My name is Lacey, I'm 22. 4th yr in college. I like to give advice. I try to be a good person.I'm a very outspoken and honest person.I honestly been through alot throughout my years of dating and taking peoples stuff.I play softball and use to play volleyball.I've been playing softball since I was about 5.And I played volleyball since 7th grade til sophomore year in HS.But that's really it.If you want to know more about me or have any questions.Go for it and ask away.Either message me or IM me sometime.BYEEE!
E-mail: lacey.simmons8@yahoo.com
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Okay, Lee my best guy friend is a Soc Jock. What me and best friend Ashley call the kids that play soccer in my Highschool. Well my school plays In and Out doors soccer all year round, and are wicked competitive to our rivals The Chiefs... and theres so many kids that would KILL to be on the soccer team that theres rules to being on. No Smoking, and No drinking and the biggest ones tho that could get you kicked you off immediatly. Well in November was our start of Indoor soccer which Lee is on because he's amazing at soccer and they won there first game. So him and a bunch of Soc Jocks celebrated. Now I dont know the whole story because I was not there... this is what I heard from a crying Lee which you will understand later. After getting completly drunk and they smoked some Hash i think, he got in his car [alone] thank god and got into a car accident. Well he walked away from it, and his Father completely covered it up and baught him a BRAND NEW CAR! Well, Lee came to me a few weeks after and told me the whole story like hysteric because he was afraid someone knew his secrete and he would be kicked off the soccer team [[who garentees like 10 kids a whole year paid of Coledge which is crazyy]] Well for the past couple months now I have babyset him every Friday night... and 2 Friday nights ago i went over my friends Ashleys house whos parents were thank god on a second honeymoon. Well Lee... he's an alcoholic. His drinkings gotten worse and more frequent and he puked in an areopostale bag like nine times threw it up in the air aiming for the trees and it landed on his head... so i washed him ofcaose. Well then last friday he calls me around 10 saying he needs a ride.. and soon after I realise he wasnst drunk but wanted to talk to me. Well he told me a lot of stuf that I wasnt ready to hear and I left. It started raining and I was freeezing! Well Lee finds me on park bench and tells me my Dad has had a heart attack and im saposed to go to the hostpital. My doctor lectures my Dad, I lecture him to and Lee hears this...
I told my Principal Monday this. And the same day Lee Ralph and Ben the star players were kicked off the team. When I left the office Lee was at his locker and like I had I screwed you over written on my forehead he knew i told on him.. Mr. Broody said I was a loyal friend only doing what i thought was best because I didnt want Lee hurt or dead but I dont feel loyal. He hates me, I messed his whole future up he was depending on that scholarship... Ashley told he it wasnt my fault hes a drunk but no one would know. It is my fault. Lee wont get in a good coledge, or anything. Everyone knows Im the rat. and I dont care what a bunch of little highschool kids think about me or the soccer team. I care about Lee... and he hasnt talked to me. And Im afraid Friday he'll get drunk and wont call... and die. And It will be my fault he's in some ditch. I thought I was doing the right thing, but I didnt. I know his parents wont ground him.. they'll cry there all star is off the team and probably buy him something huge and expensive. He might get in a car accident and it'll be all my fault. (link)
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Don't feel bad, your only trying to help him out. Obviously he doesn't want to talk to you or want to reason out anything right now and that's okay. Let him have his time. He will come to realize how good of a friend you are. He may not understand why you did that, but okay. You need to talk to him and reason it out with him. Try to make him understand why you did that, that you were only trying to help him out, not just rat you out. Give him reasons! Make sure you do talk to him though, he's your bestfriend, you don't want to lose a bestfriend over this. Well hope I helped.
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I sort of have a few questions in one here.
So i'm 17 years old, female, and i'm graduating high school next week. (i'm a young senior) Firstly, a ton of my friends drink, and i don't, so i haven't been hanging out with them lately, which is sad. Now my little brother (going to be a junior in hs next year) wants to start drinking. What do i do? I feel like i'm losing my friends and my brother because i'm not comfortable partying with them.
Also, This boy i liked forever is back from college for the summer and i want something to happen but i'm afaid of ruining a friendship. He told me recently he liked me back when i liked him two years ago... and now he's single again. We go for walks, watch movies together, and talk all the time. He always says the right things. I was really upset the other day, and was basically freaking out. And after a while i was like well, you probably want to get back to what you were doing or whatever. And this was his response:
him: hey hey hey
him: don't think you are ever inconveniencing me if you have to come to me with a problem
him: it's what i'm here for
him: whenever you need help dealing with something let me know
him: i don't care what i'm doing
him: i'm glad you feel you can talk to me when there is a problem
me: thanks. i really appreciate that.
him: try to relax and get some sleep
And i felt so much better. So how can i keep this bond we've got but make it something more? And is it worth it? We'll both be in college come september, on other ends of the country. (boston for him, savannah, GA for me.) I'm worried about starting something before college. oh and he isn't over his ex. that may pose a problem.
my last point. How do you meet the right guy? i got lucky with the boy i was talking about above, but when i get to school, how do i met new people, make new friends? I've wanted a boyfriend for some time now... but i want it to mean something.
i'm just so clueless.
Help?
Thanks.
Panda (link)
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Alrighty, so your young and you don't drink. So what? If you believe things will work out , then it will. Things will fall in place once you've settled down in college. You have to have a open mind and let people into your life. If your friendly and positive I'm sure you'll make friends fast. Even if college is going to be party enviroment doesn't mean you can't hang out with them and have a good time without drinking. Also, with this guy your talking about. You could try and develop something, but I wouldn't exactly suggest it because we all know how hard it will be to leave him for college. If you believe in long distance relationships and as well as him , maybe things will work out for yall. But the fact that hes not over his ex, it will be hard for you and him to develop a relationship and last. Don't think so much about the future and just let things happen. You'll be fine. I hope everything works out for you and if you want anymore advice, just let me know. I hope I helped by the way. Good luck! :]
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17/f
I just graduated high school and a couple of weeks ago I met this guy from my school at a party. I had seen him around before but never talked to him. Anyways I got his number and then he called me and stuff and we had a “date”. (He called it a date, but I would just call it hanging out.) We ate, saw a movie, and walked around for a bit. So there’s nothing really wrong with him. He’s really nice, and he seems to treat everyone the same. The only thing is, he’s a baby.
He’s a junior at the school I just graduated from. He’s actually a month older than me, because I started school early. But it’s not just about the age; he’s only like 4 inches taller than me and he only weighs like 15 lbs more.
The thing is, I know that his size will probably change. He’s one of those guys that was like 60 lbs his freshman year (you’ve all seen them), so I’m thinking that he’s just a little behind on the growing thing. And he’s cute now, it’s just the size thing is kind of a turn off. And I mean like I said, he’s nice, and I talked to someone that hung out with him after our “date” and they said that he wouldn’t stop talking about me. So I know he likes me, and I know he’s genuinely a good guy too, because even though I only went on one “date” with him, I’ve already gotten the “don’t hurt him” lecture from 3 of his friends. (so like I know he’s not just putting on a show for me, and that he’s actually nice to everyone).
My question is, should I give him a chance and try to get past the fact that he’s a baby?
Or should I just tell him I only want to be friends?
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Look, if you like this guy and he's nice and everything, why not give him a chance and stop judging him. It's not always about how they look and age and what not. And plus he's older than you, so you shouldn't put it against him that he's "scrawny". You need to look past all the flaws of him, he seems like a very sweet and loving guy. If you don't give him a chance, you might miss out on something good. If you don't end up liking him then let it go. It's not a big deal. Hope I helped.
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i'm 15 years old and live in cypress, texas.
i know there isn't many places that hire at 15 here.
any suggestions of what i can do to make some money?
i have 3 months of summer & i really really need money! (link)
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Well I'd say either a grocery store or chick-fil-a. HAAA. To be honest, I don't really know what all the age limits for certain jobs but I'd try anywhere.
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so i've been dating this guy for 5 months but 2 days before our 5 month he broke up with me saying "his feelings changed"
but know hes saying everytime he sees me smile he thinks he made the wrong choice and wants to date again just not anytime soon
i have no idea what i should about him cuz i still really like him....but i cant tell if hes playing me of not? (link)
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Well he's being a bit misleading because one thing he's saying his feelings changed and next he's saying he made the wrong choice. A part of me is thinking hes saving you as a rebound just in case things don't work out with other people which is quite wrong and I don't think you should wait out for it. Yeah you might like him alot, but you shouldn't stand for a rebound. If he really wants to be with you he'll be with you now, not way later. You have to move on and try and find someone new. I know it's hard and everything but things happen for a reason and it's time to find the better. Hope everything works out for you.
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okay so
this guy (not my boyfriend...though we act like we're going out) when we're together...well we're all over each other. like ill sit in his lap and he'll have his arms around me...we tease each other and talk to each other in baby voices...hold each others hands everywhere, lean our heads on each other, rub eachothers legs, give each other massages, kiss... yada yada.
and im sooooooo happy.
theres just one issue.
like
when we're leaving
like
we just leave
we say bye, see you (whenever)
or what ever
but like
it just seems so unfriendly!
like
a hug would be nice
how can i make him see that??? without asking him, i dont wanna seem over clingy and stuff since we "arent going out" (link)
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So you guys need to talk. Have a one to one heart talk to see what's going on in yalls relationship. Obviously yall have something going on and it seems to me yall need to move on in the relationship but you need to figure out what he sees yall and what shall yall do next. Tell him you would like to move forward and want a relationship with him. And if your comfortable, just put your arms out to him and hopefully he gets the message. Make sure he knows your quite intrigued by him and want him to be yours. Well good luck and hope I helped.
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17/f
hey guys. ive been going out with my bf for almost 5 months now. after 3 weeks of talking we started going out. yes quick i know. i really liked him. after about a month drama started settling. ex's, best friend, arguments.. and eventually we broke up for about 1 month and recently we got back together. he says he's going to change, meaning he's going to try to put down his pride, avoid arguments, etc. and i promised i'd do the same. but it's like everytime we talk, something always happens and someone's feelings gets hurt. thing aret the same, not much fun in the relationship, less smiles lil bit more tears or hurt feelings, and everytime we;re apart we almost have no time to talk or its over txt. whats your opinion on this? what do tou guys think is going on? and how can i fix it?
thanks much =/ flirty (link)
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Looks to me you two are growing apart. I mean I'm sure yall are crazy about each other but every story has an ending and this may be the case. I know you like him alot and all but you two need to talk things out and see how yall feel about everything and check yalls priorities because relationships are about love/arguements and fun, not JUST about argueing and crying all the time. There needs to be limits and if your unhappy all the time then what's the point. Their suppose to make you feel like a princess and make you happy. So talk it out and hopefully everything turns out okay. Good luck! :]
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I'm sitting at this table for prom and theres this one girl that hates me. she wanted me out of the table but i talked to the other people at the table and they said that i should stay.. so im gonna. but if that girl were to say something to me what should i say back? (link)
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One person will not make a difference in what your doing. She will not change what happens. Just ignore her and keep doing what your doing. Everyone wants you there so it wouldn't matter what she thought. If she directly says something to you just be like haha.. whatever.. anyways. lol. Proms about having fun with your friends and hopefully NOOO DRAMA! Good luck!
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Since atleast middle school I have made bad impressions on people who don't know me. I am an extremly shy person when I first meet someone and it comes off as being snobbish. I know that is the way I act but it is so hard to change it. I am also worried that the relationships I have made recently might not be able to be recovered because they already have that other me stuck in their head.
The question I have is, has anyone else had that kind problem and how they overcame it.
The reason I am asking is because my boyfriends family members (some of them) have not really liked me because of these impressions. I really want them to like me but I don't know how to get over my shyness. I know people say just don't care what they think and be yourself but it feels like there is something stopping me. I have had more than one of my current friends tell me that that is the reason they second guessed being friends with me and I just really don't want that to happen anymore. Please help me find a way to get over my shyness? (link)
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Seems like alot of people have this problem and theres not alot you can do except let time have it's course. One thing you can do is be more socialable and easy going. It's hard to give "good" impressions to people you don't know. Just try and be out there and friendly as you can because alot of people mistaken shyness with snobby or selfish , but you just need to prove them wrong and smile. Don't be afraid to just go up to anyone and be yourself. Noone likes people who ignore them or disregard them. Hope I helped. :] Good luck!
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for a week now ive been feeling distant from my boyfriend. some days ago on zwinky he met this girl named rose and rose fell for him pretty hard. and ever since then we havent been talking like we usually have. hes like distracted and its even worse now since rose's friend is after him too. and when i try to talk to him about it he laughs it off like its not important. what should i do? (link)
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Well THEY are falling for him, until you know for sure don't assume something is going on. You need to talk to him before you go ahead and assume. You two may be growing apart though. Not just because of those 2 girls. In order to anything across to him, you need to communicate with him and ask why have you guys been so distant and what not. Work things out and hope everything works out for the best for you.
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My dad is leaving next year. My parents are divorcing. My mom doesn't even have a job so I don't even know what we're going to do. My dad is always yelling. My mom's always blaming me for everything. My dad hates me & I don't even know why. My parents are always talking about how smart my brother is & why can't I be like him. I get grounded if I don't make A's in every subject like my brother. My cousin is in the hospital. My grandfather has cancer & won't be living much longer. I can't talk to anyone but three of my close friends about anything, but I hardly see them anymore. Two of my best friends got separated from me because they changed the school districts. Another one of my best friends just got transferred to another school starting Monday. Two more of my best friends go to my school, but I never see them, so it's pointless. Another one of my best friends...my parents won't even let me hang out with. I ended up breaking off the friendship with five of my close friends last year because they started drinking & changing & all they do is spread rumors about me & gossip/talk about me now when I see them. God, I can't take all of this. How can I deal with everything that's going on? (link)
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There's alot going on and alot of take in, but things happen for a reason. You need to find out who means the most to you and realize who are true to you and stay close to them no matter what because when have a good friend.. you probaly won't find another friend like that to talk to. Learn to accept your surrounding because you can't do much about your parents. They choose what's best for them and you just accept it. Spend more time with your grandfather because you never know when he won't come back. Accept the fact that God will choose when he will pass away. He will watch upon you and be in a better place. and enjoy your life like your suppose to. Don't look at everything in a negative way. For you have alot of good things in store for you in the future. Your parents have high expectations for you so you won't slack off. They know what your capable of and they don't want you to start slacking off now. They are leading you into the right direction because they won't have much control of you after you leave for college and your all by yourself trying to make good decisions for yourself. Just soak in everything and move forward. Don't look back and good luck. Hope I helped. :]
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what does lust feel like (link)
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Alot of people mistake lust for love. Mostly because it's a desire or attraction to someone. You seem to be extremely attracted to sexually and physically. You might THINK you love them like them but your only intentions are just to have comfort/messing around with. Don't mistake it for love. In the end, it will bite you in the rear.
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who have i had sex (link)
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I don't understand your question and how would I know who you've had sex with?
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soooo how long should you wait after a guy asks for your number to give up on him ever calling you? (link)
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I wouldn't waste your breath. If he really wanted to talk to you/hang out then he'd call right away or a couple days or so. It's a mutual thing. Don't wait around, alot of guys forget to or just asked for it to ask for it. Be patient and don't wait for them to call. Do your thing and if he wants to call he will.
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17/f and he's 18
We've dated 2 years but took a 2 month break a year ago.
Okay.
We decided to take another break on Sunday night, he said we had nothing in common and his parents and friends dont like me. But what hurt the most was when he said "I dont really see you in my future so i dont see the point in still dating" He said how people never marry their first love and if they do that they end up getting divorced because they have never been with other people.
I feel like he would have wanted to break up right then but I convinced him to just spend some time apart. So I thought about our relationship and realized if we got back together I would be the only one trying to change things and he wouldnt want to compromise on anything. I think I would be miserable in that relationship.
So today he texted me and said "I love you" and then a few minutes later said "Lets try to fix things thats if you still want to"
Honestly I'm not sure what to do. He is my first love and I want to be with him, but he said some pretty hurtful things and I'm not sure if HE is willing to make changes.
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I understand that yall been together for a long time, but some love dies hard. No matter what you do, you can't change the way he feels. Either he REALLY loves you or he's just lonely and wants someone. There's no telling what he really wants. You need to really talk to him. Make sure your clear on what he wants. It can't be a maybe for love. He could of said stuff out of anger or what he said was true and real. If you really love him and he loves you. You guys could try to fix things.. but that's only if BOTH of you are willing to fix things. Not just you. A relationship consist of two people. You can't have one trying to keep each other together. If he really wants to be with you. He'll find a way to be with you and TRY to fix things. You need trust and communication in order to have a decent relationship. Without that, you really don't have much to work with. It's like fighting fate and being with someone your not meant to be with. Well hope I helped and good luck! :]
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23/f
Ok I have this friend Terry (26). He is a very good friend and we always have fun hanging out. And yes I do have a crush on him. We flirt all the time but it is always ALL talk. We can about literally anything. I can talk about guys and he won’t bad mouth them and it is the same when he talks about girls. Sure of course there is a twinge of jealousy when someone tries to get in the picture, but I don’t do anything about it. That is just not right. I want him to be happy. I know I have to give it time if it is meant for me and him. Sometimes I feel that it is right there in front of us but neither one of us is blind to it. Well I thought I would make a little effort on new yrs eve. My friends and I were out bowling having a lot of fun. I thought it would be cute and bought this cheesy mistletoe. Last day out of the year to get away with something like that. My friends got a kick out of it. (FYI I am sober throughout this whole thing) I also ran into Terry at the alley too and said he was going to have some people over at his house and that me and my friends were invited to come along. Well I wanted to get there before midnight but my friends just took a little longer then I wanted them too. We got there just a matter of minutes afterwards when everyone is rushing outside to light off the firecrackers. I wanted to wish Terry a happy new yr, just was a little too hard with so many people around. I finally was able to stop him in the kitchen and I had the mistletoe. I thought it was a clever little trick to be able to kiss him. And it did work; also that it was new yrs too. I felt very proud of myself too, that I took a little initiative. And we went on with the evening like nothing had happen.
Well.... turns out, there was a girl that didn't know that was kind of with him. She was almost always around him. At first I figured it was one of these young little girls (teenagers) that do have a tendency to follow him around since he is attractive. Well that was until I saw them sitting on the couch holding hands and cuddling. I felt like such a fool. If I had known they were together that night I respectively would not have tried anything. I know when to not step on toes even when it does happen to me. So I mentally tell myself, “ok I have to back off, and let it be” So the next night I am at our Tuesday karaoke Night which we always go to. Terry is there and the girl wasn’t. But we didn’t do anything out the ordinary. We still continued to banter and flirt back and forth like nothing was different, because it wasn’t. I few of us went up to his house since it was up the street. While most were down stairs, I was alone with Terry upstairs and we were talking and I made the effort to apologize for the night before for kissing him not knowing he was technically there with someone. He told me not to be, since they weren’t actually together and the girl ( her name was Jenny20 yrs old) was very needy, moving too fast and that she lived in Sacramento and had come up to see him for the night. Also said that he thought it was very cute and that he had liked the kiss.
Now what I need to know is what should I do about this? Should I just let things take their course? Should I forget about it? Am I in the right to be feeling like this? This has never happen between us. He is always telling me about these girls that like him but he doesn’t really want to start anything with them, since his last relationship really hurt him, but then he is looking for Mrs. Right and not Miss right now. And he does tell this to the girls and they seem to kind of leave the picture, not even wanting to be a friend, yet I know well enough to keep being his friend. You think he is trying to tell me something and I am not taking it in all the way? I don’t really think he is trying to play me because he does look out for me and has not tried anything. I know this is very silly but it is still something on my mind. Any advice would be great. Thanks for making it through all this.
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Okay so it's kind of complicated, but doesn't mean it's over between you and him. You just need to let him have time to get back together. Just be his friends, do what you've been doing and when or if he's ready, he'll come to you. You just have to give it time. He obviously has something for you, believe it or not. And you like him. Yall need the time to accept it. Both of you. Things happen for a reason and if you don't end up with him, then he'd be a good friend. You don't want to lose a awesome person as a friend, it sucks. Hope I helped and good luck.
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17/f
im around the varsity hockey boys ALOT cuz i am one of their managers. and we had to go to an away game that was like an hour away so me and the other manager rode the coach bus with them. on the way up there we sat in the front with the coaches and one of the boys texted me and goes, you should come back here and entertain us, we can have fun. and then they were texting me "show me your boobs" and then one called me and was like your looking pretty sexy today. so i was like okay..there being goofs. and keep in mind alot of them have girlfriends.well then we were watching a little of the JV game and some of the boys came and sat by us and one of the boys was like ahhh im tired can i lay my head on you, and he was like always close to me but he has a girlfriend. and then on the way home the whole bus stopped at a fast food place and i got out and someone touched my butt and then we sat down and they all sat by us and were talking to us and one of the boys was like oh yeah some of the guys were talking about the gift that god gave you and i was like what? i dont get it..and the other one goes ohh her boobs. and i was like oh my godd but mine arent even that big there like a B! but anyways this is the most ive talked to all these boys, and i wanna keep talking to them in school and stuff, but i dont know what to do. do you think some of them are being serious about what they are saying? and then the boy that kept sitting by me came up by me and my friend towards the end and everyone was like OHHH YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! they are all soo cute but it sucks that some of them have girlfriends. it was just such a good day. but i dont know what to think or do about all this. (link)
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Wow, honestly? They seems like perverts that are just looking for some fun. Alot of joking and probaly are lonely or bored. I wouldn't take them seriously. I know you may like the attention, but as far as I can see, they don't want YOU. They want what most guys want. Respect yourself and don't let them treat you like that. Your a human being. You don't deserve to be treated like a peice of meat. Stand your grounds and don't let them talk to you like that or make you feel uncomfortable. If you are one of those girls who don't care what happens and wants that... treatment. Go ahead and flirt and let them disrespect you. It's your body and your life. Do what you want. Good luck.
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i have a boyfriend and we use to talk like all the tyme but now we bearly talk and i still want to go with him but it just doesnt seem right....but i just wish we talked like we used to and everything was solved
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Well, it could mean you guys aren't growing apart and doing your things. Not sure, but I think you should talk to him about it. Ask him if anything changed or if he still feels the same about you. There's not too much you can do but hope for the best. Hope I helped.
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16/f okay so my bf smokes alot. just going to get that out there right now. weed and cigs. and at times it seems that he would rather do that then be with me. like sometimes he wont come to school because he would rather go do that. and me and him dont hang out alot outside of school so its like if he is dropping school he is dropping me.... anyways there is 2 things i can do. i can tell him we need a break and that i still like him but he needs to sort out his priorities or i can stay with him and believe he will straighten up like he says he will.he says he is going to start coming back to school and be a better bf which he has lately.... i just need to know what the right thing to do is. i mean when he is with me he makes me so happy and i cant stop smiling but he does hurt me too :( so somebody please help me. i want the most effective way and if he doesnt want to be helped and keeps it up i will break up with him and move on. but fully breaking up with him right now isnt an option, he means too much and i want him to knoe i am here for him. so please help me if you can and thanks in advance (link)
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You need to talk to him, seriously. If he can't keep up a good relationship then why stay in it? I think there should be some limits and some kind of priority schedule. You need to try and keep him to realize there are more important things to do than just smoke. It's a bad habit and if you get him to stop , that would be even more better. Honestly, smoking will get you no where except addition and in debt because you end up wasting so much money on it. I know they say they will change and start making better decisions, but that's only saying it. You can't trust just words, they don't mean to, but they end up just breaking their promises and betraying you. Alot of people get hurt trying to fix a relationship, but really they should have just left it because people can't always change...even if they say they were. Good luck and hope I helped.
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Hi, I've had my invisalign in since wednesday, the second day i had them I really felt the pressure and it kinda hurt. Obviously normal, but now I don't feel any presure unless i push against my teeth, then I feel the soreness, is this normal. Also the first time I had it in it wouldnt clip in to one of my mollers properly now it does but it is still kind of easy to remove it from the back i just need to use my tongue and the back pops out. Is this normal or should it be tighter and should I feel more pressure? These arent cheap and I want to make sure I get my moneys worth. Thank You (link)
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Well, the whole point of invisalign is to move your teeth straight and once you have a new tray there is going to be some soreness and weird feeling. I personally have them. Probaly since End of april..? And at first it felt really tight and became sore when I act or put pressure. It's normal. Also, it's normal to be able to pop them out with your tounge. That's probaly the time when you should get new ones though. Just make sure you have them in right when you put them in. It takes time to getting use to and you probaly might get annoyed that you have to take them out and brush your teeth after or whatever, but it's worth the time. You'll start seeing a difference after a month or so. Good luck and hope I helped. If you have any questions or want any advice. Message me. I'm more than welcome to answer any questions.
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