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shrink needed?
hey i have a bad problem.im one of the most emotional people you could possible meet. like i get all happy ovver good stuff and really sad. i talked to this girl for 2 years straight everyday and i was a ass treated her like shit and she broke up with me after a while. im sitll in love with her and she doesnt want anything to do with me. i cant take it i'd rather her flip at me for trying to talk to her just to hear her voice then not bother with her. but she hates me. i was wrong to treat her like crap and now shes like really messing with my head with everything. i need to be high on something or drunk to keep her out of my head..actually shes still there but im numb so it doesnt bother me .. i dont wanna be like this. is it possible i could go to a shrink for it. would they be able to cure me. help me somehow..not only do i have to deal with losing her i have to deal with feeling bad about it all and now my grandma is not doing to good so thats bothering me to. i need help i feel like theres no point in life anymore. please help asap. and please dont go calling any type of suicide prevention things because thats not necessary. i just need help. thanks
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First of all, have you tried apologizing? maybe try telling her how you feel.
& for the alcohol & drug problems..do you want to stop doing that stuff, or no? because you can call a hotline for that. & they are very helpful. (personal experiences of my own..) i forget the number, but you just type into google like alchol hotline or something like that, & their website should come up.
or if your sad & need to just talk to someone, but your not going to commit suicide, they probably have a depression hotline. when i was looking for a number in the phonebook, i saw hotlines for like everything. those hotlines are veryyyy helpful.
try talking to her, tell her how you feel.
good luck
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it sounds to me like you maybe codependent or obbessed with this girl and you have problems controling your emotions i think you need to talk to your doctor or your family if you think they'll understand and you may need medication to mellow your emotions out trust me i was in your shoes and i choose the low road talk to someone get the help the sooner the better and all that numb pain can be gone it all can only get better remeber that no one was there to tell me those words it all gets better trust me
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I think you should start by keeping a journal and writing down all of your feelings and everything that's going on in your life. It really does help to let it all out, even on paper. And the best part is, it's all you; you don't have to let ANYBODY else read it :)
Secondly, do things you enjoy. Find a new hobby that you have a passion for, and go for it! Doing something you love really does help make you feel 10 times better when you're feeling down. And aside from a new hobby, be sure to surround yourself with people who love/support you. Trust me, I have learned firsthand recently that staying friends with people who bring you down does nothing but make you feel worse.
As far talking to a professional goes, that's something you and your parents have to decide. I suggest talking to your parents about it and telling them what you told us. Let them know you're feeling extremely emotional (which is totally normal at this age), but you'd feel a lot more comfortable if you could talk to a professional. I've never been to one, but I'd imagine they'd be able to help you a lot more than your parents or a friend could.
Good luck and if you ever need to talk, send something to my inbox and we can chat :)
-Laura (17-f)
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