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School--(fitting in..)
Okay, here's my story... So, I had like a million friends at my old school, and had no problem having fun and kicking back during school and on weekends, but now I moved (for the 5th time), and it's been the hardest move for me, at first everyone was great and i made 'a' team basketball and even popular people were nice to me, but i made a major "mistake" apparently. And now one of the rudest popular people kind of turned her popular friends (the supposed nice ones) against me secretly behind my back, i used to sit by lunch with them and everything, so now i FINALLY found some other people to sit with at lunch, and a few friends to hang with, but i never hang out with them outside of school, and basketball is still going OKAY, but most of the popular people are on the team with me, and it seems like they ignore me, and i really want them to like me, it's just my life has become opposite of how it used to be, it went from fabulo to mediocre, and school isn't that fun anymore.. how can i become accepted and forgiven (i've already tried apologizing in a mature manner!!), i need help, sorry it was long, but can some caring person out there give me some good advice!!!!!????
p.s. and the weird thing is--especially at my old school--III was the one giving the advice!!
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If they won't accept a mature apology you can't expect to get a mature relationship. I say that you should completely forget about those people. They aren't your freal friends if it takes one persons say to get them to leave you.
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Ok, if you've tried apologizing and they're still bein gay about it, then just forget about them, cuz they're not worth your friendship. The friends you sit with at lunch now, try asking them to hang out. Like you all go see a movie together. The more you hang out, the more you'll get to know each other and everything. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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TO: School--(fitting in..)
haha i noe wat yoo mean...ive had the ezact same problem and just recently too...anyways i figoored that the best way to work with summin like that is to either move on and just TRY to make the best of wats happenin like say hi and stuffas to them eben tho yoo noe they wont say anything back, try makin frends with one of them (the nicest one of all of em), or just ignore them... personally, i find ignoring them to be the best way coz theyll soon get over it and watebe and wen things chow down then ya can get movin agin...
also i noe the moves can be hard (hehe ive had 10 moves in the fourteen years i have been living) but try to be more social... not being social is kinda a dragg...get to noe yor new frends more and im soore things will work out...ya noe?
o and dunt ferget to keep contact with the old ones...thats important too...
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Its alright..i still need advice (LOTS lol) and im a columnist. Well to start off.. you have nothing to be sorry for so why were you apologizing? The leader of this popular group is ovisouly jealous or something..so she turned everyone against you.Well on our bball team..if people are shutting another person out..we have a "team meeting" with the coach or whatever. Just tell your coach the situation and how you want your team mates to get along with you etc. Before you try the tteam meeting..ask them what it is exactly you did? Dont kill yourself over the,..is their loss if they are going to be so stuck up. Popular isnt everything..so maybe you should try hangin with people who arent popular.Im not all that popular but i still have a great cluster of friends. If you start talking to these other people you'll naturally start hangin out with them. Are they nicer girls? If they are definately hang out with them more. It might take a couple weeks..but you'll find your niche in school. Just stay sociable..*you sound very sociable* and you'll be fine!
Write back to me if you rnt getting anywhere and we'll take it from there
-melissa
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