a LIL bit late...). well now, just because you act wierd around him doesn't mean you like him. i mean its totally natural for girls to have different behaviors around guys than when around other girls. i do that with a lot of my guy friends. i mean you have never had a guy friend before so of course this is natural. also, just because he signs off really fast doesnt mean he's avoiding you or anything. its a thing that a lot of guys do. just sign on and off or something like that. its totally normal. just keep [trying] to talk to him and soon it'll be as natural as breathing. also try making more guy friend (if you havent done so already) so you can practice talking with other guys and to see if you only act wierd around charlie. who noes, maybe you do have a crush on him. you wont find out till you do though... ya noe?
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hello
hello... whos this? o well hihi -^.^- (hehe sowwy if this reply was a lil late... ive been busied uppp lately)
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ok ...i have this friend that has been my best frind for like seven years and she is so sweet but this year we arent on the same team at skool and she has gotten some new friends and i dont have a problem witht hat ...its just that she has this frind and she has been hanging out with her for a long time and every time im around ...she kinda ignores me .. i dont have a prbolem wiht her haning around her but i think she has a problem with me wen she is with both of us !! wut do i do >????
TO: anonymous
well if she dunt like it that yoo and her new frend hang out together then why not hang out with her wen her new frend idnt around...either that or make frends with her new frend...ya noe?
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ok well i have a boyfriend and everything and i love him, but lately ive been talking to this other guy whos liked me since this past summer, and im starting to like him, and he knows this, but my boyfriend has no idea about whats going on.. he gets suspicious and asks me if i like him but i tell him to not worry about it. i like both these guys a lot and i dont know what to do. when im with my boyfriend he makes me feel like im a princess, but when im with the other guy, i feel totally comfortable with myself.. i dont want to hurt either one of them but when it comes down to it, i know i have to. Help Me Please! ive done everything i can to try to make up my mind but nothing seems to work.
TO: anonymous
well since yor boyfrend was first then mehbe yoo should be with him first.. i mean yoo should reallie give him a chance since, as it seems, he reallie likes yoo... and yoo can totalie be yorself with yor boyfrend too...i mean idnt that wat its all about? yoo shouldnt break up with yor boyfrend just yet...give him more of a chance... ya noe?
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I have this friend that I have been there with all the time. I wanted to ask him out but I don't think I've ever had a chance, been nothing but a friend and someone to free load hw off of... So, he asked one of my best friend out.. It was really wierd because, I was happy for him and her.. and everything, but I was angry and cursing myself for not taking a chance because I could just ask him after they broke up. She made some excuse that she was too busy to go out with him and he was completely crushed. So I left him alone with this, because well.. I'm his friend and I wouldn't want to just aggravate things further. Now there is some girl that is a cheerleader going after him.. She always has short flings with guys and is very capable of having a time to get a guy in her house and do things. I really don't think this is what he needs right now, and I don't want him to be even more depressed because then I will have to wait even longer for him to be ok for me to ask him out again.. *sigh* it's all so very complicated and I just hate this. I always forget what I want to say around him, feel nervous.. gah.. It's really funny because, he just doesn't see it.. like I never have a chance..
TO: all problems come from men..*rolls eyes*
haha i noe wat yoo mean...i have a frend like that...my ex.frend is after my guy frend im soore and its just a sore to see things get the way they are...my advice is to ask him out the soonest yoo can...i mean like...since yoo guys are alredy frends explain to him how yoo guys can be eben closer frends if yoo guys went out and stuffas...this way no one can get in between yoo and yoo wont hab to feel bad about anything.. if he turns yoo down then yoo prolly would feel eben the tiniest bit better coz then yoo noe that yoo at least tried insted of just watchin on the sideline and not sayin anything...ya noe?
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Okay, here's my story... So, I had like a million friends at my old school, and had no problem having fun and kicking back during school and on weekends, but now I moved (for the 5th time), and it's been the hardest move for me, at first everyone was great and i made 'a' team basketball and even popular people were nice to me, but i made a major "mistake" apparently. And now one of the rudest popular people kind of turned her popular friends (the supposed nice ones) against me secretly behind my back, i used to sit by lunch with them and everything, so now i FINALLY found some other people to sit with at lunch, and a few friends to hang with, but i never hang out with them outside of school, and basketball is still going OKAY, but most of the popular people are on the team with me, and it seems like they ignore me, and i really want them to like me, it's just my life has become opposite of how it used to be, it went from fabulo to mediocre, and school isn't that fun anymore.. how can i become accepted and forgiven (i've already tried apologizing in a mature manner!!), i need help, sorry it was long, but can some caring person out there give me some good advice!!!!!????
p.s. and the weird thing is--especially at my old school--III was the one giving the advice!!
TO: School--(fitting in..)
haha i noe wat yoo mean...ive had the ezact same problem and just recently too...anyways i figoored that the best way to work with summin like that is to either move on and just TRY to make the best of wats happenin like say hi and stuffas to them eben tho yoo noe they wont say anything back, try makin frends with one of them (the nicest one of all of em), or just ignore them... personally, i find ignoring them to be the best way coz theyll soon get over it and watebe and wen things chow down then ya can get movin agin...
also i noe the moves can be hard (hehe ive had 10 moves in the fourteen years i have been living) but try to be more social... not being social is kinda a dragg...get to noe yor new frends more and im soore things will work out...ya noe?
o and dunt ferget to keep contact with the old ones...thats important too...
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Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
Ashley
TO: Ashley
stand yor ground on something yoo believe in... if yor frends think that thats gonna happen to yoo then why not prove them rong? and show them how cool yor frend is...mehbe theyll see too...ya noe?
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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks
TO:(anonymous)
...this is your friends problem... i mean like im not sayin yoo shouldnt hab been upset fer her doing thah to her gramma (that is a prtty awful thing to do) buh yoo cant ezactly butt into her bizness...the flippin wadnt a bad thing...it was a natural reaction so just chill about it... yor frend is prolly just coverin upp how upset she was with the "im glad my gramm died" act... i noe that sounds kinda stoopid buh possibly... just gib her time to get ova the hole thing...ya noe?
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hey D, you know me, im just askin a question. im just wondering what i should do about my junior friend. i'm a freshman. also, we've liked each other for a while and he just asked me if i would let him kiss me. i have another guy that likes me, but what should i do? also he asked me if i would not tell anyone if i kissed him, i think cuz he's still with his gf.... im reaallly confused!!
confused retreat goer
TO: confused retreat goer
uhm... im not too soore I noe yoo specifically unless ive ansered a couple of yor questions before...
as for yor question...it all depends on how yoo feel...first thing to deal with is the guy who wants to kiss yoo...dunt get into a relationship with someone whos alredy in one..trust me thats a recipe for total catastrophe... if hes a frend well then thats great but if yoo guys are gonna do summin that mite hurt yoo, him, or someone else in the futoore then yoo mite wanna think about it...
as for the other guy that likes yoo...do yoo like him back? if so then mehbe yoo should gib him a chance...i mean he mite end up to be better than yor junior frend...im not gonna make the choices for yoo buh i hope i helped clear the muddy waters eben a lil...
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does anyone know any websites that you can go to to make your own website? or do you no how to make your own website?? please answer asap
THANKS TONS!
TO: help!!
if yoo wanna website to make websites then yoo can go to www.freewebs.com/ www.myspace.com/ www.xanga.com/ www.melodramatic.com...if yoo wanna make yor own then buy Microsoft Front Page...
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Im 15 male and from scotland. Currently i am in a long distance relationshop and i am confused!
I love this girl, im sure of it. And she loves me too, but i dont know, things seem hazy, its not that i dont trust her of course i do. But like she has a load of male friends and is rather shall we say "close" to them. I dnt mean anything goes on or that jus im not sure what goes on coz i cant be there and see. Like i sed i do trust this gal with my life i jus dont know wot 2 think at the moment, plz help me sum1.
Youres anon
TO: anon
okay heres the thing...just relax...if the gal loves yoo and as yoo sed yoo trust her wid yor life then why not just relax? just chilll and as yoo sed...trust in yor g/f ya noe?
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Does anyone know a site where I can download it or a store where I can buy it...Jessica Simpson's CD Sweet Kisses...Song: I Wannna Love You Forever..INSTRUMENTAL ((without words)). Because I want to do this song for the talent show and I have to have the instrumental of it. Or Michelle Branch--Spirit Room--You Get Me.
TO: Instrumental
yoo can try www.singingfish.com ....thats usually a pretty good place to get moosic
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Am really close to my older cosin and all ways have been. She started seeing this guy james ive known a while. They both love each oyher very much but the problem is she NEVER spens time with me any more. I was the 1 that got them together and now my jobs done am left behind. I know it will end in tears and she'll come runing bak but am stuk for what to do just now.
TO: My cosin & her boy friend!!
uhhh im not soore theres much yoo can do..yoo can ask her to hang out wid yoo like a lot buh other than thah how can yoo seperate them ya noe?the best thing for a friend to do is be there wen another needs them...ya noe?
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ok theres this boy ive known for 3 years and we have a love hate relationship and right now were at the hate part and my friends keep talking to him about me and usually he would say i dont give a f*** about her well just recently someone told him that i loved him and missed him and he siad why would she want to get tied up with someone as ugly as me what would yall think
TO: (anonymous)
ohmigosh one of by guy frends and me were like the same...seriously (well except for the love and hate part)...we were like reallieclose frends and stuff and one day i was on my way to class and around da corner i herd my frend tell him that and he sed the same thing....i made a mistake by not saying anything and i hab yet to fix it (i regret not doin anything about it)... as a caution to prevent anything like that from happening to you: talk to him one on one about it and be as serious as serious would allow...like tell him how you feel and tell him your dunt care how ugly he looked and etc...make soore you two wont get interrupted until yor done talkin to him and he wid you...it woold work like omegha! lolz...ya noe?
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ok theres this girl thats going out with my ex. boyfriend. She took him from me last weekend. But anyways.. Shes going to his football game to watch him in the same vehicle as me. Im going to watch him and another guy i like, well she said if i keeep running my mouth about them(which im not) shes gonna beat my ass. Shes weak and looks like pinoacio. For real she does. Shes butt ugly too. But she wants to fight me tonight. i dont want to hurt her well yeah i do but not if its gonna ruin mine and Chris's family's friendship. Not over an ass like her. Should i fight her. She thinks she can beat the piss out of me. She can't. All my friends come to me if they need help and no one goes to her becuase shes weak as shit. But im thinkin about fighting her tonight. What do u people think i should do?
Signed.. Confused but tough!!
TO: Fights
dont fight...it would onie cause you more problems in da fatootle (futoore)...insted just gritt yor teeth and try hard to ignore her and stuff...like bring a frend and go wid dem or summin...o and bring something small to take yor anger out on...like for me i always carry silly putty around in my purse and so wenebe i get pissed off at summin then all i do is take it out and srew it until i cool off...ya noe?
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im not sure if they really have this online.. but is there anyway that i can play DDR ( Dance Dance Revoloution ) online? and if so.. does anyone know a website i can go to to play it? thanks
TO: i didnt really know what to put this question under...
i donno about actuallie PLAYING it online buh i noe that you CAN download it onto your compooter...im not soore where buh my cozin did that on mine...either i think that the one on the PS2 is betta coz the ones online and on yor compooter laggs the compooter and then you miss like a tonna steps and then its game ova...at least on da PS2 its not like dat...ya noe?
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I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam
TO: Sam
okay well heres the deal: if you dont wanna hurt scott then ask ****** if he can wait it out a bit...if you reallie wanna be ****** then you had better break up with scott soon...the sooner the better coz then the more time to heal....ya noe?
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