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my boyfriend was hurt in the past by his ex girlfriend he was in love with her and thought that she felt the same way until she had sex with another guy,: how do i convince and get him to realize i won't do that to him i won't hurt him?
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It'll probably take a while to get the message through to him- so be patient :)
Show him your trusting by not being flirtatious around other men. Some girls, I'm guilty of it as well, flirt with men we see in public such as a cashier, waiter etc. just out of habit. Try to watch that, I've had boyfriends pay attention to that & it caused many arguments.
Listen to what he has to say, keep his secrets, and be loyal to him. Really, its small things that, over time, will show him that you are indeed not the same as the girl he used to date. Remind him now and again that he's the only man in your life. Be open and honest with him about everything you can be just to help that bond build even stronger.
Good luck! :)
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Time and time again this happens! It happened to me and keeps happening over and over. Guys are hurt by some girl and they are messed up after that thinking all girls will mess them up. That's why a lot of them just don't give a shit anymore. But honestly I've come to realize that its not an excuse for them. You cant make him realize anything without time. So just be good to him, but don't let him use that as an excuse because you really ARE NOT HER! All you can do is tell him that and show him. But don't be disappointed if he doesn't respond. Guys are pretty hardheaded...
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Tell him that you are NOT her. There's no way you're going to do exactly what she did.
If he's going to not trust you, you probably shouldn't be in the relationship for much longer, because relationships are based on trust.
I guess just keep showing him how trustworthy you are.
--Jack
(17/m)
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