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what the heck!!!!!1
okay so
this guy (not my boyfriend...though we act like we're going out) when we're together...well we're all over each other. like ill sit in his lap and he'll have his arms around me...we tease each other and talk to each other in baby voices...hold each others hands everywhere, lean our heads on each other, rub eachothers legs, give each other massages, kiss... yada yada.
and im sooooooo happy.
theres just one issue.
like
when we're leaving
like
we just leave
we say bye, see you (whenever)
or what ever
but like
it just seems so unfriendly!
like
a hug would be nice
how can i make him see that??? without asking him, i dont wanna seem over clingy and stuff since we "arent going out"
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So you guys need to talk. Have a one to one heart talk to see what's going on in yalls relationship. Obviously yall have something going on and it seems to me yall need to move on in the relationship but you need to figure out what he sees yall and what shall yall do next. Tell him you would like to move forward and want a relationship with him. And if your comfortable, just put your arms out to him and hopefully he gets the message. Make sure he knows your quite intrigued by him and want him to be yours. Well good luck and hope I helped.
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well it wouldnt seem clingy if you bring it up in a casual random coversation, but a more subtle and less nerve racking approach would be to make the first move, like give him a hug or smile at him before he leaves...but before u talk to him, you need to find out how he feels about you guys' relationship. Like maybe if he feels like you guys are just friends with benefits then he wont see the need to be sincere in saying good bye...however, I think that making the first move like hugging b4 saying goodbye...if he does it back and seems like he likes that, then keep doing what ure doing...if he seems to pull back, either go back to normal or talk to him about it
Hope I helped
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