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ARE THEY BEING SERIOUS?
17/f
im around the varsity hockey boys ALOT cuz i am one of their managers. and we had to go to an away game that was like an hour away so me and the other manager rode the coach bus with them. on the way up there we sat in the front with the coaches and one of the boys texted me and goes, you should come back here and entertain us, we can have fun. and then they were texting me "show me your boobs" and then one called me and was like your looking pretty sexy today. so i was like okay..there being goofs. and keep in mind alot of them have girlfriends.well then we were watching a little of the JV game and some of the boys came and sat by us and one of the boys was like ahhh im tired can i lay my head on you, and he was like always close to me but he has a girlfriend. and then on the way home the whole bus stopped at a fast food place and i got out and someone touched my butt and then we sat down and they all sat by us and were talking to us and one of the boys was like oh yeah some of the guys were talking about the gift that god gave you and i was like what? i dont get it..and the other one goes ohh her boobs. and i was like oh my godd but mine arent even that big there like a B! but anyways this is the most ive talked to all these boys, and i wanna keep talking to them in school and stuff, but i dont know what to do. do you think some of them are being serious about what they are saying? and then the boy that kept sitting by me came up by me and my friend towards the end and everyone was like OHHH YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! they are all soo cute but it sucks that some of them have girlfriends. it was just such a good day. but i dont know what to think or do about all this.
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They probably view you as [at least] kind of hot, and at least 50% of them are perverts. The other 50% are just going along with the joke to not be left out. No offense (actually if I were you I would be relieved, with how these guys were acting) but I don't think that they actually like you that, especially the ones with girlfriends, they were just looking to make you mad. The one or two that started it, though, may have a crush on you, if they aren't known for being perverts. Then, they were just trying to give you a hard time, lol.
Just ignore them. Unless one or two REALLY pissed you off or hurt your feelings, talk to them just as much as you normally would in school and stuff. During team practices and such, only talk to them about the game, and nothing else. Eventually the "joke" will get old.
Hope everything works out. <3
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Wow, honestly? They seems like perverts that are just looking for some fun. Alot of joking and probaly are lonely or bored. I wouldn't take them seriously. I know you may like the attention, but as far as I can see, they don't want YOU. They want what most guys want. Respect yourself and don't let them treat you like that. Your a human being. You don't deserve to be treated like a peice of meat. Stand your grounds and don't let them talk to you like that or make you feel uncomfortable. If you are one of those girls who don't care what happens and wants that... treatment. Go ahead and flirt and let them disrespect you. It's your body and your life. Do what you want. Good luck.
<3 Lacey
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if you like the way they are treating you then just go with the flow!
its not your fault they have girlfriends
they are the one's that keep flirting with you.
but if you dont appriciate how they are treating you then dont hang out with them because of their disrespectful attitudes and their degrading minds.
good luck
and just follow your gut feeling on what you want to do.
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it sounds like these guys were joking. they might be making fun of you or they might have just been having fun. boys get that way sometimes. i wouldn't take this as anything huge.
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What I think you should think about this?
These guys sound like a bunch of degrading, disrespectful jerks. Why allow them to talk to you that way?
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