if you say you like it rough, then maybe he was being too rough with you and he accidentaly scratched the inner wall of your vagina. This is not good especially because it can lead to infections if his hands are not clean. Its how I got a UTI! Just wait a few days for it to heal, and next time have him be more gentle. If you're still bleeding after he does it gently, then you might want to get that checked out. Good luck!

mixing colors on the opposite side of the color wheel will give you gray. try this website:

http://www.sugarcraft.com/catalog/coloring/colormixingchart.htm

you can also just google "mixing colors chart"

okay. you go to this website:

http://keepvid.com/

and follow the instructions. what it'll do is basically every time you are watching a video anywhere, youtube in your case, you click on the bookmark that will take you to that website and itl give you a link to download it, just click save as, save it on youre computer then you can add it to the powerpoint.
if you have any trouble let me know...
good luck

Hey I like:

Pocketful of Sunshine by Natasha Bedingfield
Break My Stride by Blue Lagoon
Take Me On the Floor by The Veronicas
Say Hey (I Love You) by Michael Franti & Spearhead
Touchdown Turnaround by Hellogoodbye
DotA or All I Ever Wanted by Basshunter
No Stress by Lauren Wolf
Semi-Charmed Life by Third Eye Blind
Wild Young Hearts by The Noisettes
Ride My Tempo by Ida Corr
TiK ToK by Ke$ha
Love Game by Lady GaGa
Love At First Sight by Kylie Minogue

Those are just some songs if you want more let me know....hope this is what youre looking for. good luck =)

i agree with the other person, however, if you want bangs that go straight across you can also do this al long as you make sure you dont get too many. you need wispy bangs and not a lot and it will look good for sure, it works better with straight hair cause if ur hair is curly you will always have to straighten them. good luck!

well...what kind of song was it? pop rock? a type of beat? ANYTHING to work with???

I think ull like this song maybe you already know it but i feel its appropriate...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LP-yuipInwY

you cant tell her what to do... she will only want to defy you, call you a loser, and she WILL ignore you. here is something that i have found works...
this works best if she is younger, so that she may look up to you, however, it might work regardless. You need to portray a positive image that looks like something she will want to emulate. Don't be all "holy" or "good" or anything like that, don't preach to her. Show her you're fun. Hang out with your friend and her more often, and when the subject comes up, influence her in the right direction by saying how YOU do things and stating YOUR personal oppinion. But make sure you explain well and make yourself sound really smart for doing what youre doing. For example: Lets say you guys are at a party.... just be like "oh wow look at those people smoking/drinking (whatever the case) over there. They're such idiots one day they're going to wake up with lung cancer and an effed up liver. It's so sad that they need to smoke/drink to have a good time!" and even though you just made an observation, automatically diminishing the "coolness" of those that are drinknig/smoking, you did not tell her anything personally. that way she can make up her own mind and see that its really not that "cool" what shes doing. You can finish with a casual "It's a good thing were all smarter than that". (include her in that)I know it sounds lame written out, but if you know how to say it, like using the right attitude it totally works! If she has any conscience at all shell think about what you said. Use things on her that you know will work, get into her skin, bother her without her realizing it, be smart. But whatever you do, do NOT say "this is hurting you i want you to stop" shell become all defensive and most likely wont.

all i think of when i hear the word smurf are these little guys...

http://www.everybodysucksbutus.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/smurfs_2.jpg

i used to love watching the cartoon when I was little. They are called the smurfs so maybe that helps?

he probably doesn't think your weird or anything and he likes you as a friend. Since you said that he was talking to another girl, then what most likely happened was that he liked both of you but now has decided that he wants to only talk to her and that's why he told you he just wanted you guys to be friends...In any case, you didn't do anything wrong. Its probably just that he likes the other girl hes talking to a lot...

oh no... see I was in your position...and what happened to me what that we acted like we were in a relationship, everyone thought we were but we told people we weren't. We did sexual stuff like we were... but he didn't "want a relationship at the moment" because "an ex girlfriend really messed him up and he didn't believe in relationships" Eventually I got fed up, told him that I couldn't do it anymore (because i liked him too much) and ended up losing him.

He got an official girlfriend the next month.

What I learned from that relationship was that sometimes, like that movie, "he's just not that into you" And it really sucks.

Now I'm not saying that's the case for you, but I'm just giving you a different point of view. Since you said that you know hes not using you, and you're sure, I can give you some advice on how to "guide" him into the direction you want. Although it's true, you cant convince anyone to do something they don't want. You just have to constantly be yourself and if he really likes you he will want you just for himself. You could also go out with friends or something and not always tell him what you're doing. When he asks, be mysterious and if he says anything you can tell him that well its not like you're his girlfriend right??? if he really likes you it will bother him. but see the problem with that is that he might get upset and do the same to you. so be careful what you do. Its a tough one when the guy doesn't want a relationship and the girl does. we are sort of stuck...we have to be very patient...

hey there alright I think that first I need to tell you that of course there's a point to life! I know it may not seem like it for you right now, but the thing about life is that it's always changing. And so even though everything may seem hopeless for you trust me, in a few months or however long things will be different. I'm not gonna get into a philosophical rant about hope, but I will tell you that although you are emotional, you seem strong enough to hold on and hope for the best and that's all you gotta do.

Okay now on to your question...
I think that your emotional condition is part of your personality. I have a friend that is just like you and with her its always all or nothing. Either shes in heaven or hell. But we live on earth. Things are really not as extreme as they seem. It's sort of hard for me to explain how to be happy. Are you happy with yourself as a person??? Are you doing what you want to be doing or do you feel like you don't know what to do with your life? You're not going to die if you don't get this girl back, however, you're also not going to ever get over it considering you feel guilty about the whole thing. First of all, in order to fix this I need to know how and more importantly WHY you were an ass to her if you loved her? What did you do to her, and WHY???
Now, in order to maybe get her back or at least be able to move on with your life, you need to feel better. And that comes with knowing that she doesn't hate you. What I suggest doing is writing her a letter (or email whichever). I think you should apologize to her for everything you did and explain to her WHY you were an ass. She might forgive you if she understands your reasoning at least. Just politely apologize, honestly let her know that you still love her but you don't expect her to ever forgive you (because you shouldn't expect that) and that you hope that she is happy and again that you are sorry for ever treating her the way you did because you know she didn't deserve it. Of course only say this if you really mean it, which you seem to...
Now once she reads the letter, she will either choose not to answer or she will tell you that she forgives you. If she doesn't answer, stop bugging her. You did all you could by apologizing, if she still doesn't want to hear it, then let it go. It may hurt but you will be able to get over it with time at least. If she does forgive you, just say that you really appreciate it and ask her if you guys could ever be friends again. If she says no, respect her decision. If she says yes, then make sure you treat her right this time! Build your relationship back up from the beginning. Show her you're different.
Okay so to answer your other question, a therapist would definitely help you if you have the ability to go to one and the funds. However, there is no way to "cure" you. You don't have a disease, you are just going through a minor depression/realization or something like it. There is no cure, YOU have to figure it all out. I do not suggest drinking or getting high, all you are doing with that is abusing your body. There is no need for it and it is not helping you in the long run. Drinking will never bring her back. I am sorry about your grandmother. You should try to spend time with her I'm sure it would make her happy, and it's all you can do. If you have any further question or wanna talk about anything, just ask. My aim s/n is wolf2babe@aim.com however I should warn you that I barely ever go on aim so it would be faster if you asked me a question on here...
GOOD LUCK! I'm here if you need me...

Okay so I used to be like you. I am still too nice to people but that's just my personality. As for the other things like letting them walk all over me, I've learned to stop that...

So yes, it is a matter of self esteem. But here's the thing, you have to figure out why you have such low self esteem...what is it that you don't like about yourself? Do you think that people don't like you? What exactly is making you think poorly of yourself. Once you figure that out, you also need to look at all your good qualities. Everyone has them, and so do you. Highlight them, focus on them, even tell me if you want. Anything for you to notice that you have positive things about yourself. You are worth it. And once you start realizing that you are, other people will too.

This next part is going to be kind of hard. You have to be mean. You have to learn how to say NO to people. If someone is bothering you, you can start slow by just ignoring them. First don't let them get to you, then once you see how good it feels move up and even maybe tell them off. Learn to say "I. DONT. CARE." and mean it.

Let's see...WHY? why do you care what others think? You have friends right? So why care what a group of strangers think? Are you happy with who you are? If not, then you should become happy. If you are, then let people think whatever they want. I realize this might not help but think about it, are any of those people smarter than you? or better looking? or better than you in any way? In most cases, no. So often smart people have low self esteem and this happens. But you really should realize that nobody is here to judge you.

Look, listen to this song, it once made me feel a LOT better and realize a lot of things...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV-HPOHu8mY

hope it helps =) Good Luck

haha lets see....do you believe you're more of a man than her boyfriend or that you can be a better lover??? Because then i have the perfect song...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lhb3lDdKwA

or how about this song if u like r&b...

[Trey Songz] Can't Help But Wait

or... I also like Check Yes Juliet by We the Kings

although its more about a guy not giving up on the girl he likes...

Good Luck

Time and time again this happens! It happened to me and keeps happening over and over. Guys are hurt by some girl and they are messed up after that thinking all girls will mess them up. That's why a lot of them just don't give a shit anymore. But honestly I've come to realize that its not an excuse for them. You cant make him realize anything without time. So just be good to him, but don't let him use that as an excuse because you really ARE NOT HER! All you can do is tell him that and show him. But don't be disappointed if he doesn't respond. Guys are pretty hardheaded...

haha alright well if you say she's a shy girl then you probably wont get anywhere unless you make her your girlfriend. You say you're not dating? well let me tell you MOST girls will not do sexual things with guys they're not dating. So yeah you can try to get her alone and start kissing her and all that but what I think is that shes not just shy, but she doesn't WANT to do sexual things with you because you're not her bf. Are you sure you're not in it for the sexual things? You don't just want to hook up? If not, then why don't you ask her out. That's usually the normal way to do things and what most girls want you to do...So i guess if you want to be happy you gotta make her happy first. Trust me, I'm a girl. and I know that doesn't answer your question but really I don't think there's anything you can invite her to do if she doesn't want to do anything.

well depending on his age of course but honestly i can tell you that a young guy will almost ALWAYS have a boner if you're doing stuff... haha they usually have one... but you can also tell if you feel him turned on and you feel him "hard" down there I can tell you its not just the jeans...

okay since you asked this question I'm going to let you in on something that changed my life forever. I saw this movie about two years ago that made me the ridiculously optimistic person I am today. And also extremely happy. And I wish everyone knew about it and hopefully people will one day. I think you can rent it if you wanna watch the whole thing, but here's the first 20 minutes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8

you have to be open minded. But it will answer your question on how to be more optimistic and if you have any extra questions you can always ask me ill be more than happy to answer! =) Good Luck!

well the person below was right but i don't think your friend says specifically that its his cue to do whatever you're doing, just that it's his cue to leave or say goodbye to you since you're about to go offline. like "Ok well i got to go" and he would say "that's my cue"

are you sure its a Mercedes because it looks more like an old Chrysler model to me...

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