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Together Again
A couple months ago me and this guy got together. Turns out he said he just wants to be friends. Anyway, Im going to see him next week he lives in west virgina i live in north carolina. When I say get together I dont mean go out I mean we just act like a couple. Anyway, I was talking online and I was like "I cant wait to see you I mean see all of you guys" and he was like "yeah I cant wait to see you either" does this mean he wants to "be with me" again? and not just friends?
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I would say in "guy speak" he was probably just saying that he was excited to see you again. As in hang out.
Unless he's been dropping other hints. If you can't decipher his signals then I would say to just straight up ask him (in person).
Say something like,
"Y'know I've been getting some really mixed signals from you and I know that you said you just wanted to be friends a few months ago but have you changed your mind since?"
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sorry, but i don't think he means anything by it. yesterday i was joking around with a guy and i told him he was a life-changing person (just messing around) and then he spent the rest of the day at the beach flirting with me and trying to have "meaningfull" conversations... alone with me. i gave the guy the total wrong message. i think you are just interpreting what he said as something,when really he doesn't mean anything by it.
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That's kind of tricky because you never know what guys are thinking. Maybe just play it out when you see him and see what he wants. If he wants to "be with you" and you want to be with him go for it!!
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No hes just probably happy to see you again, as a friend. Maybe find someone closer to you?
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Umm it all depends just see how he acts around you when you get there .. I mean you guys dont leave near each other do you think that it is going to work out? I mean do you trust him enough to know that when you are not around that he wont cheat on you. He might just say he misses you as a friend or maybe even more just see how he acts when your with him.. Hope I helped..
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well i guess it all depends. i mean he could just have said that because he was nice. and if you really want to know that he likes likes you than you can do is make him JEALOUS. you know, flirt with his other friends in front of him. and see how he reacts. or you can just straight out ask him if he likes you more than friend. BUT even if he does, there is many chance that you will get hurt after the relationship, because he lives far away from you. well not that far but i mean doesnt go to same school. its either that or you will find a new guy at your school. but Since its summer!
SOAK UP THE SUN AND LAY BACK!
HAVE FUN! and what if he dont like you, there will be other guy who does and just ask him casually
"hey so and so, do you think of me as more than friend?"
and he will either say yes or, actually no.
and if he says yes, thats great.
and if he says no...than say
"ok good thats what i thought but my friends keeps telling me that you liked me more than as friend"
you know , so you can save some embarrasment =)
so i hope it works out for you
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If he said he wanted to be friends he probablly meant it. It does not have to mean that he wants to be with you in that way. He misses you as a friend so dont think of any other ways right now. When you see him both of your feelings will mix up a little and you will find out if he wants to be with you. ex__oOh ♥
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No.
Your Rating: You called me a homo and told me to fuck my mom.
Im assuming you weren't referring to homo in the sense as "same" because in that case, if I were to fuck my mom and you called me the "same" that would imply that you are not only a lesbian, but you are also into incest. Since you tried to use it as an insult, im assuming you were implying that I am a homosexual. But if im homosexual, why would I want to do my mother - A woman? I gave you completely legit advice and you took a nice brash hostility to me. If you want to try and insult me again, feel free. But you seriously need to learn the meaning of what you say before you go and just randomly yell it at people in an insulting way. You sound as intelligent as the kids that go "ROFL ROFL NOOB".
You read into things far too much, even my own comment you seemed to find something horribly harsh and derogitory. If you really don't want us to give truthful advice, then don't ask. If you want everyone to agree with you, then you shouldn't post on this website at all. The few people that actually try to be honest and keep kids from doing moronic things on this site will respond to your question in a somewhat harsh but realistic way. Is it fair to get pissed? No. I am one of the people that will give actual advice on this site, instead of saying "Oh yes, thats wonderful, I agree" to whatever you ask. All you damn kids are horribly misguided and you in fact do NEED people like myself to guide you, hold your hand through life. I know plenty of people that live in disabled group homes that are far more capable at taking care of themselves than you.
Im sorry, but your utter ignorance repulses me.
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