Gender: Female
Location: new york
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 24, 2004
Answers: 54
Last Update: June 8, 2006
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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
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you'll never be with him though sorry but maybe you're attracted to older guys or just because he's an actor.
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ok so i always like a guy and i always want a bf and then i flirt to make them like me. then i go out with them and like 2 weeks into it or so i stop liking them and want 2 break up with them and after like a month+ i finally break up with them and then i realize taht i still like themand sometimes i go back out with them and sometimes i don't. but then as soon as i don;t have a bf i want 1 again. why do i do this? and how do i stop? (link)
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you're desperate for attention. maybe you don't get enough from your parents or family so as a result need it from a guy.
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I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help. (link)
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Don't have sex. Done.
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Well i am in 7th grade and my bestfriend is moving to West Varginia and i just met her at the beginning of the year and now she is moving at the end of january and i am gonna take it very hard because we are like bestfriends soooooooo what should i give her and tell her b4 she leaves??????? Need Help Fast!!!!!!!!! Thanx
oxoxoxo,
C.S. (link)
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how can you be bestfriends if you just met her?
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heyy ok.. one of my bestfriends has this secret and she only told me and my other bestfriend but she told us not to tell our other bestfriend (all four of us are bestfriends) but anyway.. i told that person n i kno i shouldnt have but it was too hard not to. We also fight alot.. we say really mean things to eachother and hit eachother as a joke.. but do u think thats a good friendship? Let me know wat u think! thanks a bunch! (link)
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no because if all four of you can't trust eachother...then that's not a friendship sorry
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP! (link)
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if you ignore them it'll eventually bother them and then.. BAM! it will dissolve in time.
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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when you're comfortable is when you can do whatever you feel like doing.
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okay i know this is nasty- but you know how when you work out, etc, sweating makes you loose calories or w/e? Well just say you work out for a long long time, and sweat alot, and you don't get home for awhile and so you cant take a shower and wash the sweat off of your body, so the sweat like sinks back into you kinda or it dries up or w/e.. ew i know gross, but does that mean you dont loose any weight cause the sweat just went back into ur body?? [gross i know] (link)
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no, it just means you stink!
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okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy. (link)
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do'nt use him for yhis gift! its meeeeeeeeeeeeean
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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor? (link)
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don't drink it could harm the baby even a little bit. don't hurt the unborn please!
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?! (link)
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bleach it
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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
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go to your doctor and check up on this
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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there's no age. when you're ready you're ready. don't have sex just to be like your friends. and if they mock you about it - not true friends at all.
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
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i think so from what i've gathered. talk to him about the way you feel if he can't respect you from then on maybe it's better off you do dump him sorry.
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah (link)
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definitely tell her you'd be there for her and to let her know you haven't turned your back on her just because she's pregnant. good choice!
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OK so me and my Best friend have been friends since like third grade...we live by eachother and we would hang out all the time....In Elementary school it was great..then when junior high hit we still hung out but not as much...we talked all the time and we were still very close...but then highschool happened....it seemed that she became friends with alot of the cooler crowd and would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her....Now we are in the same church group so i see her every sunday and she talked to me there....I kind of feel like i am her second wheel...like if no one better is around she will talk to me...or if all of her "cooler" friends were gone all weekend then she wood call me....is she just using me? I dont know what to do.....HELP! (link)
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YES! you said it yourself, "she would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her." well.. yeah that's totally using you. talk to her about it and if she gets mad then .. don't be friends with her you're better than that.
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Hey everyone. I have an embarrassing problem that's really taking over my life.. it might seems small to some, but it's not at all. I have bad stretch marks, and they're making me majorly self conscious... around everyone. I have them all over, but they're especially bad on my stomache and sides. They're taking hold of me and my boyfriends relationship. Does anyone have any home remedies or in-expensive products I can use?? I'm using palmers cocoa butter right now. Should I use it every day?? Please give me advice, i'll rate high. Thanks so much (link)
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use it everyday um if you go to the pharmacy they have stuff for that at like cvs or something - inexpensive.
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Ok, well, I weigh 120 lbs. and I'm only 13, female. Well, I want to start all new this year, so how do I lose weight fast! I want to lose 3 pounds a day! please help me. thnx for the tips
xoxox luv always Chelsey (link)
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3 pounds a day.. unhealthy!! never do it 2-3 lbs a week maybe but join the gym and don't eat any shyt and more protien then carbs and.. WATER!
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about a month ago..my neck was very itchy..so i started 2 scratch it..nd it got 2 a lil scab..nd i would always peel off the dry skin..and now its like really big!..and dark nd wont go away..i keep puttin my clearasil ultra 3 day acne treatment..and well iono..i juss kant stop peeling tha scab and it just gets worse! any advice? (link)
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Stop peeling the freakin' scab!
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15f, okay ive realized that having like 2 or 3 best friends is perfect, no drama no nothing, and then they started hanging out with their old friends who are totatlly bitches, sry, but i could care less then at 300 in the morning last night i get these stupid phone calls of them making fun of me and my boyfriend, i just feel really hurt and betrayed by them because it wasn't them saying things but they were telling them to say things obviously because i tell them everything and to only them. i just wished that they could have made the other girls stop calling me. i just hope that you guys got that, its hard to understand, but what should i do, now all i have is my bf and his friends? should i talk to my best friends about what they did? (link)
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Yes, it's not right. definitely talk it out with them and if they seem to not care then look for a new friend. it takes time to rebuild trust.
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