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I'm 23 he's 22. We got into a fight because he sent me a text that obviously wasn't for me. When I said something he told me I was stupider than shit and always acting like a bitch. He doesn't respect me so I just blocked him and said bye. Well he tried calling about 50 times afterwards but I ignored it because I refused to be disrespected. Well I didn't talk to him for 4 days and then when I was calm I unblocked him and decided to try to talk about things. Well in these 4 days he moved on apparently and wouldn't have anything to do with me. He blamed me for everything and kept saying it was my fault for acting that way and it's my fault that he is talking to someone else. Really? It took him 4 days to move on from our 2 year relationship? I begged him to stay but he didn't care. I'm so depressed he's done this before I just never thought he would do it again. Do I move on? Or just wait for him to realize that were suppose to be together? Or does that make me pathetic? (link)
You ain\'t pathetic your lovestruck as I was and honestly I was in a predicament similar to your and I found I would wait until he noticed that I was his forever and he apologised after a couple of weeks and asked me for a last chance and I gave him it and he was amazing now I am expecting his baby and everything is perfect he works two jobs to keep us afloat while I am at college so it could be the same for you just wait and keep talking to him xxx good luck


So i am friendzoned by this girl and i am leaving to another school forever but i would like to talk to her on facebook not only at school. When i start a conversation its usually about homework or something like i was just at her parents restaurant. But after a while the convo just dies and i dont know what to say to her anymore! Talking to her just makes me happy! Also i fear i am annoying her but im not sure i am..please help! (link)
Girls are all different and you sound like a nice guy this girl might like you and not want to say in case you don\'t feel the same way so why don\'t you tell her I like you and I would love to keep chatting to you email me on shannonhollyalyssarose@hotmail.com to ask any questions you would not like anyone else to know I love helping people xxx


So me and and my boyfriend haven't been dating for too long but he always makes me feel so special. Almost all the dates we've been on he makes me flowers with yarn (he crouché's) and the other night he planned a whole night about me to make me feel special. I want to do something to show him how much I like him and make him feel special as he does have some confidence issues. We are going on a date in a few days where we are going to do a picnic in the country but during a thunderstorm since we both like watching the stars when it's raining. I plan on writing him little love notes that I'm going to hide in his car and places so he can find them. But I wanted to either make or bring him something to surprise him and I need some suggestions? Any have any ideas of what I can do, even if they are actions I can do to make him feel special? Preferably not something sexual as I want it to be more of a romantic thing but if it's a good sexual idea I'll take it :) thanks in advance lovelies (link)
Brilliant question I was stuck for the exact same thing then I realised if I made him a special box of chocolates then it means my love would be inside him forever try making something that he can eat or drink like chocolates or a box of biscuits or write him a song saying how special he is xxx


I am a 17 year old female and my cousin who is 42 years old says she noticed that I have been acting differently and wanted to know if I had sex with my boyfriend and I lied and told told her no but wh en in reality I did should I have toold her the truth (link)
You are the legal age to have sex so it would be better if you sit down and talk about it with her she nay be surprised at first but she should eventually come around xxx


i asked a question about, 2 days ago about weather i should be sexually active...i have to come to realize that i shouldn't, but theirs one thing. we have been together for 5 months as of Thursday. But, I'm only 13 and hes only 14, and wants to have sex. I've told him multiple times that i don't want to but he continuously talks about it. And he seems to get irritated when i say no. i don't want to break up with him, nor do i want him to break up with me...how do i tell him no so that he finally stops talking about it, without getting irritated? HELP! (link)
sex is something to be enjoyed and i am so not judging here it is an amazing experiance for most people but for some they are just not ready some may never be ready tell your boyfriend that he should try masturbation to satisfy himse;lf but when you are not around so you don't feel insecure just tell if when your ready and ask him to wait for a while.


I'm a 20 year old girl. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 years ago. He cheated on me and tried to date my friend. But when i was in a relationship with him, i think i did love him, and expressed my emotions, cried aand poured my heart out. But he cheated on me, its been two years and at some point i remember him, and i think i miss him. And i knw its wrong, coz my bestfriend reminds me of what he did. And this thought of missing him hurts me, i get lost and at times need the feel of being isolated, and currently when ppl care, i just can't trust them. Its like i'm stuck in between. And i know for a fact that he's never returning back, its like i'm still waiting. I don't want to wait, i wish i can move on. Is there anything i can do? (link)
well I can honestly say i only have two methods for you.
1.try the earth technique it is where you sit on a chair with your back straight and think about what is holding you back and try and think of it as glue you need to try and pull yourself out of a situation.
2. you may just be feeling lonely because you were used to having a boyfriend around you for a long while then uddenly he cheats and leaves that could be the problem if so try and get a new boyfriend just make sure he is kind and caring.


I have this bad habit of biting my lip on the inside whenever I'm nervous or bored or something like that. It's just as bad as biting nails, trust me. >:(

This makes my lip white and it makes it protrude out of my lip whenever I smile. I don't like this because my lips look fine on the outside, but on the inside it looks like I have a disease or something. I want to look kissable :)

So I'm wondering if anyone out there has an idea of how to get me to stop biting my lip so much? I would appreciate any ideas you may have of either getting rid of it or prevention.

I hope you have a blessed day :)

Take care and thanks again :) (link)
simple solution just use a horrible tasting lipgloss that you dont like then if u bite it u will go eugh but remembe rto keep putting it on i done that with my nails i put my nails in lemon tasting hand cleaner and i still do to stop bitin my nails and its working just do it until you dont bite anymore then try no lipgloss and see how iit goes. :D


I am a seventeen year old female and I a 25 year old boyfriend. When we first started dating he didnt ask me my age nor did i ask his. We feel deeply in love and then the age came into play. We've had sex alot and He haseven proposed to me a couple of times. I really really love him. Both our birthdays are in july so i'll be eighteen and he'll be 26. Please tell me what I should do. I don't want anything bad to happen to him because of me. Thanks... (link)
i am in ur situation im 12 and i am secretly going out with a boy at the ge of 16 he is 4 years older than me and i love him but i decided to0 keep it a secret until i am happy to tell my family about him i reckon you should do the same.


what should i do if my boyfriend is meannt to be having a child with another girl i know? but this girl tells lies alot and has pretended to be pregnant before with him but she says this time it is true? would you believe her? im confused and dont know what to do? advice please? (link)
Buy a pregnancy test to prove to other people that she is actually pregnant and not lieing


12/F Ok well I've asked a question about this before about me not wanting to have sex with my boyfriend and well I kinda took the advise until a few weeks ago:(it was his birthday and we were at his house in his bedroom and then we were playing truth or dare I got dared to have sex with him...infront of everyone!so well I said no at first but then everyone got mad so I said yes and well we did! And now I have missed my period and I'm gettin symptoms of pregnancy and I don't know what to do! Help please! I hate myself for doing it!I feel like such a slut! (link)
see your gp and if u dont want to have the baby then get an abortion but also make sure u take a pregnancy test first so you know that you're definitely pregnant dont tell your family though they may dislike the fact that you had sex at the age of 12 and also tell your boyfriend but no one else.


I went on one date with a guy (a friend of a friend) over a year ago. I thought the date went really well, but I never heard from him. My friend says he wants to go out with me again. Should I go on a second date with him or has he lost his chance? (link)
go for it girl you never know how well things could go you could end up being soul mates he probably didn't speak to you cause he thought you didn't like the date.


so im female and 16, not that it matters. There are these three guys and i dont know who i like. i feel like im horrrible person to be crushing on all of them at the same time. The first one is really sweet and shy and in a few of my classes. we dont talk much cuz we are both shy. He seems sweet and i had fun when we talked in class. But whenever i see him in the hall he'll wave and say hi, my face goes beat red. the second guy is really funny and makes me laugh a lot. i have fun talking to him and he seems cool. the third is really smart and we have lots of things in common...and we talk a lot lately. i dont know how to decided. i cant really ask you to choose but would any of you give me advice on how to figure it out. I dont even know if they are interested...thanks (link)
ok try going on a date with each guy an se which one you like best if one of them has alot in common with you and is kind go with him
ps.dont give up if you cant choose.


One of my managers is in his low 20's, as am i. We both have sexual attractions towards one another and have discussed if we would sleep with each other. Has anyone every slept with their manager? Do you guys think it's a good idea if no one finds out? Thanks (link)
hey go for it you never know be good at sex and he may promote you or have sex with him if you feel good having sex


im really sick to my stomache, i have had a headache all day and last nigt,im shaky right now and feeling like im going to throw up, so nauseous, im jitterly and feeing really tired, anyone know what this is, any advice will help, thanks,

for info, i have a thyroid problem,i have hashamto thyroiditis,a enlargedgoiter, are these sins of it (link)
you know you may be pregnant


Hi, im Gracie and Im 13 and my question is...

Do you hit your kids to punish them? My dad never hits me; he grabs me and shakes me sometimes lol or he yells but he never hit me. But the other day I went to a friends house and her mom slapped her for rolling her eyes. I thought that was kinda harsh and unfair. So I was just wondering if lots of parents hit their kids and why? Isnt that like abuse? What if it makes your kids hate you?

Here's a link to a website me and my sis found when we were looking up stuff like this. It's kinda funny but mostly harsh, I think it's suppose to be taken as a joke. Anyhow I thought I'd share it. (it's has alot if swear words too).
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat (link)
never ever hit your kids if they misbehave just tell them off but hitting or spanking makes you a bad parent


im 14

well, ive been dating my boyfriend Jonny for about 3 weeks now. & im not 'in love' with him. hes a sweet guy and everything, but im not in love with him like i thought i would have been. me and him went through so much to be togher :/ befor we dated he was my bestfriend. and i always went to him for all my guy problems, and like i cant help but think of other guys sometimes.

i really dont wanna lose him bc i really like him. like, is it a good thing that im not in love so early in the relationship? or should i end it befor it gets seriouse? :/ (link)
you should probably end the relationship before it gets to serious because if he isn't the one then your gonna end up unhappy then after you break up just try to be friends and move on.


what should i do if my mum calls me stupid should i run away from home? (link)
running away is never the answer just confront her and if that does not work phone a family counselor


My boyfriend and i have been together since 2mths..
i love him alot..he is gud 2 me and says he is serious wid me 2..
whenever we meet he is nice to me but once daily life routine starts he stops texting me..
i really gt annoyed wid his behaviour..
and everytime he has a excuse ever ready with him..
what you think should i cope up with him cuz i love him or move on without him? (link)
break up with him girl. he is not worth it you gotta move on wiv yor li feand get someone new after 6 months.



i'm eighteen years old.was in a relationship for the past four years.everything was absolutely fine..till my bf decided it had to end(a week back).i kinda understand why he had to do so..and totally know he did the right thing..but i'm not able to let go..though breaking up was the most practical thing to do, i'm not able t accept it..and the thing that makes it even more complicated is that we had been doing more than just hanging out.so after all this..i feel like i've been used and cheated..i'm not able to tell my parents about it cuz i'm feeling guilty.. have already attempted suicide twice but it didn't really work..i have no idea what to do,, every little thing in my life reminds me of him..i wanna hate him but am really not able to...
and knowing that he's moved on is only hurting me more...i don't know what to do and i need all the help i can get...not to get back to him..but to let go of him..... (link)
don't try kill yourself try move on and find someone else i went through the same thing but i soon relised don't be negitive and go find love get a life and live the dream.


Hi. I have been experianceing the following for the last week or so: having to go to the bathroom alot, being very thirst all the time, loosing 10lbs in 1 week, and stomach cramps. I was wondering if i should contact a doctor and what they could be syptoms of because i am 11 years old. Thanks. (link)
well i am a ex doctor i thik you may be suffering from diebities




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