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coming out
how do you tell people your a lesbian i mean do you just say it or what
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Just come right out and tell them....Telling friends and family will be the easyest cause if they really love you they will accept it and other ppl will catch on to it
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Well i havent told people i was a lesbian but ive had to tell family and friends i was bisexual.. well when i told my mom it was a mistake because we were in an arguement i was so worried alot that she'd hate me and so on.. but when we got in a arguement it just came out.. well later i told her like i love her alot and i'd hope she'd always except me with my chioces in my sexuality.. and she said why should i care who you sleep with,its your chioce what ever makes you happy.. well i dont know how your parents are or whatever,. well when i told my dad well im real attracted to afican american males and he's never excepted that so he said hopefully you'll be a lesbian instead but yea that doesnt matter.. but tellin my close friends wasnt such a big deal because i been with them for a while.. i think the best way to tell people is tell each person by their selfs and that way if they have questions or comments they can ask you with out alot of people around.. by the way if your tellin friends thats girls i suggest you tell them also your not interested in them so they dont like freak out.. cause i had to explain about a thousand times i didnt like my friends that was females.. ♥ Dez good luck..
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Start out by telling your close friends!
don't rush yourself, tell when you're ready!
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i think the best thing to do is tell them straight out. dont just say "hey im lesbian" but say something that will get their attention like "what would you say if i told you i was a lesbian?" i know a lot of gay people because im in theater. once they come out they have no problem being open with it. come out to someone you truly trust first. see how they take it.
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hey, if your nervous then you should tell people at a good time, so they arent freaked out about it ( some people are like that) and you just gutta tell them how you are.. xox
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You could do that, shoRe. I guess you could also wRite them a letteR if you'Re WAY too afRaid to say it to theiR face..
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My friend is a lesbian and it was hard for her to tell people. But what she did was meet up alone with each of her closest friends..and tell them. She talked to them about how she felt and that she wasnt attracted to ne of us. Now telling people that youre a lesbian is a risk. Some people just dont accept it and some of your friends might not want to be friends with you nemore. But dont worry this is a normal problem and youre not alone. If you talk to each of youre friends then theyre gonna get a better understanding of how you feel about this and where youre coming from. Let them kno that its hard for you to tell them this..but that you had to do it. Good luck and if you need nemore help..ask on here
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I think if they are friends you just tell them. If it is something you don't want to be public knowledge right now...be selective and only tell those you trust knowing. It isn't going to matter one way or another to anyone who cares for you. :)
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miikela says:
You shouldnt be ashamed of being lesbian. There is really no need to annouce it to LARGE crouds but i mean id tell close friends and family. Im sure they would take it well too they love you and it doesnt matter if u like girls or guys!! Personally i think the older you are the more mature they will take it! Eventually it will get around to people that your lesbian. So it wont be a thing that you feel you HAVE to tell everyone about. Just say to your self.
IM LESBIAN AND IM PROUD YOU GOT A PROBLEM KISS MY ASS!!
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It all depends on the place you're in. You could try to be casual about it but I wouldn't announce it to a crowd or anything. I also wouldn't pull them over and sit them down, because they'll think you're ashamed.
Maybe just tell some friends and let them know they can tell if anybody happens to ask. You also must concider how conservative or liberal the people around you are.
People usually take it well though. Especially for lesbians.
-Krupple
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