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my hair is terrible! disgusting!
i shower and shampoo like im supposed to but my hair i always greasy and knotty and no matter what i use to shampoo/condition it sucks!

im thinking about getting pantene proV
but i hear the alcohol will dry out my hair?
true?

what other good like conditioning products should i use? help!

thanks! (link)
To make my hair silky smooth, I use Herbal Essences Pin Straight shampoo and conditioner. You don't need to use Pin Straight, but my trick is to after you shampoo and condition, just condition once more. My hair feels like I just came out of the salon when I get out of the shower! Then, to prevent knots, comb through your hair right when getting out of the shower and put it into a pony tail. This will keep your hair without knots. Hope this helps!

~free2sing09


My hair is about 4 inches past my shoulders and i have long side bangs that go to my lip. i am always either putting my hair in a headband or pulling my bangs back in a clip but its just getting boring doing the same hair style. And oh yea my hair is straight.

And also if you guyz know any ways to curl my hair, tht would be great. i just want it to look natural. i have a curling iron but idk what i should do to make the curls look natural.

So i just need advice for my regular hair and how to curl it. so yea. thanks so much :) (link)
To curl your hair to look natural, you should use 2 different sizes of curling irons. Curl some hair with a small curling iron and some with a big. This will give a natural look because natural curls aren't all the same size. Also, when you're done curling your hair, run your fingers through it to give it that "bed-head" look. Hope this helps!

~free2sing09


My mom just left me and I don't know what to do! We got into a big fight because she was talking to this guy on the phone a lot and I asked her if she was cheating on my dad. She got really mad and went into her bedroom for awhile. When she came out she had some things packed and told me she was going to go somewhere else where she is appreciated more. I don't know what to do! My dad is gone for another 2 weeks and I don't know what I'm suppose to do in this situation. Do I call the police and tell them I'm alone and stuff and I don't know WHEN or even IF my mom is going to come back? I'm scared. (link)
What your mother did was very irresponsible. I know that I am answering this question a little late, but if this happens again, conatact the police and basically tell them about your situation before contacting anyone else like your dad or grandparents. You were basically neglected and kind of even emotionally neglected. I'm sorry that happened. Please let me know if your mom came back yet and what happened in this situation.

~free2sing09


ok so me and a guy friend have an interesting relationship we are totally comfortable with eachother. we sometimes play truth or dare, but without rules... no matter what it is we have to do it. and him being a guy always ends up getting me good by of course suggesting sexual dares such as stripping, etc you know. i dont mind, however, i want to get him good too. so does anyone have any suggestions of dares i can make him do that will get him really good. doesnt matter how crazy they are... ive done stuff such as dressing him up in my clothes, making him sing mushy love songs...but i want stuff thats even better! any suggestons??? (link)
Have him do something that was on iCarly. Stick a hose down his pants (in front) and turn the hose on full blast. That would be so funny! Also, to get him good, dare him when it's night to run down the street or wherever you choose butt naked. Haha. Hope you get him!


I'm geting a new phone next week. i can't decide which phone to pick, the lg dare or the lg env touch.

i want a phone with a good camera, is fast, and has a full keyboard. also not too confusing. and i want a good looking phone too. :)

the lg dare and the lg env touch are my 2 choices, but if u have any other sugestions tell me!!!!!

thank you if you can help!! (link)
Because you listen 2 Verizon phones, I'm guessing you have Verizon. But just in case, here are some cool phones with different carriers:

T-Mobile:
•Sidekick
•Blackberry Pearl II (2)

Verizon:
•Env Touch
•Blackberry Storm

Sprint:
•Blackberry Curve (My Phone)
•Palm Pre

AT&T:
•LG Neon
•LG Xenon


I'm looking to make some extra money and I have noticed that there are lots of toddlers in my neighborhood. I am going to take a babysitting class where I learn the heimlich maneuver, etc.

Other information:
I am in 10th grade. (Straight A student!..but that probably doesnt help)
16 years old and a girl.
We live in a middle class neighborhood

How much should I charge? I was thinking 8 dollars per hour, + 2 dollars per hour with any amount of friends over. Is that too much?


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It is very smart of you to take babysitting classes prior to babysitting. After taking first aid and CPR classes next weeek, I am thinking of charging $5 for one child and $2 for any brother or sister (this is all based per hour). With the $8 plus $2, that price is a little steep. If the parents are gone for 4 hours, I think paying $40 is outragous.


Recently I've noticed that I seem to be carrying excessive things in my handbag or missing some vital things, so I'm just wondering; what do you, girls, keep in your handbag that you take with you wherever? The things that you always have in your hand bag?

Thanks :) (link)
It's different every day. Nost days, I carry:

•Feminine protection
•Cell phone
•Sunglasses
•Wallet (School ID, Cash/Change)
•Lip gloss
•Hair ties
•Portable brush/portable mirror
•Make-up bag (Eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow, blush)
•Book
•Store reciepts
•Pen
•Cell phone charger
•Cell phone earphones


i just bought some purple and gold heels on impulse as they were on sale at office.
i've come home now and realised i have no idea what to wear them with. Help!

heres a link for the picture so you get a better idea

http://www.office.co.uk/womens/office/'lightning_bolt/37/6330/17203/1/
thank you veryy much!!! (link)
A really cute party outfit would be a sequined mini-dress in silver, black, green, or yellow paired with those purple heels. A cute daytime look would be either dark wash skinny jeans paired with any color pastel T-Shirt or light wash or pale blue fringed shorts paired with a tank top.


15/f
I don't know what I'm asking because I don't know what I'm thinking....if that makes sense.
I'm just....I don't know what I'd call it. One second, I'll be happy-go-lucky, looking around thinking how pretty the birds sound or how beautiful the flowers look, and then the next second I'll feel all depressed and anti-social, I-hate-the-world, fuck-everybody. I'll just wish that I was alone, or that I could pause the world for a couple of hours so I AM alone. Because honestly, I can't be alone ever. I share a room with a SEVEN YEAR OLD, and everyone in this god damn house thinks of and treats her as a princess and so my room is the CENTER OF ALL ACTIVITY. If I'm in the living room because she's in my room, and I'm watching TV, my dad comes along and kicks me out so he can watch what HE WANTS. I can't go in my room because Ally's there. Can't go to my parents room because it's their room, or my brother's room. And my brother usually has the playroom because he's playing video games. I can never be alone. And then I feel like all the house hold chores fall on me. I feel like I NEVER GET ME TIME. I take out the garbage, take out the recycling, wash and dry and put away the dishes, clear and set the table, weed the garden, trim the flowers, clean the pool area for the summer, clean the living room, clean my room, including my sister's stuff. And when I ran out of room for my stuff, I HAD TO LEARN TO GET RID OF STUFF. Meanwhile my sister has half a room and a PLAYROOM for her stuff. My dad calls me Cinderella sometimes, because of all my chores. And either he doesn't realize or are how much that little nickname hurts, because sometimes, that's how I feel. Like I don't matter much at all.
It's so much stress in this family with all that I have to do and trying to be a kid. You know, trying to have a life. Friends, time to just do whatever. And then there's my boyfriend, trying to force me to have sex with him.
Sometimes I just want to go to sleep and not wake up. Just to get a break. A really, really long, ever-lasting sleep.
I don't really know what I'm asking. Everything's all jumbled up inside my head. I guess I'm just asking for anyone to say anything to help me sort through my mind. To help me make this all stop and straighten out and fix itself. I don't know. Just...help? Please?
Thanks.
Chail (link)
I think you should sit your parents down and tell them how you feel about being called "Cinderella", having to do all of the chores and not even having your own room. If your parents don't listen or do anything about your situation, you can maybe go to a consulor or confide in one of friend's parents who you trust.

~free2sing09


i want to lose some weight for going back to school and i was wondering what would be the best way is it as simple as exersise and heathly eating?
i am not that big a size 10-12 so nothing dirastic please!
xx (link)
In the July issue of Seventeen magazine, there is a mini-magazine called "Get Fit by Back To School". This mini-magazine is a 6 week plan that includes excercizes for your arms and chest, butt, abs and legs. Also, it includes healthy meal ideas. The August issue is probably already stocked in most stores, so check Amazon or eBay.

~free2sing09


how do you roast/melt marshmellows at home

multiple suggestions are needed :)

thankyou
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Because my friends don't have fire pits, they always use the microwave. You just make a regular smore (cracker, chocolate, marshmellow, cracker) and put it all in the microwave for 30 seconds. If you don't like how it turned out, either start another one with a different time setting or microwave the one you have more.


why do dogs lick people? (link)
Dogs either lick people if they have a scent that appeals to them or if they like the person who's petting them.


my birthday is coming up soon. i can't decide what i want. there are two things that i'm thinking about asking for. i either want this coach purse or an ipod touch. i already have 2 coach purses. the last time i got one though was a little after christmas. so i kind of want a new one. the coach purse i want is soooo adorable, its one of the new poppy ones.. all of those are so cute, actually. i really love coach, its like my favorite thing. but if i'm good and stuff, when my mom goes to buy herself a new purse, she will buy me one too.. so that's my reason why i'd rather have an ipod touch.

the only thing is, i'm not that obsessed with going on the computer. i mean i go on it, like once a day, but i don't know. what do you think is better?

oh.. & if you don't like, like coach purses, replace it with something else you really like..


& if you have ipod touch please tell me anything and everytyhing you possibly can about it!!! (link)
Not to be rude or anything but maybe you should ask for something less expensive. You do already have 2 Coach purses and you can put music on a cell phone. I would rather go with a gift card (don't get be wrong, I love Coach!) for like Macy's or a store you like. That way, people can pay whatever amount they can afford. Also, you can choose whatever you want with a gift card, maybe even things that you havn't seen before online or something. :)


Okay, i know that my sheets have to be XL twin but does the comforter have to be as well?

And also, what are some great places and sites that you've all found youre college bedding. I've looked on most sites but nothing has caught my eye yet so i'm still looking and need help! (link)
Walmart and Bed, Bath & Beyond have college dorm sets. Bed, Bath & Beyond has an 11- piece set with a comfotor, sham, hamper, sheets and more. The set comes in 4 colors. Though, I am not sure about Walmart. You can go to www.walmart.com or the Bed, Bath & Beyond website.


(18/f) One of my really good friends confided in me and told me that they are thinking of committing suicide, and he made me promise i wouldnt tell anyone. I'm really scared for him and im not sure what i should do. i tried talking him out of it as much as i could but i am still scared he might do something. (link)
You've already tried to talk your friend out of it. Tell someone you trust like your parents so they can talk to your friend's parents. Now, you can only support your friend and listen when they need to speak. You've pretty much have done all that you can.


does anyone know any great acoustic songs like
if it means a lot to you by a day to remember
or
remember sunday by all time low?

also
does anyone know an acoustic song about a guy toying with a girl?

thanks so much. (link)
About a guy toying with a girl, "Teardrops on My Guitar" (Acoustic Version) by Taylor Swift would be good.


so one day i was randomly singing with my best friend ana, when all of a sudden she stopped but i continued. When i finished the song, she's like "ohmigosh you can sing!" I honestly dont think so. so ana forced me to sing to my other bestie mary who also sings, and she said the same thing. This continued for the entire week, then they made me sing for my high school friend who is auditioning for american idol nxt year, and he also said i could sing R&B. evryone says i can except me. Should i take a chance and believe them? Or should i just keep it to myself? I know this is hard w/o a sample but please try you best.
thx (link)
I also sing. Even when I don't ask for a compliment, they just come flowing in. But I did have to practice because practice makes perfect! If you believe that you can win if you enter a competition, practice and eventually, you'll be fantastic!!!


ok i know for a fact when i am sad and turn on the radio i hear a song that pertains to my exact feelings and i think that's really cool. however sometimes a song that i hate comes on and i really want to listen to a good song for what i have been feeling lately. SO.. in conclusion, does anybody know a good song that's about -> liking someone so much but you can never tell them because things always get in the way? (link)
You Belong With Me- Taylor Swift



What are your top 5 favorite songs? I'm looking for new music to try :) (link)
I have so many to name haha! But I love to go on www.pandora.com and listen to music. You enter one of your favorite artists, songs, or composers and it plays your choice and related music. For example, I like to listen to Lady GaGa and it plays her, Katy Perry, Colby O'Donnis, Black Eyed Peas and more. Best part is that it's free!!!


Michael Jackson died today and he was only 50 years old. It really took me by surprise, but it wasn't as if I didn't expect it sometime fairly soon. There have been rumors flying around for some time now about his health problems. As a matter of fact, when Michael was on trial, one day he was late because of health problems. Obviously, the judge didn't feel that Michael's health was all that important because he threatened to have Michael Jackson jailed unless he made an appearance in the courtroom. Michael showed up in his pajamas. Does anyone else remember that?

People made it out to seem as if he was faking. Some people even made it seem like he was crazy and would do ANYTHING as he was suddenly "extremely unpredictable" and all. I guess he wasn't kidding or faking about having health problems, huh?

I'm going to miss Michael Jackson. He was a man who set out to hurt no one, but the world seemed hell-bent upon hurting him. Michael Jackson was seriously the King of Pop in so many ways. Maybe he's better off wherever he is since we trashed his good name without even giving him a chance to speak. I choose to believe that he is now seated up in Heaven, seeing God for the first time.

Does anyone feel like me about Michael Jackson or am I alone in this? When I was growing up Michael Jackson was such a big role model. Sure, he was a little weird but he seemed to care and love. I'm really hurt that Michael Jackson is dead :( almost like a large portion of my childhood has been abandoned. (link)
When I first found out that Michael Jackson died, I was taken by complete shock.He was an amazing performer. Now, I only listen to him on Pandora haha :). But I will always remember him for a musical genius but also a wacked guy.




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