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i dont no why but i feel so depressed/sad.its probably the fact that my school has teams and i just moved this year to this new town and they have teams for grades. 9th grade-aqua,silver,yellow teams.i am afraid im going to be separated from my friends,and be left out! Since i only no the people from one team,i'll have to start all over. I feel sad and i have been praying for at least a month for me to get on at least one of my good friend's teams. how can i make myself not sad or at least less sad..theres only 9 1/2 days left of school and they send a letter of what team you are on on the week befor we start. I think my ultimate thing that i dont want to happen is have this girl on the team all my friends are on,and become there good friends..while im left behind..i also fear that i'll have to be on this girls team that i dont want to be on. I dont no why im so depressed about this. What should i do ? Im so lost (link)
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if you get on your friends' teams... be happy.
if you don't get on your friends' teams... be really happy.
in middle school i hung out w/the same people all the time... then in high school i got into different classes than them and i was afraid they'd get closer and i'd be left out, but now i still hang out w/ them on weekends and i have a whole other set of friends who are way more fun actually... and really hot boyfriend. so just dont be shy and talk to new people.
and in the meantime... don't stress about it.
"Men worry enough for 1000 years but they only live to be 100"-- chinese proverb.
sorry about the quote... i know that's kinda weird. lol.
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hey guys i was just wondering were i havent got nothing to do this summer i was wondering what good books i could read this summer like books you could get at a public library. Thanks for your help i really need something to do other than sit at the computer desk all summer!
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angels and demons...
best book ever!
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well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!! (link)
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he just wants to have sex w/ you... and let me guess... he's probably really popular too.
1. stop liking him
2. tell him and everyone you know that he's a jerk
3. make your best friend promise to never let you go out and/or hook up with him.
4. go find a better guy... one who's worth your time
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wat are the signs to a girl wanttin u to kiss them i mean i already know some but wat are the others. and what should i do on a first date i've dated plenty of girls jus not literally and i truely like this girl and i really want to get close 2 her (link)
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before you kiss her be touching her already. like hold her hand or put your arm around her. if she is receptive... (fiddles with your clothes or hair, gets really close to you) kiss her on the cheek and then pull back just a little bit so your face is a couple inches from hers. if she looks suprised don't try again. have patience and wait till the second date. if she smiles and doesn't pull away at all, you can really kiss her. but do it slowly and gently the first time. if you gross her out with a forcefull kiss on a first date, she'll probably not want to go out w/you again.
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there is a guy that i have liked for 2 monthes now and every night he asks me to sneak out with him.....to make out and crap like that and i talk to his friends and i found out that he never liked me but he asked me out 2 weeks ago but the only time he will hang out with me is at night when we sneak out!!!! sometimes i say no but he always says he has a surprise for me which always works but im tired of just talking to him at night i want to hang out with him and talk during the day as well but he wont!!! so i no i should break up with him but i dk!!! please help me!!! (link)
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hey... guys can be jerks!!! i can't imagine how you feel. sometimes i felt crappy cuz' my boyfriend (now ex) wouldn't kiss me or act really affectionate in front of lots of people. my guy was just shy of PDA, but yours is just well... a jerk. get rid of him... and maybe doing so will squash his ego a little bit that makes it so he wont talk to you in public. its probably because he's doing the same thing w/ other girls. dont put up with it! break up with him .... now!
good luck :D
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how many calories do u have to loose in order to loose one pound??? (link)
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3500. you can do that 1x or 2x in one week. don't try to lose more than that, or you'll just gain the weight back.
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here is what he said. but first of all...sorry about some of the language he says. we are emailing eachother back and forth...and when i got a new email from him..this is what it said. i have nooo idea what to say back to him! i dont want to just say sorry...that would be like i dont really care or something. i do care..and i feel really bad...and i like him. could you please give me any ideas on what to say to him? dont tell me to tell him that i like him though..im not ready yet. please help!
i found out that my dad hates jews and gays soo we got in a fight cause my singer is bi. now i'm grounded for the weakend and have to quit the band. i told nhim i can't listen to a nazi. then i told him to fuck off. now i'm in my room all pissed off. what a fucker.
you see the whole problem started 'cause my dad said to be home at 10:00 P.M. but al myfriends son't have to be home till midnite or 2:00A.M. so i don't want to say"hey guys. we can't go out cause i have to be home in 10 minutes." Then they would hate me. soo i figure to tell my parents that i can get a ride home but i'll be alittle late. which is true. then i have to wait for kyle to want to go home which is later than he said originally said. so now i have to keep waiting. as it turns out, i end up being 2 hours late. but i kept my parents updated on the time i would be home at. so i finally get home as soon as posable and explain that i tried to get home as soon as posable and i get grounded cause "i'm only 14 and have too many freedoms. I had to wait till i was in college till i could stay out after midnite. you should be lucky. there will be times when you can stay out late but you;re too young now."my alchoholic dad says
I said "Brad is 14 and his parents let him stay out past 2. his parents are cool about it."
My dad responded "i don't care what his parents said. that shows that they don't care about him. we are only strict because we love you."
I screamed "that just shows that they want him to be happy. you keep enbarising me in front of my friends. now ther're probably making fun of me and then what friends will i have? i might as well cut my wrists now. maybe i'll have friends in heaven. maybe some one will care for em there. maybe i won;t have the constant embarasment of having to tell my friends that we can't do anything cause i have to be home earlier than everybody else. maybe if you could let me go to someone's house without you having to call the people and talk about what's going tho happen there and talk to my rides to see if there certain or not, then i wouldn't have the embarassment of having tell them that my mom doesn't trust me. she'll never trust me. she thinks i'm lying about having a ride home." if i call her and say that a ride has changed then she thnks i never had a ride at all. it's like no matter what i do, she thinks i'm doing something wrong. she has to constantly check up on me and know a number to reach me on. if we go to some one's house then she wants me to call her on their phone so she has their number on coller i.d. i ususally don;t even go to a house. this time, we ended up walking around the neighborhood and just talking.
"why didn't you call me and give me the number?' my mom bitches at me.
"we didn;t even go to their house. we just hung out outside."
" why didn't you call us to tell us that you didn't have a number to be reached at?" she's still bitching
"you know i can always be reached on my cell phone." i say calmly.
" you know i don't remember that number."
i say" i can't help that you keep lossing all the papers you write it down on. you need to be more organized. then you can talk to me again."
then she grabs another beer and watches t.v. with my drunk dad.
what the fuck do you say to make someone believe you? what do you do when some one's mind is made up before hearing the real story? all they do is jud my friends by how many piercings do they have? or how does their hair look? or what color clothes do they wair? and what kind of music do they listen to. all they hear are the rumors. please stop spreading rumors. all they do is destroy reputations and destroy families. all the stereotypes need to stop. all they want do is hurt reputations.if you have a problem with some one then just say it to their faces. don't spread rumors.
so here i am. sitting in my room. depresed and pissed. wondering if in heaven, some one would give a shit about me. Hell doesn't even sound to bad right now.i can feel God getting further and further away from me. this is my own personal hell. (link)
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listen, your parents because fucking idiots is the worst reason to kill yourself... ok? don't let them screw up your life or take it away. you can't change your parents beliefs, so don't even try. get over this fight with your parents... once they stop being mad at you explain that you dont lie to them it would make you feel horrible. don't ask for your curfew to change... but when there's somewhere you really want to go and it lasts later than 10'o clock, ask your parents specifically for that time. maybe writing your cell # on a piece of paper on the fridge would help. as far as your friend goes, sympathize and explain that the same thing is happening to you. assure him that it doesn't make him a bad person, it's just his father has weird beliefs. say that you care about him just as much, and that he shouldn't let his fathers prejudice's affect him.
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Ok well im 16 and going to be a jounior in high school. I have a girlfriend... me and her have been really close friends since the end of 8th grade, and at times i liked her.. and she liked me. We never went out until like the 24th of may this year. We are still together. But now that we are together... i dont really like her like that. I mean shes still the same person she was before, i donno as friends we are good but as a couple we are just too different. So how do i get to be single again without loosing a good friend? I'll rate high im desprate.
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"i just want to be friends" doesn't work anymore... because half the time the person doesn't even want to be friends. but since you really want to just be friends, try to do it together so she doesn't feel "dumped". because this will make her embarresed, especially if she still likes you and then she won't want to hang around with you. so bring up "i think i liked this better when we were friends." you'll almost positively get "i think so too...." and it's easy from there. then before the next time you see her at school instant message or text message her (it's less pressure) and talk about friend stuff. it'll help make her less nervous. hope i helped!
sierra
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A couple months ago me and this guy got together. Turns out he said he just wants to be friends. Anyway, Im going to see him next week he lives in west virgina i live in north carolina. When I say get together I dont mean go out I mean we just act like a couple. Anyway, I was talking online and I was like "I cant wait to see you I mean see all of you guys" and he was like "yeah I cant wait to see you either" does this mean he wants to "be with me" again? and not just friends? (link)
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sorry, but i don't think he means anything by it. yesterday i was joking around with a guy and i told him he was a life-changing person (just messing around) and then he spent the rest of the day at the beach flirting with me and trying to have "meaningfull" conversations... alone with me. i gave the guy the total wrong message. i think you are just interpreting what he said as something,when really he doesn't mean anything by it.
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Sorry, I already asked this, but by accidenlty posted it under music instead of theatre:
I got choosen to be an extra in a FEATURE FILM! I was so excited about it, because I live in Connecticut, so I don't really have the oppurtunity to participate in real movies, until now. However I don't know what to do because the day I am called for to be an extra is this upcoming Saturday. On Sunday I am going to New Jersey for the day, for a family party. The Thursday of the next week finals in my school start, as well. No that I have all of this going on, my parents are telling me that they do not think it is a good idea for me to do this movie. The movie location is an hour drive from my house, and it films from 8 in the morning until around dinner time. I just don't know what to do, because my parents say that ultimatley it is my deceision, but they don't think it's right with finals coming up, & me not being home all weekend (plus i have drivers ed all this week). I really want to do this though, because I have never had the experience before, and I don't know if an opputunity like it will ever come again! WHAT SHOULD I DO??
By the way, my mom keeps telling me she has thought long & hard, and does not think it is a good idea, but it is still my choice. The way she says it makes me feel guilty, because I know she doesn't want me to, and I also feel bad because it is an hour away, which takes up her whole Saturday because she has to go there & back & there & back to pick me up. I just am so confused! Oh & I already told my friends about it, so I feel stupid telling them I am not (but that's not my main worry)..
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first of all tell your friends u r having trouble w/ your parents about it. they'll sympathize w/ you. after all ... you've probably wanted this for a long time. Go for it! or you're gonna regret it... Study on the car ride there and back. I became very creative last year on how to study 4 finals cuz' i was really busy. pick your hardest subject and record all the awnsers on a tape of yourself saying them. "Biology- The scientific name for humans is Homo Sapien. We are in phylum animalia and have 3 cell layers we also..." Listen 2 the tape while you are cooking... eating breakfast... riding in the car... walking...cleaning your rooms... waiting in line..." it's really simple if you have a small tapeplayer w/ headphones. definatly the best way to study!
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I want to do this pageant, but I don't Know how to ask my mother and father. I've never really been into pageants, I've always been more into acting and singing. I think it would give me more self confidence. But now that I'm turning 15 I started to like all that pageant modeling stuff. I just dont know how to ask them and to let me go. Also what are some tips that I should know. I've never done this before. They also want to do an interview, so does anybody know what type of questions they ask? It said no past experience is necessary, but I would appreciate some tips and things to remember because I don't want to mess up. Also, Im a little self concience (sorry about the spelling!) I have bad eczema ( pronounced eggsema ) and It's always been an issue for me. Do you think that doing this pageant will give me more self confidence or make my self concienciousness ( again sorry about the spelling ) worse? Thank you!
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i dunno about all of the pageant stuff... but i do know about the eczema. a friend of mine had it it really bad in 7th and 8th grade. this year she went to a doctor and asked him about it. he gave her this cream she puts on her face every night. now her skin is clearer than mine... so if you haven't already talked to your doctor or dermatologist about it (the dermatologist is a better bet... if your family goes 2 one) give it a try!
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I'm a 15 years old girl, and have had 1 boyfriend, which was a joke. I have been asked out numerous times, but each time I deny them. I allways find something about the guy that doesnt work. I have just come to conclusion that I'm afriad. I'm afraid to fall for someone, that might actually feel the same. I'm afriad to get my heartbroken.
I have helped many of my friends battle through heartbreaks, and from hearing and learning from this makes me wonder why even bother dating if they are just going to end tradgicly? I feel like i'm holding back, and I dont want to hold back anymore.
Can you give me advice on getting over this feeling?
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I don't know if i can help... but i can tell you that you're not alone. it's hard opening up to someone new... or anyone at all. i broke up w/ my last boyfriend because i knew he liked me and all, but i didn't know if he liked me that much. i made out w/ him in a movie theater after we had been going out for about a week and then he didn't hold my hand after the movie or kiss me goodnight or call me. so the next time i saw him (monday at school) i broke up w/ him. even though i still liked him. why? i was scared he was gonna break up w/ me. to get back @ me he made out w/my friend... THE NEXT DAY! but it didn't hurt me at all. cuz i had already closed myself off emotionally to him. it's impossible to feel safe and close to someone when you won't let them in. letting go of your fear of being rejected can't be easy. tell me if you ever figure it out.
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I went out with this guy named Chris.We were talking and relized that we were not going to see each other this summer. Since i was going to be gone for most of the summer. So i said to him that we could be friends. But i also think about him all the time. Waiting for him to get online. I think i still like him and i think that he still likes me. But i don't know if i should give it another try or let it go. And just be friends with him? Please help me. My e-mail is mandabear1321@aol.com or mandabear1321@ yahoo.com. (link)
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stay friends while your gone... sorry.. but 3 months is too long to wait around. but when you're talking to him on the phone or wahtever, flirt a lot. then when you get back ask him if he wants to try being more than friends.
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My friend is so annoying ive been dating this boy Josh for a week or so and she flirts with him in maths becuase she sits next to him. She does it on purpose then going on websites in lessons and searches for love metres then types "Abbie" then "Josh" and then she calculates it and i say to her "Omg you fancy my boyfriend" and she is like no i was just wondering what %'age it would come up i was like yeah BallS**** its so annoying every boy i like SHE likes and the MOST ANNOYING THING IS she can get anyone she wants. She has everyone and just flaunts it right in my face when she is ment to be my "Best friend" and when ever i confront her she gets her older sister on me and stuff and goes round the school spreading rumoours bout me and josh and stuff so no one likes me. Then i tell her to p off and get out my life then she follows me and my girls just b/c she is on her larry i hate her i seriously wish she wernt invented! (link)
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ask josh if he likes her. hopefully he'll be like "no girl, i like you." and when he says that, say "ok, i just feel kinda insecure when you flirt w/ my friend all math class. do you think u could stop?" and he'll say ok. and then kiss and/or hug him. then he'll be really aware of when she's flirting w/ him, cuz he might have not considered it flirting before, and he'll put a stop 2 it. and if he won't do that 4 you, he's not worth your time.
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I think i'm in love with my friends sister, shes nine months older than me, and I just have been crazy about her for months! I want to be around her all the time, but the thing is there is no way that she could feel anything other than an okay friendship towards me, Its really frustrating... Any suggestions on trying to get her to like me back? (link)
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does your friend know? because that's the most important thing. maybe your friends sister is a bad kisser, or turns out to be really boring or something. see, what i'm saying is that friends are always there for you, while bf/gf's don't last forever. so just check w/ your friend before you start planning how to get this girl.
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I get embarassed so easily!! I can't help it. Then I think over about what I did all night and I'm even more embarassed!! HOw can I stop this?? (link)
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write down what happened. i dunno why, but it helps.
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My friend and I think these 2 teachers in my school are going out. I really think they are going out. They show all the signs but I dont really know? I try to find out .. but are there any ways that they are expressing their love secretly that I am not seeing. I knwo you are probably like just mind your own buisness but this is really important and its a long story. I justt need help i rate high !! thanks soo much (link)
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just ask one of them. be really straitforward, or maybe just make a comment (but don't do it in a rude way) like "oh... Mr/Miss._________... what did your bf/gf get you on valentines day?" you'll probably get... "bf/gf... i don't have one you silly child." , or "oh... roses." this way they don't have to tell you they have a bf/gf, you're just assuming they do.. hey, might work!
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