ok, so me and this guy have been dating on and off for 8 months. He's always the one who breaks up with me and I'm always heart-broken when he does. Then he says he loves me and wants me to go back out with him. I know what your thinking, why doesnt she just leave him behind? The thing is, i cant. Im pretty sure I'm in love with him, but i dont know what to do. He told me he loves me, but he isnt IN love with me. Any guys know what this means? And what do you think i should do?
Thanks Bundles,
Jessy
"Any guy who makes you cry isnt worth your tears because the guy who is worth you tears would never make you cry"
^ i think that quote fits perfectly.
sweetheart..the guy is useing you..your his OFF chick..when he has no one eles or wants some1 to entertain him..he calls on you....do you really want to be that sorta girl.
its going to be hard to get over him but your going to find some1 PERFECT for you.some1 who would NEVER want to think or do that do you. im sure your pretty and could get any guy. if he seriousely loved you he wouldnt break up with you in the first place. you just needa be like FUCK YOU IM NOT YOUR HO! IM A PERSON ! AND IM TOO DAMN GOOD FOR YOU!!
because sweetheart..YOU ARE!!
mwahh!!!
good luckk gorgeouse~!!
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This is so corny but i need help! I'm at a camp for my sport and there is this guy and all the girls think he is hot, and he is!! But he's so shy and doesn't talk a lot. But he talked to me during a drill and kept giving me advice (he's really really good) and then saying "that's really good" even when it wasn't and walking back from a drill we talked. he's a year younger than me. but we actually had a conversation and i havent seen him talk that much cept during the game to get passes and such. i'm not sure how to get is AIM s/n, phone # is a bit to foward for me... all the other girls are so much prettier how can i make him see me more?? how can i talk to him more without looking pathetic n how can i ask him for his s/n?! (hurry camp ends friday!!) thanks!!
signed-corny
personallity stands out soo much more than looks.
who wants a pretty girl if she stuck up n shallow. right ? if you come off fun and nice he will WANT to be around you. If you want to talk to him just wait till you see him and be like hey! whats up. try to find something to compliment him on like his game or soemthing. everything should just take off from there.
If you want his sn or number. wait till like the end or the last time you know youll see him and be like aww camp is like soo close to being over...do u like have aim or something?
IF HES SHY DONT BE!! sometime you have to just make the first move so things can get started.
so to stand out..let your personallity shinee. and have self confindence..look in the mirror and say. MY NAME IS [name here] AND IM PRETTY SMART NICE AND IM GOING TO CATCH THAT BOYS EYE CAUSE MIKELA [[maa-kayy-laa]] SAID SOO!
good luck gorgeouse!~
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ok mikela... im just like that girl below.. but yeah... mymom is ALWAYS mean to me!! i cant remember 1 day when we got along with out fighting! i mean sure she seems nice and all in front of my friends and on the phone.. but thats because she changes totally!! and i mean shes only mean to my best friend too because shes use to her! ughh.. ahhhh! and i dont even know what im doing wrong.. im always pbeying her rules.. and everything idk what i do.. am i a bad kid or something? im like totally pissed off!! i dont wanna go on with my life everyday being mad at my mom.. because one day shell leave and the last thing we did was fight!!.. I NEED SERIOUS HELP!
miikela says:
YOUR MOTHER LOVES YOU !
if you want to solve your problem that is the first step. realizing your mother loves you. parents are weird maybe you dont think you're doing something wrong but maybe in your mothers eyes you are. as for fighting.
DONT FIGHT BACK !
let your mother yell at you. Just nodd and do whatever she says. your mother is just mean she isnt just picking on you. shes probally on her period. you know how bitchey people get where they're on it. and it doesnt even have to be that. maybe shes just really stressed out from work or kids or her husbend. just talk to your and tell her
" mom i feel like...(da da da da da)" your mom will listin. they have to theyre parents. and if that doesnt work out tell your dad about.
after reading this say this out loud a couple of time.
"MY MOTHER LOVES ME BECAUSE MIIKELA SAYS SO" and its the truth
^^^ ok member me!!! yeah well guess what mikela.. YOU HELPED! like we havnt fought in like 2 weeks! HAH. yeah and like i only got mad at her once. but thats because im on my period so i get pissed VERY EASILY! hah. but i mean WOW! THANKD MIKELA GOSH I LOVE YOU!
your welcomee. =)) thanks.. if i knew you...id love you too!~
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i broke up with my boyfriend a little less then a year ago...yeah i know its about time for me to be over him. and i am! i have been for about the past six months...but im not sure if i will ever be TOTALLY over him i mean just when i think i AM totally over him he'll start to hang out with my best friend and i get a little jealous bc she is so much funner, and prettier, and everybody likes her. i just want to be over him bc any guy who would make me cry as much as i have over him isn't worth it.
well. first of all. you need to decide if you really like this guy and you need to find out if your friend does. and if she does and shes a good friend she probally deserves a boyfriend ya know. but you need to ask her if she does. and i mean you cant go around assuming. and if she doesnt dont take it as like...agaist you..i know me n my friends have a 2 week wait and a needed aproveal to go out with an ex. and if she does im sure she would tell you. as for your ex. you will ALWAYS have feelings for an ex. they dont just go away. you need to explore it. sometimes we like the thought more than the accutall thing.
i hope i helped.
keep me posted.
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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks
signed
worried friend
Okay here are two things you can do depending on which you think will work.
1. take her to a place she can escape you and sit her down and tell her i love you but what your doing is dumb dangeriouse and NOT COOL! tell her how you feel and how ur scared for her but also keep saying you love her. ask her if theyre is anything going on at home to make her so re beliouse.
2. Try the nicer aprouch and just sorta keep an eye on here. or start trying to do stuff with her..like if she goes....go with her so u can be like noo dont do that thats gayyy.
3. TELL AN ADULTT OR HER MOM.
i think 1 is good. sometimes they need some1 just to yell at them and try to understand at the same time.
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ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...
ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.
please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms
that kid doesnt know what hes talking about!
YOU WORK FOR THE STUFF YOU GET!
TELL HIM TO SHUT THE HELL UP!
hunny your not spoilied and if hes calling you that he doesnt know what hes talking about and he needs to get off his ass n look it up!
lol good luck babe!
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I'm not anorexic i just have a problem gaining weight. I'm 13/f and appx. 93 lbs. i have an extremely high metabolism and can actually loose weight in my sleep.i eat like a pig and i eat constantly. my doctor told me to eat five meals a day but it doesn't work. i've gone to a different doctor and he says i'm normal. i want to gain weight because i get picked on just as much as a heavy kid would and i don't want my bones sticing out. Does anybody with a heigh metabolism know how to gain a quick 10lbs.?
mikela says:
ever seen mean girls..that girl would eat those kalten bars or something and it would make then gain weight quick. try those eat normal and haves those as like snacks or something.
but it shouldnt matter what other people think or say as long as ur friends and family love you its like w.e hey atleast im not a fast ass like you..ya know...anyways...try those kalten bars or w.e..or drink peedeasure..my brother is like that and he has to drink those so he can gain some healthy weight.
sooo. try PEEDEEAURE // KALTEN BARS..
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hi. my dad is a ass hole. he yells at me and i can never do any thing right. how can i tell him that i do not want to work with him.
miikela says :
All dads can be assholes. they will always yell and they will always make you feel like your not good enough. sometimes you just have to let him think what he wants and let him think thats hes has a reason to be yelling. just sit back nodd your head and say i love you. but if u know that wont work jsut be like dad this isnt working if were going to work together your going to have to chill out a little i love you but i mean i just dont want to do this.
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ok im the one that told you sex wasnt as good and you gave me ideas u know to get it "good" again so i tryed STILL not good!!....HE WAS CHEATING ON ME!!!
ughh!!....what do i do ?! i need to get over himm!!
miikel says:
CHEATERS SUCKKK!!!!!
i have heard people who have acsesse to their stuff. useally burn all their clothes or like throw them out the window or stuff like that makes them feel better. hahaha . but like i suggest finding some1 new. =))
hope i helped!
latr love
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ok i know u hate these questions but ive had people tell me to my face that my body isnt "perfect" although they didnt say it so nice and i mean sometimes its just so hard to change what u cant change and like those people just dont understand what im going through and sometimes i just feel so stupid and like its so hard to put it in words and like people who i thought were my friends arnt and know i just hate my fuckin self
miikela says:
recentally i have had this happen to one of my friends. FUCK EVERY1 WHO HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOU! yeah sure there are ways to fix it. like working out n eating heathier. but dont change FOR THEM if ur going to change CHANG FOR UR SELF
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how do you feel when you think everyone is gaining up on you and is against you for the wrong reasons? and then you have no expressions or reasons to show or tell them how it really is and they just dont quite understand what we are trying to say and yet they are taking it the wrong way? like your best friend doesnt even get what you are trying to say. what should i do that the fact i feel that no one understands what i am trying to say and how i think everyone is against me for the wrong reasons?
miikela says:
make new friends. fuck the old ones. =))
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well sometimes i don't think i am pretty or i am soo ugly and that i'm fat (not that much) i have tried to work it out and nothing works.. you wouldn't consider me fat like some other pplz but i consider me fat and my face HORRIBLE!!! i mean what should i do to help it i also have some cases of acne what should i do
miikela says:
YOU KNOW WHAT PEOPLE LIKE YOU PISS ME THE HELL OFF! YOU CANT BE HAPPY WITH YOUR SELF FOR LIKE 5 MINUTES! IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS WITH YOUR SELF FIX IT! WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO! TELL YOU YOUR GORGEOUSE! YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEAM AND THERE IS NOTHING I CANT DO ABOUT IT! GROW SOME SELF CONFIDENCE AND MAYBE ILL HELP! BUT IM NOT GOING TO SIT HERE AN PITTY YOU WHEN YOUR PROBALLY NOT EVEN FAT OR UGLY.
UGH!!!!!!!
(im in pissy mood)
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well whenever i like this guy i really like him at the start and i hang out with him and stuff and then he grows to like me too. the guy always ends up asking me out and then once we go out i tend to grow away from him. some of them are prude to and i dont noe how to break up with them w/o hurtin their feelings ( which is iimpossible but i wanna try not to hurt them alot) well this has happened to me a couple of times i mean i can get guys i just cant stick with them im 13ish and im a female i just need help as soon as possible
miikela says:
love is based on a foundation of friendship. at the begining of the relationship, everything is new and exciting, and not real love. if you really want a lasting worthwhile relationship, you should first be friends with him hang out a lil more more before "going out" drag out the friend phase that way you both know for sure that the other is right ofr you and that the relationship will have much more meaning and thus for fun for both of you
hope i helped
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hey mikela you no who this is.neways im really confused because mi girlfriend of 1 month broke up wit me last week but we got back together, but when i went out wit her for a month i cheated on her wit this other girl.so i broke up wit her and went out wit the girl i cheated on her wit. but now the girl that i cheated on mi girlfriend wit is moving to austin and ill never c her again. and mi old girlfriend hates me but she has every rite to because i cheated on her and i was acting like an ass and she has a new boy friend but iono if i still like her. iono wat to do
miikela says:
(GENERALS WARNING : mikela is in a bad mood and she might be mean or crul. please dont take anything she says TOO seriousely)
If i didnt know who you were. Id say you were a total sleez and you deserve your girlfriend to leave you and you better not go back to you ex and fuck up her relationship cause thats WRONG.
but,
Since i know who you are. I think you should get over you ex. And still try to have a long distance relationship with ur girlfriend if it doesnt work just break it off and find a DIFFERENT girl.
i hope i helped
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Hey guys, I want to put lemon juice in my hair to lighten up the shade a little bit. Anyways when do i put the lemon juice in? Do i put it in after i take a shower, or do i put it in when my hair is dry? Thanks in advance
miikela says:
you put in the lemon juice when ur hair is dry then lay out in the sun for like an hour! you must do this daily though.
hope i helped!
dont forget to rate
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ok... well i like this guy A LOT my friends think im obssesed with him!! EVERYONE thinks we'll make a good couple and EVERYONE thought he liked me too. he even said he did! but he said he wouldnt go out with me because were going to different schools. and then one day he went to camp.. he started liking this girl and everything.. and he was sorta rubbing it in my face.. but then.. she goes to another city.. tell me this isnt wrong.. im soo pissed now.. i know i should stop liking him and stuff.. but its REALLY hard!! theres just soemthing about him that i cant get over.. MIKELA PLEASE HELP ME!! what should i do??
signed,
DESPERATE!
miikela says:
OH MY GOSH WHAT A FUCKING LOSER! honestly "desperate" id drop him. id drop him so quick it wouldnt even be funny.Any guy that would like play you like that is a SLEEZ! If he wont go out with a girl who goes to another school but he'll go out with one in another city THATS TOTAL BULL!
but,
if you really like the dude. id tell him what you told me that hes being a hipocyte and you shouldnt have to take that.!
hope i helped!
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okay, so this guy I was talking about before, well it was our grad like 2 nights ago and he asked me to dance......blah blah blah. After the dance we went to the park, a group of us and of course Truth or dare, i think it's a dumb game and since we were both there we had to kiss. well he kissed me on the cheek. And during this week a girl at school(big boobs) flirts with him and they were playing truth or dare and he had to reach down her bra and get a coin and also he had to kiss her. he has a horrible past. he tried pot and also at this birthday party he had to feel her up. The same girl. Now I'm confused because I've given him like a billion chances and he's blown all of them. I don't know if I should give him one last chance(which was actually the last time he screwed up) or forget about him? I'm like still in love but confused and just trying to get over him. But he says he can change and our last day of school is on Wednesday and I don't think he can. What should I do?
miikela says:
wow.okay. either...
he thinks your special and your more than just boobs and an ass and he doesnt want to mess things up or be known as the guy thats like that.
OR
he just really doesnt like you. personally i think you just need to come out and be like do u like me. cause im not the type of person to play games and i dont want to be led on.
bUT,
i bet your pretty enough to get any guy you want or just get one to piss that hoe off! =)) haha dont worry life has its rises and its falls!
i hope i helped.
rate me good if i did or not so i can work on it!
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how do you tell people your a lesbian i mean do you just say it or what
thnks
lost and confused!
i rate fives
miikela says:
You shouldnt be ashamed of being lesbian. There is really no need to annouce it to LARGE crouds but i mean id tell close friends and family. Im sure they would take it well too they love you and it doesnt matter if u like girls or guys!! Personally i think the older you are the more mature they will take it! Eventually it will get around to people that your lesbian. So it wont be a thing that you feel you HAVE to tell everyone about. Just say to your self.
IM LESBIAN AND IM PROUD YOU GOT A PROBLEM KISS MY ASS!!
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I know all sex offenders have to be registered online; but does anyone know the website for all criminal records ot the people in your area? I know there IS a site because one of my friends was looking at it before but she didn't remember the address. Does anyone happen to know the website? If it helps, I'm looking for criminal records in Virginia. Thanks.
miikela sayss:
ohhh yeahh ive heard of that!! my mom was telling me about it as an excusse not to walk home. i dont know the exstact site but i know u can search it on GOOGLE...or ASK JEEVES...dot com. =)) hope i helped
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okay well what if you really liked this guy and it was ur best friend and all of a sudden you start to have feelings for him and you just know its not right but you just like him and he has the same feelings back, but neither one of us wants to start anything or ruin anything. what should i do?
miikela says:
wow. that is like happening to be at this VERY moment in my life too. its okay you shouldnt be ashamed. personally i would just go for it! hey atleast you can say you tried! best friends always make great couples!
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