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abercrombie and hollister arent that "cool" looking
i mean all of their clothes look excactly the same but i do like there lacy tanks
were can i get a lacy tank top with lace on both bottom and top for cheap ?
and also tell me places were you think have really cute clothes for cheaper and not just cheap T-shirts that say "hollister" across them.
thanks
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Well, i get my lacy tank tops from Aeropostale and they are great. For the shirts if you want a shirt from Hollister for cheap you can prolly try TJ Max or if you just want really cute shirts that look like Hollister ones then Aeropostale has some shirts that look like Hollister ones. Or maybe you can go to Abercrombie instead of Abercrombie and Fitch because Abercrombie are more "younger" and they're shirts are eactly the same and cheaper, you'll just need a bigger size.

well im 13/f and all my friends have made out, or been fingered and i havent. i really want to, but when your being fingered what are you soppose to do? if i do it to myself is that how it will feel when a guy does it?

When i tried fingering myself like it felt alot different from my boyfriend doing it for some reason. Like i just dont get as much pleasure when i do it myself. But people feel different things, so its all different

my boyfriend (m/16) and i (f/16) have been going out for almost 6 monthes. we have not had sex yet, but i've given him head before.
we got into a conversation one time about how guys think it's weird to eat a girl out.
he sad that he'd eat me out any day because it would only be fair considering i've given him head before. that's probably going to be the next step in our relationship.
i'm a little nervous about the whole idea though, not uncomfortable about it, just uncertain i guess.
how should i prepare for that?
some guys think it tastes nasty, but i heard somewhere that eating fruit beforehand makes it taste better....?
i know that i have to wash down there everyday and all... but is there anything else i should know?
thanks ~

Well, you can't really prepare with something like that. When my boyfriend first did that to me, it tickled like extremely! It was great, but dont worry you'll get used to it. And the whole thing about eating fruit, it isn't true! HAVE FUN! :)

Hi i was wondering if like watching porn/masturbauting could be considered cheating on a girl?
I was just wondering because i wouldnt wanna do it if its not right.

No it wouldn't be considered cheating because you're not touching this girl on tv.

okay. so i just got my period and it's likeeeeee whatever. ANYWAYS. i'm using a tampon. it's tampax sportttt but i keep leaking. like i have to wear a pad w. my tampon. weird. i know i'm putting it up high enough, but idk. should i do something before or after i put it in? is it a bad brand?

thanks!

okie i think the problem for the tampex sports are that they're tiny so they wont hold as much because some of my friends wear those and they always leak so maybe get like te regular ones instead of the sport

Ok. It was a friday night, he asked me did I want to go back to his house for a little QT. I only been going out with him for 2 weeks, I know it was so stupid of me to sex him but he kept asking and he was like I needed to trust him. Well, yeah I had sex with him and I regret it because after we had sex he walked me right back home(this was right after the sex)he used a trojan condom also...(for detail of the condom).Of course his penis was huge so I dont know if this is why Im feeling this way. But when I used the bathroom once I got straight in the house, I hear something hit the toilet water. It was the condom! It popped! He said before he even came, he pulled out...I cannot be sure of that. exact words (well, I didnt cum inside you). Im not sure If I am pregnant and Im trying to think that Im not, but I keep on thinking about it. Im not to sure but I do think that the condom was still on the outside inside me, and I do not think the sperm ws in the condom. I even seen him take the condom off before we left. So I know it popped. For the whole weekend. My body was hurting. My hips, Legs, Stomach, on top of that, I was really tired. I mean I was already tired on friday, But after sexing him, I was exhausted. Could it be that I was just getting used too his large penis size? Or Am I pregnant?. Because my stomach feels tight(sometimes). Really it has only been 7 days since it has happened. And right now, Im fat but im not big boned, Im slim kind of fat, I cant tell any kind of signs. I know its early but they say something about your stomach getting hard. Well I checked and I cant tell if it is my stomach getting tight because of my diet(not really a diet, just dont eat as much anymore)or because this is a sign or being pregnant. What could I possibly experience in the first week that would actually let me know that I am pregnant. I do not think that I am. but it worries me, feel me? Im only 17 and Im not ready for a child. This is the first time this has happened to me. Because I do not have sex. Could someone help me? If you need more information let me know.

Ok, well i think you're thinking wayy to much about. So dont freak out! lol Well the reason why i tell you not to freak out is because you're making yourself think you're pregnant and thats gonna make your body react like it really is when its not. its happened to me. i think you were just really tired because of the sex if he was that big that can make you super super tired and all achy but once you get used to it then it wont be so bad. and since he pulled out before he actually came, then you shouldnt be pregnant since you all used a condom. so dont worry!

i'm having my sweet 16 next month and i still don't have a dress i'm looking for something really cute but not that expencive...like under 150...i'm tall and thin i guess and can't do strapless. I'm really girly and would like something shortish and flattering to my body...can anyone recomend any websites?

I got my dress at Dillards, and they have AMAZING dresses.
or you can go to Debs,Macys,JC Pennys.

so i haven't had my period since november!
i was suppose to start december 17th or something.. haven't had sex since the end of november. i have taken 4 pregnancy tests!! they all said negative. i don't know what is wrong with me why i havent started my period?

and another thing... on the E.P.T. pregnancy tests or whatever are the lines suppose to come
out CLEAR? because i took two of them and the negative line was kind of faded??

it's confusing meeee. i don't know whats
wrong... im suppose to start my next period
on january 19th.

helppp?

thats how mine was..it pretty much scared the living crap out of me.
but its because your period doesnt start being regular till you like 20.
mine always came regular before i had sex and then it skipped around after i had sex.
so dont worry about it, it'll come!

17/f
is there any way to reduce the pain when a guy "pops your cherry" My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and think it's time but im afraid of how much it might hurt.

are there any tips or tricks i should know about?
should i be on top or bottom?
yeaa im clueless lol

well wat me and my boyfriend did was we messed arounnd or foreplayed before we had sex our first time so try the whole fingering thing to kinda make you loosen up a little and then try sex! lol if i was you i would probably be on bottom since its your first time!

so, i was just wonderig, if it is possible to be in love at age 13? i know it sounds like a stupid question. but is that possible? since 13 is such a young age.

in my opinion i dont think there is a specific age where you fall in love..if u fall in love then u fall inlove..you just have to be sure its really love..so noo i dont think it is..just follow your heart :]

What is a good purse that will go with almost everything i wear and will be fashionable?

well you can get a Chanel bag those match with just about everything and they're super cute

how do i tell my girlfriends that she needs to shave down there without being really mean. she can be kinda sensitive about that kinda stuff. help please.

well you two can get on the subject of hair down there and be like "well i think its super sexyy when a girl shaves down there" then she would prolly get the hint she should do that in order to please you!

when my boyfriend and I are doing the deed, he ejactulates after like 1 minute! sometimes like 30 seconds... how could he last longer?

well i was reading in a magazing that think of sex as a scale like 1-10
so when he gets to a 9 (close to him getting off) then stop tell him to stop,dont move, and just like wait until it goes away

please tell me your first time sex stories..from what i have heard none of the first timers are pleasureable. i would really appreciate it if you shared yours and tell me how it went. thank youu soo much (:

Ha, uhm well me and my boyfriend were dating for like maybe 4 months and he was over to help me with a big project so we took a break and we were making out and well one thing led to another i guess..i really wanted him to ask me if i would have sex with him but it never popped up so out of the blue i was just like
"do u have a condom?"
and well he said no and we took one from my brother! haha and uhm well thats when it happened
it really wasnt all that special as i hoped it would be because well he lasted for like 3 minutes haha but then it just got better from then on
it hurt for a couple seconds but i think what really took the pain away was that we foreplayed (fingering) before we had sex
hope it helped! sorrie i replied a little late!!!

Tips?
Uh..
How do you give a good one?

Yup..

Cool.

Well, go slow at first and then start going fast but be careful not to have your teeth like grind against his well you know what and then slow down and when u get to the head of his penis swirl your tongue around then go back down :]

when a girl is being felt up, first of all.
how do the guy and girl sit or stand.
what does the girl have to wear.
and what does the girl do while she's being felt up.

well, when my boyfriend feels me up we are usually sitting or like laying down either me on top or him and well yeh theres not really a specific thing you have to wear in order to be felt up wear whatever makes you comfortable and well i think most of the time people are like making out when this happens :]

15\f

okay, so whats FOREPLAY?
and whats INTERCOURSE?

thanks :)

well,
foreplay would be like the whole messing around like fingering,hang jobs,blow jobs,eating out etc.
then intercourse would be like vaginal intercourse or like sex :]

Does it hurt the first time you have sex? and what can you do to make it hurt less?

-well it does sorta hurt but it isnt that bad as people say it is
-&& well when you have sex you can always foreplay (fingering) before you actually have sex && when the time comes to actually have sex have him take it slow and talk eachother through it

Kay. So I`m preppy- polos, miniskirts A&F and pearls, the whole 9 yards. So.. I'm running out of outfits and styles, any ideas? I`ve done the polos & pearls... and the leggings & skirts.. and the uggs with jeans... oh and cashmere sweatersss... but I`m running out. I like to start trends, any good ones I could start at my school? I'm up for new looks- but im mostly preppy. PLEASE HELP.

have you tried the whole like punk rock prep thing coz i know that thats realli in and you just take like one of these shirts
http://www.forever21.com/pop.asp?image=32403004.jpg&product=Polka Dot Top&colorcode=02
with the big necklaces and maybe have your hair up to the side

hey, i cant figure out how to make this type of curls, http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a309/bridesofdracula/f5beb25a.jpg

and please dont tell me,"thats all done by pros and it takes forever" because i know it takes forever but i just wan to know how to make that kind of hairstyle.

well my hair does that with a regular curling iron so like u take a skinny curling iron and seperate your hair into layers (bottom,middle,nd top, etc) and when you put your hair into the curling iron curl it nd keep the curling iron up nd down then get a realli good hair spray and spray it (dont spray it that much or it can mess up the curling iron)
or theres another way
buy a Conair Curling iron that already has the ridges in it to create that type of curl

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