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stuck between 2 guys.


Question Posted Monday July 31 2006, 3:14 pm

hi, im 14 and im a girl and i have been going out with this guy for almost a year, on and off, and now that we're going to be in highschool, its going to be a whole different story. this is kinda a long distance relationship and we dont hang out alot. and we are going to different highschools. and then theres this other guy. hes going to be a jr and he really likes me and stuff, and i kinda like him back but i hear from people hes a player. and i dont know what to do. do i dump my boyfriend and go out with the other guy or do i stay with my boyfriend and forget about the other guy? and i mean its kinda hard because i have toi worry about the cheating thing. and i just dont know what to do.


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hottie411 answered Monday July 31 2006, 9:40 pm:
you shouldnt dump your boyfriend because another guy likes you, even though you dont even know him that well and people say he's a player.

just stay with your boyfriend and dont worry about the other guy, because he's two years older than you anyway.

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OoOhaileyOoO answered Monday July 31 2006, 8:45 pm:
Do you trust you bf? I mean really trust him, we have all gone through peer pressure but do you trust him to be loyal to you? If so keep going out with him. It's hard finding a good guy.
And forget about this other guy. Players know how to get a girls attention and once they get what they want, they leave.
'How do you let the other guy know you're not right for him?' you ask; well act like you don't care about anything he says (saying things like 'Yeah' and 'Sure'). And if he asks you out say, 'Sorry, but you just aren't my type' and leave.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~~

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lxYiPPi answered Monday July 31 2006, 7:54 pm:
Forget about both of them. That came to my mind really fast. If you hear that that guy is a player, why take the chance when there is so many other guys that can treat you right. Save yourself a heartbreak && forget about him, he's not worth your time. and even if you ask him if hes a player then you know what he will say [no].


Now about your boyfriend, i would forget about him too. He goes to a diffrent highschool so you don't know if he'll cheat on you or break up with you for some one else. and since you guys can't see each other that much then i would see your relationship as boring. Just explain to him that it's not working because you guys live far away and he's not going to the same highschool. He should understand. :]

hope i helped x
&heart's; kayla

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