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Complicated.
Okay, Lee my best guy friend is a Soc Jock. What me and best friend Ashley call the kids that play soccer in my Highschool. Well my school plays In and Out doors soccer all year round, and are wicked competitive to our rivals The Chiefs... and theres so many kids that would KILL to be on the soccer team that theres rules to being on. No Smoking, and No drinking and the biggest ones tho that could get you kicked you off immediatly. Well in November was our start of Indoor soccer which Lee is on because he's amazing at soccer and they won there first game. So him and a bunch of Soc Jocks celebrated. Now I dont know the whole story because I was not there... this is what I heard from a crying Lee which you will understand later. After getting completly drunk and they smoked some Hash i think, he got in his car [alone] thank god and got into a car accident. Well he walked away from it, and his Father completely covered it up and baught him a BRAND NEW CAR! Well, Lee came to me a few weeks after and told me the whole story like hysteric because he was afraid someone knew his secrete and he would be kicked off the soccer team [[who garentees like 10 kids a whole year paid of Coledge which is crazyy]] Well for the past couple months now I have babyset him every Friday night... and 2 Friday nights ago i went over my friends Ashleys house whos parents were thank god on a second honeymoon. Well Lee... he's an alcoholic. His drinkings gotten worse and more frequent and he puked in an areopostale bag like nine times threw it up in the air aiming for the trees and it landed on his head... so i washed him ofcaose. Well then last friday he calls me around 10 saying he needs a ride.. and soon after I realise he wasnst drunk but wanted to talk to me. Well he told me a lot of stuf that I wasnt ready to hear and I left. It started raining and I was freeezing! Well Lee finds me on park bench and tells me my Dad has had a heart attack and im saposed to go to the hostpital. My doctor lectures my Dad, I lecture him to and Lee hears this...
I told my Principal Monday this. And the same day Lee Ralph and Ben the star players were kicked off the team. When I left the office Lee was at his locker and like I had I screwed you over written on my forehead he knew i told on him.. Mr. Broody said I was a loyal friend only doing what i thought was best because I didnt want Lee hurt or dead but I dont feel loyal. He hates me, I messed his whole future up he was depending on that scholarship... Ashley told he it wasnt my fault hes a drunk but no one would know. It is my fault. Lee wont get in a good coledge, or anything. Everyone knows Im the rat. and I dont care what a bunch of little highschool kids think about me or the soccer team. I care about Lee... and he hasnt talked to me. And Im afraid Friday he'll get drunk and wont call... and die. And It will be my fault he's in some ditch. I thought I was doing the right thing, but I didnt. I know his parents wont ground him.. they'll cry there all star is off the team and probably buy him something huge and expensive. He might get in a car accident and it'll be all my fault.
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Don't feel bad, your only trying to help him out. Obviously he doesn't want to talk to you or want to reason out anything right now and that's okay. Let him have his time. He will come to realize how good of a friend you are. He may not understand why you did that, but okay. You need to talk to him and reason it out with him. Try to make him understand why you did that, that you were only trying to help him out, not just rat you out. Give him reasons! Make sure you do talk to him though, he's your bestfriend, you don't want to lose a bestfriend over this. Well hope I helped.
- Lacey -
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you did do the right thing! and i am very proud of you for that because honestly i dont know if i would have been able too. what you need to tell Lee is the real reason you told on him, i was a little confused throughout the hold thing... but is the reason you told on Lee because your dad had a heart attack and you didnt want the same to happen to Lee? well if that is the case, thats a really good reason. Lee may not want to hear it at first... but keep telling him. if he doesnt answer your calls, keep calling. leave hundreds of messages. it may seem a little stalkerish, but eventaully he will get sick of anooying your calls and call you back. of this doesnt work you can start rwriting him nots or waiting for him at his locker. even if he does think your a stalker, he will still be able to hear you tell him that you really just dont wanna see him get hurt.
Good luck with him :) and remember you really did do the right thing!
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