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i love giving advise, so ask me anything. m'kay? &heart's; Kayla
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i have had feelings for this guy and my bestfriend has known this for years
i've heard he likes me too but sometimes he's so sweet and sometimes he's an ass to my face and teases me........the only reason i keep having feelings for him is bc deep down i can tell he likes me.
my bestfriend just had her heart broken from another guy and i helped her through everything........i was always with her encouraging her and bringing her flowers and crying with her.
a week later we were at a part.....i walk into a room and she is hooking up with the guy i like!!!
i can't begin to explain how bad that felt. i mean he's the reason i come to that party. he's the person i dress up to impress. i've liked him foreverrrrr! and my bestfriend???
so the next day i talk to her and tell her that she really hurt me. and she says she was drunk and she didn't know what she was doing. i tell her whatever and just move on.
but then the next week. i was at a party and i can't find her again! so i go upstairs and she's hooking up with him again!!!!!
by now i am sooooooooooooooooooooooo mad and sad and frustrated i just leave. i figure she's doing this bc she had her heart broken and she's trying to do it to me so i can feel it too.
the next day i talk to her and tell her she's being so low and i don't know what's going through her mind!!! she says she has feelings for him too. she's never told me that. and there's no reason i should be mad bc he's not my "property" and that when he starts making out with her......should she stop and tell him i can't bc my best friend like you too!
and then she also says the reason he's an ass to you sometimes is bc he just doesn't like you! you need to come to realize he does not like you!
and now i think she's going to start dating him.
she's been my bestfriend for 9 years. and i do everything with her.i don't want this to ruin our friendship. but i think it is already.
i feel like i've lost the guy i've always wanted and my bestfriend at the same time and i have no one to talk about it with.
First of all let me say that your bestfriend is evil. Don't listen to her when she says that he doesn't like you, the only way to find out is to ask him. It doesn't matter if she was drunk , on crack or just plain out of it , she shouldn't of did that to you. After all you've did for her, why should you forgive her. Just try & ignore her or tell her you don't want to be her friend. But if you really don't want to loose her then go find some other guy. Call that guy or meet him somewhere and ask him if he likes you, that's the only way you'll know the truth. She's just thinking about herself, and obviously you care about her feelings more than she cares about your's. Since she did this once she's bound to do it again. FORGET her, she's so mean. :]
hope i helped x
♥kayla
are there any good acne scar removers out there that is cheap? i have tried cocoa butter and i have not seen any results at all and ive done this for like 2 months..
Proactiv. i'm pretty sure it doesn't only keep away acne but removes scars too.
hope i help'd x
&heart's;kayla
well i really need alot of salf but i dont have the money what can i do can anybody plz answer my question
what's salf? never heard of it?
&heart's; kayla
hi, im 14 and im a girl and i have been going out with this guy for almost a year, on and off, and now that we're going to be in highschool, its going to be a whole different story. this is kinda a long distance relationship and we dont hang out alot. and we are going to different highschools. and then theres this other guy. hes going to be a jr and he really likes me and stuff, and i kinda like him back but i hear from people hes a player. and i dont know what to do. do i dump my boyfriend and go out with the other guy or do i stay with my boyfriend and forget about the other guy? and i mean its kinda hard because i have toi worry about the cheating thing. and i just dont know what to do.
Forget about both of them. That came to my mind really fast. If you hear that that guy is a player, why take the chance when there is so many other guys that can treat you right. Save yourself a heartbreak && forget about him, he's not worth your time. and even if you ask him if hes a player then you know what he will say [no].
Now about your boyfriend, i would forget about him too. He goes to a diffrent highschool so you don't know if he'll cheat on you or break up with you for some one else. and since you guys can't see each other that much then i would see your relationship as boring. Just explain to him that it's not working because you guys live far away and he's not going to the same highschool. He should understand. :]
hope i helped x
&heart's; kayla
i met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we hit it of right away and i went to go see him and his a really nice guy and everything i dont know what to do im confused i like him really lots but i dont want myself to get to the point where im to attrated to him to much cause where i was hurt before
Do you want a long relationship? If so make sure he wants one too. & if he doesn't don't get to attached to him & go out and meet some other guys :]
&heart's; kayla
I shaved "down there" about a month ago. I got terrible bumps, which I guess I should have expected. But these bumps haven't gone away and now they are like pimples, getting white heads and they bleed when I pop them. Is this normal?
And no, I do not have an STD...I am married, happily for 7 years and there is no possibility of either of us cheating.
I will never shave "down there" again, I was wondering how Nair would work? Any suggestions?
It's normal. i get them little pimple looking things too. i think anyone that shaves will get them. i even got little bity scares. yes it sux. i used nair on my legs and i sware i will never use it again. i think using it on your private will hurt reealllyy bad. i wouldnt suggest it. :]
Ok. Im thirteen years old and I'm around 125-130 lbs. I'm not sayint i'm fat, I am just really muscular in my legs. Although, I do have alot of, un-wanted fat in my stomach. My mom says I don't need to loose weight, but that is what moms are supposed to say. I look at my friends, or family, and they are so much smaller than me. Me and my best friends share clothes all the time. But my clothes seem to be a little baggy on her. I always feel so bad. :( My question is, what are some ways I can loose weight? I would like a detailed answer please, not just "eat right and work out." thankyou so much in advance. :)
Well i have the same dam problem as you. my ass is so dam big and i hate it because i like hollister and i can't go there cause my ass don't fit in the jeans. anyways, back to you. ( lol ) get zone pilates. Thats what i just ordered off the TV. it helps sculpt your thighs,stomach, and arms. People say crunches and situps help to but you have to do like 200 a day. that's alittle exteme if you ask me. If you want to tightin your but do squats. I know you didnt want this but eating healthy does help. If you drink alot of soda then just drink water for a week it will help trust me. Or stick with water forever. I heard bread makes you gain weight so try to stay away from that. Greasy foods like Mcdonalds , arent healthy either. Which leads me to the next thing. I highly suggest you get this book it's called " chew on this " it tells you about how fast food isnt good for you. And also walking around the block or riding a bike for like 30 minutes helps. i heard when you work out you get fatter and then start getting skinnier.
well hope i helpd.
&heart's; kayla
Ok..im 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?
It's not hard to make out with someone. You might think so but seriously its not. i thought the same thing before i made out with someone. & then when it was over with i was like omg that's nothing. You really can't go wrong making out with someone. some little tips:
* Don't make the first move, unless your really confident.
* If he leans really close to your face just move in and let things " ride ".
* When you guys go to makeout put your lips on his like your just kissing him, and then he should open his mouth and you open yours, but make sure your lips are still touching. stick your tongue in his mouth, not to much but not to little, just anough so your touching atleast the tips of his tongue. And go with the flow, play with his tongue as if you are playing footies. Don't go to fast though, be gentle && be romantic. Don't drull. and try not to eat his face. (lol). things will be alright. and chances are you wont mess up and if you do then he prob wont say nothing about it. Or you can practice on someone that doesnt matter. and one other thing when you want to stop just pull away, and after you pull away just kiss him on the lips or cheek. :]
hope i helped.
&heart's; kayla
This is for mostly for the guys but ladies please answer too!
I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. Any suggestions? What would you guys like to get as a present? Thanks in advance. =]
Well it depends on the person. I don't think you should ask him because if he tells you what he wants then hes gunna think " duh shes going to get it for me" so then it won't be a surprise. but if you dont care if its a surprise or not ask him. Just think about stuff. does he play video games? if so what kind? get him a video game or something. I think buying guys flowers are kinda weird. I think you should make him a card. it will probably be more speacil. Im really creative, if your going to make him a card cut out things from magazines or something. Buy him a stuffed animal. Buy him a movie, um mabe a pair of shoes, a shirt, clothes in general. Make him a cake, buy him cologne. You know? just think about it.
hope i helped. :]
&heart's; kayla
ok so i am a virgin and one time i slipped a condom onto my finger and stuck it inside of me to see how it felt, then this white stuff appeared in my vagina and it smelled like latex. what was it?
Well it was probably your discharge or something from your body. and it just smelt like that because lub got on it. nothing to worry about... :]
&heart's; kayla
im 13/f and i finally found a guy i would like a long term relationship with but my friends are just laughing at me and makeing fun of me like guys are not an very important factor in my life but i dont know how to show them im serious. Please help.
sleepiesheep
You don't have to explain your self to them. But if you really care what they think then just hang out with him 24/7. they will be like "dam" she really likes him. lol
&heart's; kayla
i have really thick hair and i want to know how i could maby make it thinner. im looking for natural things that you could find around the house. But anything would help.
I'm not quite sure if there is anything around your house. Go to your local hair salon, and tell them you want to get your hair thinned. If you dont think they are thinning it enough tell them to thin it more. I think it costs the same as a haircut.
hope i help'd :]
&heart's; kayla
ok so last night i have this guy come over to my house and we were makin out and shit and he then started to finger me. It got harder and harder. He fingered me so hard tht i was hurting after wards and i didnt tell him to stop goin so hard because i didnt want to look stupid. it even hurt when i had to go to the bathroom. well i thought it was just the one night thing. but now im hurtin again and still when i go to the bathroom.. if anyone has any advice on what this good be or if its normal. everything is appreciated.
Well first off you should of told him. Nothing is wrong with that. I think mabe this is normal but if it keeps hurting go to the doctor or a gynacoligist ( sorry if i spelt that wrong ). Its a doctor for girls. I doubt it is something serious. But next time let him know. You dont want him to damage anything.
&heart's; kayla
... really hope i helped :]
O.k. now I always give good boy advice but this has never happened to me or anyone else I know. Ok here's the situation:My boyfriend hasn't called me in 4 days! Thats not normal 4 him he usually calls almost everyday if its only a 4 minute talk or 4 hours. I mean there are plenty of situations to where he can't call like for some example's: His grandmother won't let him use his cell(their hous phone is disconnected),he's punished, or he's working with his uncle. but he doesn't work 24/7 so he could of called. What do ya'll think of this. Is he gonna break up with me or what? I mean its ok if he wants to break up with me but everyone knows (even his own mother and my mother!!) that he loves and adores me. The last time I talked to him he didn't act like anything was wrong everything was perfectly ok and I can tell when somethings wrong with him or anyone by attitude, tone of voice, and stuff like that. So anyone got any tips on what I should do and what he's trying to tell me, (if anything, cuz no matter what he usually tells me straight up no matter how bad), or why he's ignoring me!> Just anything please help me!! I'll rate high for good answers.
My first thoughts of why he isn't calling you is mabe because he is busy, but to me 4 days would be a big deal. Mabe hes on vacation? Mabe he's sick? Have you tryd calling him? my advise is call him and if he doesnt answer and doesnt call you in the next few days mabe he wants to break up? He just doesnt want to tell you. Don't let him leave you hanging. If you do talk to him then ask him why he hasnt called you? and then ask him if somethings wrong and if he wwants to break up. I think this has happened to me before. Why the boy didnt call me was because he found another girl. Now, i dont know if you b/f is doing that so dont worry yet. Just simply call and ask or even go over his house. Thats really all i think about your situation. Hope it works out for you and him. good luck :]
if you have any other questions then just leave it in my inbox. kthnx
&heart's; kayla
are chi straightners good? like really good? i'm trying to find a new straightner for this school year. i'm free for experimenting but i have to use my own money so i want some backround information before i buy it. and what's the average cost?
oh, and if there are better straightners that are like out-of-this-world (and under 40 dollars please), i'd like to hear about them too. so far i used conair and remington but they're not working as well as i was looking for.
thanks a bunch!
Well today i just bought a ion. thats the brand. i think its new. it was 80$ though. i got it at sallys beauty supply. and ive been using vidal sassoon , there is 2 colors black with gold plates. and white with gold plates. you can get them at walgreens or anywhere i guess. they are 20$ but omg they work so good. i used to have ceramic but that dont work good , and it cost 50$ which i also got at sallys. but vidal sasson works really well if you are looking for something cheap. if you can afford the ion then thats what i would suggest deff.
hope i helped!! :]
&heart's; kayla
alright well i have a lump in the back of my throat and i felt it to see what it was and it feels like a bone inside of my throat, it dosnt hurt or anything it just feels like a peice food is stuck or something, i'm kinda paniking so if anyone has any seriouse advice please answer thank you
Go see a doctor. Im not quite sure what it is but its prob something serious. tell your parents.
&heart's; kayla
Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is causing me to be depressed I'll give you some examples.on my 17th birthday she told me that nobody loved me and that I was stupid becouse I was in special ed classes at school.my granny also told me that Iam to fat for my own good and she told me that my mom killed my dad becouse she divorced him when I was 3 and said it broke his heart and that's why he died,but I think she had a pretty good reason for divorcing him when I was 3 becouse he molested me.I took an extra adderal and bloodpressure pill today hoping I would lose weight becouse my granny keeps telling me that iam fat and ugly and I was kind of hoping it would kill me from overdose.my cousin is the only person I can go to with this problem becouse I can trust her to keep it a secreat.I've talked to my cousin about my suicide attempts and she just kept an eye on me and didn't tell my mom about it becouse she knows how my mom is.what should I do? please help me urgent.
Ignore what your grandma is saying. She's just trying to make you the way you are. ( depressed ) she wants that. The devil is in her or atleast it was. Most old people are mean , just tell her to shut up. i see it as shes mad cause shes getting old. Dont take extra pills to get skinnier. thats stupid. be happy with your body, shes not anyone to worry about. Go see a couselor or something. did you tell your mom about your granny? Just ignore her and try not to be around her. Dont kill yourself, that deff. wont solve anything. your 17 and still going on with your life. dont let a stupid old person stop you.
hope i helped.
and if you want to lost weight do it because YOU want to not b/c your granny wants you too. its called exercising and eating right. :]
&heart's; kayla
there is this guy that i know very well. but we have never actually talked in person. we know each other but mostly just from online. well my friend told me that he saw him. my heart almost came out of my throat. i wanted to look pretty. i was so scared to see him. i dont know what to say to him in person. even though i feel like we are best friends. what should i do. i almost peed myself.
Be yourself. sure, get all dressed up. but most importantly be yourself. Let him see the real you & if he doesnt like you then atleast you know you tried. You dont really have to say anything speacil to him just " hi " and talk to him like you would talk to anyone else. :]
hope i helped.
&heart's; kayla
Ive been told that you can still be preg. even if you get your period.. Im kinda scared because ive been feelin sick for a week now and i get dizzy and the only think i can think of is that i may be prego because on the 1st i had unprotected sex. but i got my period so is it possible to get your period n still be pregnant
yes its prossible you can be pregnant. dont freak out. You can get emergency contriception ( sorry if that is spelt wrong ) also known as the days after pill. You can get it at planned parent hood. but hurry. Take a preg test.
dont freak you might not even be. but be more safer if you dont want to have a baby.
hope i helped.
&heart's; kayla
well i feel REALLY self concious. i feel like i want to have surgeory done. Not implants, but a breast reduction. I am a "36 c" and i feel reaaaaally weird about my breasts. They dont really sag, but are halfway there, when i take off my bra they r really low, and then are so big, they also are on my sides. even when i wear a bra. I waited a little longer to wear a bra, i remember i had about a small "b" when i started to wear a bra cause mom said i didnt need one yet. well now i am probly *f-ed* up...i am soooooooo self concious, because of this i can't wear tank tops with out a bra, i cant wear one peice swim suits or even a strapless/strapped dress with out wearing a bra. and if i do wear a bra, the part at the back goes HIGH up and then some inches lower in the front are my breasts. i even had a bra strap break, but i think that was just weakly done. how come those girls on all thos commercials have great breasts? like i saw on a commercial for girls gone wild i saw the sides of their breasts, and how they stayed up so perfectly without a bra? i am only 13 and i have large breasts, this limits me to clothes, and brings worlds of self conciousness to me. my friend's maid says "i have a gift" but to me it is not such a gift when i have a bra on. do you think when i get older ill suddenyl get more support? or is there anything i can do? i am not overweight but i have a risk, very veery small one. i can fit into clothes i had three years ago even better so..please HEEEEEELP me! my mom tells me...oh your good..but she is my mom.. i KNOW how i look when i dont have a bra on. please i feel like i wanna get surgeory done and get a "b" but the cost is evil and then it STILL wont help the sagginess so... my god!....what can i do? this is the thing on my body i hate most.
Every girls boobs are diffrent. Theres not much you can do. I promise there is nothing wrong with your boobs. No ones boobs stay up high , unless you have surgery. Wear a pushup bra. and also when you wear a swimsuit get a 2 piece. where the two strings tie around your neck. and around your back. the tighter you make it when you tie it on your neck the more higher up your boobs go. BE glad you have big boobs.
hope i helped.
&heart's; kayla