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help neeeded!!
hey i have a bad problem.im one of the most emotional people you could possible meet. like i get all happy ovver good stuff and really sad. i talked to this girl for 2 years straight everyday and i was a ass treated her like shit and she broke up with me after a while. im sitll in love with her and she doesnt want anything to do with me. i cant take it i'd rather her flip at me for trying to talk to her just to hear her voice then not bother with her. but she hates me. i was wrong to treat her like crap and now shes like really messing with my head with everything. i need to be high on something or drunk to keep her out of my head..actually shes still there but im numb so it doesnt bother me .. i dont wanna be like this. is it possible i could go to a shrink for it. would they be able to cure me. help me somehow..not only do i have to deal with losing her i have to deal with feeling bad about it all and now my grandma is not doing to good so thats bothering me to. i need help i feel like theres no point in life anymore. please help asap. and please dont go calling any type of suicide prevention things because thats not necessary. i just need help. thanks
ps can you leave your aim s/n if i need more help.
im not a phyhsco..just a upset teen that takes everything to heart. =[ i wish i wasnt so emotional.=[
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hey there alright I think that first I need to tell you that of course there's a point to life! I know it may not seem like it for you right now, but the thing about life is that it's always changing. And so even though everything may seem hopeless for you trust me, in a few months or however long things will be different. I'm not gonna get into a philosophical rant about hope, but I will tell you that although you are emotional, you seem strong enough to hold on and hope for the best and that's all you gotta do.
Okay now on to your question...
I think that your emotional condition is part of your personality. I have a friend that is just like you and with her its always all or nothing. Either shes in heaven or hell. But we live on earth. Things are really not as extreme as they seem. It's sort of hard for me to explain how to be happy. Are you happy with yourself as a person??? Are you doing what you want to be doing or do you feel like you don't know what to do with your life? You're not going to die if you don't get this girl back, however, you're also not going to ever get over it considering you feel guilty about the whole thing. First of all, in order to fix this I need to know how and more importantly WHY you were an ass to her if you loved her? What did you do to her, and WHY???
Now, in order to maybe get her back or at least be able to move on with your life, you need to feel better. And that comes with knowing that she doesn't hate you. What I suggest doing is writing her a letter (or email whichever). I think you should apologize to her for everything you did and explain to her WHY you were an ass. She might forgive you if she understands your reasoning at least. Just politely apologize, honestly let her know that you still love her but you don't expect her to ever forgive you (because you shouldn't expect that) and that you hope that she is happy and again that you are sorry for ever treating her the way you did because you know she didn't deserve it. Of course only say this if you really mean it, which you seem to...
Now once she reads the letter, she will either choose not to answer or she will tell you that she forgives you. If she doesn't answer, stop bugging her. You did all you could by apologizing, if she still doesn't want to hear it, then let it go. It may hurt but you will be able to get over it with time at least. If she does forgive you, just say that you really appreciate it and ask her if you guys could ever be friends again. If she says no, respect her decision. If she says yes, then make sure you treat her right this time! Build your relationship back up from the beginning. Show her you're different.
Okay so to answer your other question, a therapist would definitely help you if you have the ability to go to one and the funds. However, there is no way to "cure" you. You don't have a disease, you are just going through a minor depression/realization or something like it. There is no cure, YOU have to figure it all out. I do not suggest drinking or getting high, all you are doing with that is abusing your body. There is no need for it and it is not helping you in the long run. Drinking will never bring her back. I am sorry about your grandmother. You should try to spend time with her I'm sure it would make her happy, and it's all you can do. If you have any further question or wanna talk about anything, just ask. My aim s/n is wolf2babe@aim.com however I should warn you that I barely ever go on aim so it would be faster if you asked me a question on here...
GOOD LUCK! I'm here if you need me...
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