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Last Update: July 20, 2009
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hey i have a bad problem.im one of the most emotional people you could possible meet. like i get all happy ovver good stuff and really sad. i talked to this girl for 2 years straight everyday and i was a ass treated her like shit and she broke up with me after a while. im sitll in love with her and she doesnt want anything to do with me. i cant take it i'd rather her flip at me for trying to talk to her just to hear her voice then not bother with her. but she hates me. i was wrong to treat her like crap and now shes like really messing with my head with everything. i need to be high on something or drunk to keep her out of my head..actually shes still there but im numb so it doesnt bother me .. i dont wanna be like this. is it possible i could go to a shrink for it. would they be able to cure me. help me somehow..not only do i have to deal with losing her i have to deal with feeling bad about it all and now my grandma is not doing to good so thats bothering me to. i need help i feel like theres no point in life anymore. please help asap. and please dont go calling any type of suicide prevention things because thats not necessary. i just need help. thanks (link)
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it sounds to me like you maybe codependent or obbessed with this girl and you have problems controling your emotions i think you need to talk to your doctor or your family if you think they'll understand and you may need medication to mellow your emotions out trust me i was in your shoes and i choose the low road talk to someone get the help the sooner the better and all that numb pain can be gone it all can only get better remeber that no one was there to tell me those words it all gets better trust me
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I have three children; Two boys and a girl. My oldest is 5 1/2 while my youngest just turned 1. I have a great marriage. We have been married almost 12 years. We have a little home in a nice suburb. My kids get along really well. I have a pretty happy life.
Before my husband and I got married we both discussed having 3 children. He is the eldest of 4. I am an only child. We both wanted a big family. At this point we should be just enjoing what we have made of our lives. Now that my daughter has just turned 1 my husband has made numerous comments about wanting another baby. Just a few weeks ago my 5 year old crawled into my lap and asked when we were going to bring home another baby. He loves his baby sister so much he wants another one. I asked what if he had another baby brother. He responded that would be okay too. So now that the bug has been put in my ear about it, I can't decide what to do.
My problem is my pregnancies gradually got worse with each one. I had joint problems that in my 3rd pregnancy required me walking intermittently on crutches toward the end. I am not the kind who particularly enjoys being pregnant. They were fairly uncomfortable and I was so happy when my 3rd was born because I "Never have to go through this again". I don't really want to go through child birth again. I don't want to deal with the recovery process again, all the blood work, the epidural, the doctor visits. We are incredibly responsible parents so if we did decide to have another I would "suffer" through all of this because it isn't about ME, it's about the health of the baby. I guess I want another baby... but I don't want to HAVE another baby.
The other issue we have is we have several friends who have children with "issues". Two have autism, one has something "like" cerebral palsy but has not actually been diagnosed with this, etc. We have been quite fortunate that I never had a known miscarriage and our kids are all healthy. Would we be tempting fate? My husband's sister has 5 kids who are all healthy but that doesn't mean we would!
Is there anyone out there who has several children and had this dilema of whether or not to have another? What did you decide to do and whatever that decision was, do you regret it or happy about it? I am a religious person so I have prayed about it. This was recent so I am still waiting for my answer. I thought while I was waiting I would get input from other women (or men too) who have been in this situation.
One last thing to add, I am going to be 31 this summer and while I still feel quite young in almost all aspects of life, I am starting to feel a bit old to be having babies. I realize I haven't hit that "danger zone" of 35. I just don't know if I am wanting another baby because I actually WANT 4 kids, or if I want another baby because I am hormonal about my last baby being 1, almost walking, turning into a real little kid and no longer a "baby".
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have you considered adoption if you find a place that does open adoptions you could get a baby i hope you consider this option
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On my legs, i have really thick hair.
But of course, I shave it.
But for some reason, no matter how much I shave, you can still see black dots where my leg hair is.
Is there anyway I can get rid of it? (link)
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if your hair is like mine veet or nair wont work you have to wax to get rid of all those black dot hair folical things
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so i'm supposed to get my period next week, and i havent had any pms symptoms, but my breasts are sore and i've had nausea. I'm thinking I might be pregnant, but I'm on the birth control pill, and I haven't missed any. Is it even a possibility that I'm pregnant? (link)
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tell you what get a test i'm 21 weeks right now and was on the pill and breast feeding i took that stupid lil pill everyday at the same time just to make extra sure i wouldnt have another baby and here i am working on my thrid
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I want to have a baby early. My boyfriend and I are going to start trying to get pregnant as soon as we graduate highschool. I know babies are expensive, but I don't know exactly how expensive. And I know they are hard to deal with, but I don't really know how hard.
Anyone who is a young mother, or was a young mother, can you give me any advice? And please don't tell me to not have one or to wait. Because I know I'll be a good mother. I just need some answers for my questions.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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i had my daughter at just turning 20 and i love her so much but i would have waited i had to work two jobs to just make ends meet i really wished i would have went to collage for a couple of years frist and made our lives easier but it sounds to me like you already made up your mind to have a baby now i'm just suggesting you should hold off for two or three years till you have some schooling under your belt trust me time fly's when your busy i hope this helps
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