my name is laura, i`m 16 years old and live in california. i live next door to movie stars and i surf to school every day.
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My best friend. I think she's going out with this boy I like.I over heard them talking and he gave her his number.She gonna call him this weekend to hook up or something.Should I ask whats going on or tell her I like or just move on. Help me. (link)
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talk to your friend about it and see whats really going on between them. and then ask her if she knew that you liked him before she started hooking up with him. just tell her how you feel and see how she responds. but no boy is ever worth losing a friend over. so if worse comes to worst forget the boy and move on.
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I've been working with this guy for like 4 months now and we seem to get along quite well. I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not, but the signals he gives me, tells me he does not. The thing is that I am 18 and hes 16. A lot of people have a probelm with the age thing, but i don't, i think hes mature for his age. (thats y i can't ask my friends this) Anyway i don't have his email or anything but we're good friends at work. Would it be weird if i asked him to my prom? and if not how would you ask him? thanks in advance (link)
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hey if you`re interested in him go for it. if he has his license decorate his car or something. be creative and cute. the more effort you put into it the more likely he`ll be to say yes.
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Okay, well my ex boyfriend wasn't the best person to and for me. We just broke up recently. Well this other guy like me alot, so he asked me out, seeing as how we are best friends I said yes. Now, I'm totally regretting it. I am madly in love with my ex and it kills me everday because we're not together. I seriously just want to die w. out him. So I have to break up with the other guy, my best friend. But he is crazy about me, and I thought I was about him. What should I tell him?
I know I'm going to tell my ex I still love him, I'm that kind of person to do that.
But my best friend. :'[
someone please help me. this is awful.
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i know its hard getting over a break up but if he wasn`t good to or for you then it sounds like you made the right choice breaking up with him. it also seems like you rushed into the relationship with your current boyfriend a little too soon. so maybe you should tell your boyfriend that you think you rushed into things a little bit and wanna break it off so you can really get over your ex. if he really does like you as much as you say he does, he should be cool with it. i mean, whats waiting a little longer for you if this break is only going to help you figure out whats right for you.
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so... i finally got my first makeout. me and the guy had it planned. well, i went in and i'm sure either i messed it up ors omething but he said i wasn't bad at all, but i don't know.... i didn't really like it, kinda? i think it was just the guy. but now i'm scared that i'll think kissing/making out isn't fun at all. is it really fun? or do you think that i just didn't think so 'cause my first time i was nervous and it was all planned...? haha sorry, i'm just really confused, any help will be great. :D (link)
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yeah the first time is too much pressure. the next few times will get better for you and you`ll learn to enjoy somebody elses tongue in your mouth. and a lot of it depends on the guy too. if hes a good kisser, its a lot easier to kiss him and you`ll like it a lot better too.
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me and my boyfriend have had sex and he cummed inside of me on accident...and i have missed my period it has been couple days later and still dont have it im scared i might be pregant but I CANNOT tell my parents so i have no clue if i am or not but since i have missed my period im scared i have...is it true you can have late periods just by having sex...because we are not forsure he really did cum but to me it felt like it but not for sure..so i dont kno what to do or how to tell i have no symptons except missed period and we are trying to get a pregnancy test but w are trying to get money so what can i do to tell if i am pregant...or can u juss get late periods by having sex? (link)
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DO NOT LISTEN TO NALLIE.
having sex definately DOES affect your period. sometimes it will make it come early, sometimes it will make it come late. a lot of my friends have had the same thing happen and sure you should be worried about it, but having sex does make your period late. buy a pregnancy test to find out for sure if you`re pregnant or not. then its up to you what to do from there.
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Am I justified in being angry when my mom calls me an ignorant slut because she wasn't understanding something I was trying to explain to her? I don't mean to sound whiney, but I'm really sick of these degrading comments she directs at me when she messes something up, makes a mistake, or doesn't understand something. I don't know what to do about this. Any advice?
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you have every damn reason to be mad if your mom or anyone else for that matter calls you anything like that. even though its your mom, tell her she has no right saying something like that to you if she won`t take the time to understand what you`re trying to tell her.
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how do you apply eyeliner (black) on the lower eyelid. like not overdoing it, but you know sexy enough. haha jk. but you know what i mean -- also what kind of eyeliner is best? thanks in advance (link)
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i use MAC smolder eyeliner. its really dark and goes on really smoothly. but if you don`t want to overdo it, just put it on the lower lid. not beneath your lashes but the white part against your eyeball. and if you want only put it on the corners of your lower lid, or from the outside to the middle. theres a lot of ways you can do it.
and if you need help ask your mom or go in to macys and have one of the makeup specialists help.
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I think that I might be bi.. But I dont want to be! what do I do?
I am female by the way
thanks.. (link)
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just don`t act on it. all girls look at other girls just to see their "competition." its normal to think "oh shes hot" or something like that. it doesn`t mean you`re bi. and even if you are bi, stick to guys. if you don`t let yourself be with a girl, then technically you`re not bi.
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does size really matter to girls? (link)
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only the sluts. seriously, a girl who has never seen a penis, will think its big no matter what. the ones who have something to compare it to might care. but its not really the size that matters, its how you use it.
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so ive taken preg tests from my school twice.. nd they both came out that im NOT pregnant and they are sposed to be really good pregnancy tests.. but im sitll 8 weeks late for my period..
WHAT SHOULD I DO? what do you think? (link)
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a lot of times after having sex your period gets delayed. and it usually takes a few years for your period to become completely normal, so if your period still isn`t normal having sex could have really affected it. not in a bad way, but your hormones are just running loose. wait it out, but by 8 weeks i think you would know if you were pregnant or not.
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ok here im 13 and im ready to do "it" again with my bf the thing is i cant protection the first time i was close to be having a baby and i was lucky but everytime im around him i dont know how to like stop getting horny u know what imean i dont want to get pregneate help me!!!!lol (link)
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when you`re horny instead of having sex just stick to the foreplay. and if you`re gonna have sex use a condom or get birth control. but personally, you`re only thirteen. you shouldn`t be having sex anyways.
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I have a crush on my best friend. She knows and it just has made things weird, especially now that she has a boyfriend. I don't mind her boyfriend so much as the look of pity and the feeling of paranoia as she avoids things in conversation. I feel stupid and I know that nobody will know the answer, but can someone tell me how I can stop having a this major crush on her but stillbe friends? And please don't just tell me "time" or "find God" those are truly useless to me. I am looking for a cure. Either you have or you don't, I don't need comforting pats on the shoulder, I need a vaccination.
15/m (link)
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i think the best thing you can do is stop hanging out with her as much and spend time with other girls instead. don`t stop being her friend but the less time you spend with her the less you`ll think about her and eventually you will only like her as a friend.
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i wanna get my belly pierced but my parentals won't let me. my questions is how do i persuade them ? (link)
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i wanted to get my bellybutton pierced when i was 14 but my parents didn`t want me to do it either. so i sat my mom down and told her that me having my bellybutton pierced wasn`t going to change the person i am. if anything getting my bellybutton pierced is only going to help me express myself in my own way. it worked for me, and now two years later i have my upper and lower bellybutton pierced.
but if your own persuading speech doesn`t work, make a deal. like if i get strait A`s (or whatever is good for you) then can i get my belly button pierced ? or something like that. or do chores to earn it. parents like to see their kids work for something they want.
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I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away
I keep your photograph; I know it serves me well
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain..what song is this and who is it by? (link)
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the song is called broken by amy lee and seether
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I'm a junior in highschool. I've taken Biology and Chemistry. I passed Bio with an 89 and I passed Chem with a 96. So next year I have to decide to take physics or bio 2. The physics teacher says there is a lot of math involved. And I'm a strong math student. But I talked to my sister and she said it was really hard(but she's not a strong math student). The physics teacher doesn't have tests in her class and hardly any homework. Then the bio teacher says that her class will better prepare you for college. She says that she helps us with studying and everything. But she said you will have to work your butt off for an A. The bio teacher said that we will have to take bio in college no matter what we want to major in(which I have no clue what I want to do) so I don't know if I should take bio and be more prepared or physics. Any advice? (link)
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i say take physics. colleges look most at your overall GPA than the classes you take, and if you get an A in physics and a B in bio, then your GPA will be affected. it sounds like you know what you`re doing in school so give yourself a break your senior year, take physics, hope you do well and go for the A.
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okay for the past...5 days i have been sick. and when im sick i normally lose my apitite(spelling?) and eat like nothing. Im much better now and today my mom made me a great lunch (i had no breakfast because i woke up so late) but i could hardly eat any of it. I felt really full after 2 bites. Is this bad? or is it just from being sick?
P.S 15/f if that makes a difference (link)
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its probably just because you`ve been sick and haven`t been eating a lot. its hard for your body to go from eating hardly nothing to eating how you normally do. just eat a little bit at a time and your body will gradually get back to how it usually is. it happens to a lot of people and its no big.
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is it okay to have your period and go in the ocean wearing one of those wet suits and you DONT have a tampon on? or can you wear a napkin under the wet suit because i really like to swim in the ocean but i tampons. please help ill rate you high! (link)
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i would definatly not wear a pad in the ocean, or swimming at all for that matter. the only thing i have to say to this is wear tampons. sure they`re uncomfortable at first but once you get used to them you can`t feel them at all, and they`re way easier than pads.
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i was wonder what plan,phone company or whatever has like long distance free ?
thank you (link)
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cingular. i have cingular and its awesome.
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I want to know how I can loose weight with out being hungry, what foods will keep me full for a longer period of time. I know water and salads are good but what else can I do to help me loose weight the proper way. (link)
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add some exercise to your diet. running is the best thing you can do to lose weight. if you run in the morning you`ll feel better and less hungry throughout the day so eating less (And healthier) won`t be as hard.
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Sorry this is so long! Okay, I'm 13 and i'm a female. So I've had this boyfriend for about 3 and a half months now and I really like him. We're both in the school play & at first I was so happy that I would get to see him so often. But, after a while, it seems like he is always hanging on me. Like, the first 10 times it was cute, but now it's just kinda like, "i need my space." My friend told him and he said he was gonna back off a little, but I'm still not sure, and when I am with him, just me & him it seems like all he wants to do is makeout. Also, there's this other really sweet kid in the pla who I flirt with all the time and he definitely flirts back. Like, he's my "best friend" and all.. but I'm not sure what to do! Help? (link)
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talk to your boyfriend about it and let him know how you feel. if he continues to bother you break up with him.
and if you`re starting to like your "best friend" then maybe your boyfriend isn`t the right guy for you and you should end it because you have feelings for another guy. you never know, once your best friend sees that you`re available maybe you and him will get together instead.
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