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A girl which is a friend.
So i am friendzoned by this girl and i am leaving to another school forever but i would like to talk to her on facebook not only at school. When i start a conversation its usually about homework or something like i was just at her parents restaurant. But after a while the convo just dies and i dont know what to say to her anymore! Talking to her just makes me happy! Also i fear i am annoying her but im not sure i am..please help!
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Girls are all different and you sound like a nice guy this girl might like you and not want to say in case you don't feel the same way so why don't you tell her I like you and I would love to keep chatting to you email me on shannonhollyalyssarose@hotmail.com to ask any questions you would not like anyone else to know I love helping people xxx
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If you want to talk to her, get to know her. Once you learn new things about her then it'll be easier to talk to her. Her favorite things, family, activities, hobbies, ect.
But if I were you, I'd try to move on. If you're going to another school and you'll never see her, then you shouldn't try to be more than just her friend.
If it's still possible to see her and the school you're going to isn't that far away, then cool, go for it and try to talk to her more.
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"So i am friendzoned by this girl"
Stop. Stop right now. Just stop it, dude - it's bad for you. Stop messaging her. Stop going to her parent's restaurant. Stop it and move on.
Seriously, man. Unless she is going to hook you up with one of her friends, there is *absolutely* *nothing* in this for you.
Oh: hit the gym. Lift weights.
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Do you know what she is involved in at school? Is she in band or cheer leading or sports? If she is find out as much as you can about it and ask intelligent questions. She will probably be impressed. You could also talk about current happenings like what movies are playing at the theater, who her favorite teachers are and why,etc. What I am trying to say is get to know her. The better you know her the easier it will be to talk to her! I think she will finally get the picture and realize you like her. Otherwise you will just have to tell her! I know the horror of what I just suggested is still ringing in your ears but think about it. It could be possible that she likes you too and is too shy to admit it! Good luck I am sure it will all work out just fine!
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A, the friendzone is an imaginary place... You have a shot with any girl, even one that has declared you a brother or friend type... you just have to crack that... it's hard, but doable with effort.
But... if you wanna talk to the girl... you have to do research. What does she like? If you don't know... you should ask her. Girls love talking about themselves at any age. I love talking about me, still. Once you find out what she likes... books, movies, music, whatever... you investigate the things she mentions... bands, authors, genres... then you can spark conversation with that.
If you're looking to escape the friendzone, btw... you need to figure out viable things to investigate. If she watches just chick flicks and listens to female pop singers... interest in those won't break you out of the friendzone. Find things you can both enjoy, and invite her to them. THAT is what will break you out of the friendzone.
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