Member Since: May 19, 2005
Answers: 7
Last Update: June 10, 2005
Visitors: 1035
|
| |
|
there is a guy that i have liked for 2 monthes now and every night he asks me to sneak out with him.....to make out and crap like that and i talk to his friends and i found out that he never liked me but he asked me out 2 weeks ago but the only time he will hang out with me is at night when we sneak out!!!! sometimes i say no but he always says he has a surprise for me which always works but im tired of just talking to him at night i want to hang out with him and talk during the day as well but he wont!!! so i no i should break up with him but i dk!!! please help me!!! (link)
| |
Sound to me like he is ashamed to be seen with you and using you. Break up with him, simple as that.
|
|
ok i always wanted to try something with my friends that are girls..im 14/f btw...and everytime i try to say something they say theyd never do that or whatever ..and i give them hints that i wanna do things with them..what should i do?? (link)
| |
They may not want to try anything because they aren't bisexual or lesbians...
|
|
Ok, i'm 15 years old and i've had my period for about two years. It's VERY irregular. I'll skip two months and then get it, and crazy stuff like that. It's never the same time of the month either.. not that i can really remember since there is so much time between periods. I'm 5'6 and i weigh 105. I'm skinny and some websites say im underweight and to go to a doctor. I eat though! I just have a fast metabolism and exercise. Do you think it's because of my weight? Does that sound unhealthy? Why is my period SO irregular STILL after two years? haha thanks. (link)
| |
Sometimes it's not considered irregular or unusual, even though that may be hard to believe, but in any case you should really consult a physician. It could be normal for you. My sister does pretty much the same thing with her period, and for her it's normal.
|
ok... so i know this is going to be one of the dumbest things you've ever heard... but... my best friend.. idk she doesnt make me feel very good.. she does things that cause me to cut myself.. and she steps all over me.. i bend over backwards to try and make sure she's happy and everything.... but she just doesnt seem to appreciate me.. i'm a really pure hearted girl.. and it's gotten to the point where she could slap me and say she hated me and i'd still love her.. kinda like when you hear about those guys that beat there wives and they stick arond and dont rat on there husbands.. i know its dumb.. but idk... im not happy in life... she's made me weak and insecure... she swore she hated this girl amanda....those two hated eachother for the longest time... and now its like nothing happened and they're best friends again.... i hate it.. and all of my friends say to just forget my bf because she isn't worth it.. but no one understands how hard that is for me..... i know i shouldnt stick around... but gosh.. its so dang confusing.. please help me anyone!
5's to anyone that helps...... :'( (link)
| |
Ok...it is hard to forget your best friend, I mean, she's been through everything with you and understands you better than anyone, but there is no reason that she should be treating you like that. She should be giving you the same respect that you have given her. So, as hard as it may seem, you should tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't like it then, screw her. She doesn't deserve to be a friend to some one as nice as you. You deserve better. You deserve some one how wont bring you down like that. My answer to this question is forget about her if she doesn't realize how much she is hurting you, ok? Good luck...hope my advice helps
|
|
I feel empty. I want to be happy and I want to live my life like I always have, to the fullest extent. But now it seems like every reward is meaningless. And I hate to say this, but it is because of a guy. When I let guys control my life, I dont know. But it happened. I can not stop thinking about this one guy. I dated him for 7 months but then I was the one to break up with him. I mostly was just scared hed fall for someone else and eventually dump me. But I cant stop thinking about him and my heart hurts everyday from thinking about him. I feel lonely constantly even if i am around all my friends. I hate using that cliche about putting on a fake smile but its true. And I am even more depressed because thats never been true. Not only that but the guy I like is also liked by my really good friend. We have been friends just this year and she doesnt know I dated him. I dont want to tell her and I am determined that if they just date then I can get over it. I have cut myself over this. I dont do it to kill myself I do it because I want to hurt myself. This has been my freshmen year and one of the worst. I know I must sound annoying with all this teenage drama crap. But it just hurts so bad. And I dont want to hurt like this. I dont want to keep crying myself to sleep praying that this will soon be over. I know I am being melodramatic and I know im being whiny but I cant help it anymore. I have these thoughts of him constantly of when we would kiss and when we would cuddle. And it kills me. Ive told him I like him and he says he likes me too but he also likes another girl. And that kills me even more. I just want this to stop. I cant take this anymore. Please someone tell me what to do. Im 15, sick and tired. (link)
| |
Ok...well, my question to you is: Do you really just like him or could it be love? I mean, the way you are talking about this guy makes me think that you are head over heels in love with him. If that is truly how you feel you should tell him that and hopefully he will give his love in return. As for the other girl, there is always a chance that a guy will like another girl, there's no stopping it. Your other option to this situation could be to just wait, let him date other people, and let him see how he really feels towards you. If he cares about you enough, he'll come back...take it from me, dating other people isn't a bad thing. Give it a try. That's what I did with my boyfriend and ever since then we've been going out. It's almost been a year now, too...so I hope my advice works. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
|
ok i have liked this girl named kari 4 a very long time and she likes me she goes 2 my school and lives close 2 me i dont like her i love her and i kno it but i datid her 1ns and then we broke up b/c she still had fellins 4 her x i rlly wanna date her agn what should i do
P.S.im 13
*$*need help*$*
(link)
| |
Well...I think that you should just wait and see how it goes. Everyone probably has feelings for their ex's, there a part of you, you know what I mean? So maybe, if you just wait she will realize that she's being stupid about it. Until then, just be her friend and stick by her.
|
I'm 17, and so is my girlfriend, though most of the time she's a lot more mature than me because she's gone through a lot more. I've messed up a lot in my relationship.. nothing extreme, theres just a lot about me that bothers my girlfriend, and she's gone through times when she puts serious thought into breaking up with me, and truthfully i dont see why she hasnt. but what bothers her is basically just a lot about me that i can't help much, like things that i do without thinking about it, and the fact that i use to be a big flirt and sometimes have trouble stopping that.
she's always been more than faithful to me, and has never strayed away.she's debating giving up trying with me and i love her more than anything, she's perfect for what i want to be and am trying to be. but i need to know whether or not i should just let her go and live without my complications or not. please respond quickly. (link)
|
Not to be mean or anything, but if she talks about breaking up with you so much, then I think you should just grant her wish. You can't help, but be you. I say just let her go, who knows, both of you might be happier that way.
|
|