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he asked me out but is he using me
there is a guy that i have liked for 2 monthes now and every night he asks me to sneak out with him.....to make out and crap like that and i talk to his friends and i found out that he never liked me but he asked me out 2 weeks ago but the only time he will hang out with me is at night when we sneak out!!!! sometimes i say no but he always says he has a surprise for me which always works but im tired of just talking to him at night i want to hang out with him and talk during the day as well but he wont!!! so i no i should break up with him but i dk!!! please help me!!!
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if hes using you then you really should break up with him. or another way of doing it is pay some guy thats better than him to tell him that hes been going out with you for 3 months then he'll be off your case because he'll probably break up with you.
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hey... guys can be jerks!!! i can't imagine how you feel. sometimes i felt crappy cuz' my boyfriend (now ex) wouldn't kiss me or act really affectionate in front of lots of people. my guy was just shy of PDA, but yours is just well... a jerk. get rid of him... and maybe doing so will squash his ego a little bit that makes it so he wont talk to you in public. its probably because he's doing the same thing w/ other girls. dont put up with it! break up with him .... now!
good luck :D
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OF COURSE! YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THAN THAT GIRL!
trust me it will all be for best! if he really cares about you, he will NEVER wants to do those stuff to protect you! and if you are free from that guy, you will end up meeting a BETTER guy who doesnt want to sneak out or do anything bad.
and who loves you for you!
so get out there and place your opinion!
if he wants his little night play mate than he can just go find another one because you deserve so much better than that!
and other guys will see what you did and probably think its cool of you to place your opinion!!
so go ahead girl! get your life back on track of your DREAM!
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I think you should break up with him. If he's seeing another girl & just using you for a fun time at night then he does NOT deserve you. I know it may be nice to hang out with him & you wanna continue in the day but he's got some problems if he's doing this to you. Listen to his friends because they are around him more than anyone & it's nice that they care enough about you to tell you the truth. Maybe one of his friends could be future boyfriend material? If you need anymore help, feel free to ask me!
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Let me tell you I used to do the same thing just like you. I used to like this boy soo much like I would do anything in the world to be with him he was so sweet and everything. He just got out of a relationship with his last girlfriend.I thought that they were down for good. I went to his house for thanksgiving and met his parents.But that was the only time I once see n him durning day time.Then everything went down hill he would call me at 9:30-10:00 knowing I couldnt come out and he would say please come sneak out and I could say no then he would say fine you dont want to be with me and then he would be like I want to be with you and I have changed. So i would sneak out and he would want to get some and I would give it to him and then so on for a while. Well i got feed up with it. I got the point that either he was still messing with his ex durning the day or I was just a sex toy to him. So I told him enough was enough and what do you know he went back to his ex. Well i moved on a year later he come to my work asking me to go to dinner with him and yet I still told him no. He realizes that he had a good chance and he messed it up. Im not saying that you have to stop doing what your doing but it seems to me that he is using you. and im sure you are a better person with that law down the lay tell him enough is enough if he wants to see you then he will see you at a decent time if not then he can find someone else. Hope I helped.. Rate me
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get a clue. obviously looks matter.
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You should go with your gut. If you feel like he's using you and you should break up then do it. If you feel this way now after 2 months it's not going to get better. And if you have to sneak around then you should not be doing it. If you aren't doing anything you shouldn't be then why sneak???
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I would. No Offense but he could be cheating on you. He is a JERK! BREAK UP!!!! RATE ME WELL! ANy moRe questions send to my inbox!!! thanks!
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Sound to me like he is ashamed to be seen with you and using you. Break up with him, simple as that.
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Break it off now before it goes to far he is definetly using you
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you're completely right, if he just wants to hang out with you at night, he could have another g/f, or is just trying to get some action from you b/c he knows that you like him. you should really have a long talk with him about hanging out during the day and if he completely ignores you about that, then you should ditch him, he seems like a jerk, i hope it works out for you!!
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You know what? It's obvious he's just using you to fulfill his sexual needs. You're right he's just using you. If he likes you like you do to him then he won't just come at night and refuse talking to you at day. I know it'll be hard breaking up with him but I can see also that you're hurting more and more. Don't let yourself be in his trap again. Next time he sneaks at you in the night. Tell him you won't let him do that to you anymore. If he wants still to let your relationship going then he'll talk to you in the morning and hang out with you. If he doesn't like then tell him face to face and with conviction that you don't like to sneak with him at night again!
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