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iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i just found out over the weekend that he kissed some whore named kelly and i've been cryubg over him for 2 days and i don't think that i can take it anymore what should i do? (link)
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I always hate to here about cheaters and the pain they inflict on the ones they claim to care about. If it was me personally I'd kick him to the curb without another thought, but I've seen it enough to know it's not that simple. so here are some tips, if you decide to forgive him, remember it was only a kiss it could have been worse, and if he really is remorseful, I think you'll be able to sense it. start keepin an eye on him alot until he regains your trust. If you cant forgive him, and don't think he can regain your trust you really should save yourself the trouble and break it off. otherwise your in for a long rocky relationship filled with doubt and mistrust. not worth the constant mental pain trust me. If you are able to break it off get in touch with your gal pals, nothin like man bashin with your girls to make you forget a jerk.
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I was only wonderin if like you could fall in love with a person who you just had sex with??
because i did but he has been my friend for a long time but now I dont know how i feel... i dont know whether i see him as a friend or something more
help!! (link)
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well, some people prefer love to come before sex, but either way I just want to give you a heads up to be sure of how you really feel before risking your friendship. Theres a very different chemical reaction that happens in womens brains durring sex that don't occur in men. Those chemicals often make women feel a false sense of connection with their sexual partners. I'd reccomend giving yourself some time and space from your friend to evaluate your feelings, as well as giving the chemicals a chance to cool themselves, allowing you to think on it unbiased. If you decide you have stronger feelings for him talk to him about it, hopefully he feels the same. I have heard good friends make the best boyfriends.
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me and a few friends are making a short movie for school and we want to make it as realistic as possible. in a scene where a few guys get shot, how can we do this so it's very realistic? how do they do it in the movies so we can do the same? we know that they use things like fire crackers to make the effect but we aint sure how to do it ourself. help plz (link)
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Well I'm certainly no professional but I would mix corn syrup and red food coloring for "blood" and pour it into little Ziplocking snack bags (the real tiny ones) and use duck tape (um if theres chest hair might wanna shave the area 1st) to secure the bag to their skin. When they get "shot" they would Smack/Grab the wound popping the bag for a bloody effect. As to the gun, have you considered a black spray painted cap gun, they make a great loud noise, even giving off a bit of smoke for added effect and they are very cheap. Alot of movies use real guns with Blanks loaded in them, but unless you have an honest to god gun expert working with you i wouldent reccomend fooling with that. however, and I'm only mentioning this because you said it was for school. I hope this is a social awareness type project or that you have someones permission for this type of violence to be portayed in school, because in light of the recent widespread panic going on in schools across the country right now it might not be appreaciated as art.
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I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem. For about the past month or so, I have not been able to fall asleep before the hours of 1:00 and 2:00 in the morning. Sometimes even later. I have a 9:00 class on MWF so this sleep schedule makes it very difficult for me to get up in the mornings. However, no matter what time I wake up in the morning, I'm unable to fall asleep at an early time. I could sleep about 5 hours total and not be able to fall asleep until 1am that next night. I don't normally take naps, I'm awake, tired & groggy all day up until 8 or 9 at night..then I'm wide-awake.
How does a person deal with this? Its like I have to completely exhaust myself before I can finally fall asleep. (link)
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I'm sorry but I just have to say I disagree with the other advisor, Tylenol PM is just as addictive as any other sleep medicine containing Diphenhydramine HCI, which is the actual "sleep aid". However, I would reccomend you invest in a bottle of Melatonin. Melatonin is an all natural dietary/sleep aid that can be found in the vitamin section of any drug store. one 3 to 5 mg. tablet is all you need 30 minutes before bed time. I would like to state for the record the importance of this supplement. The Hypothalamus is the part of your brain that stimulates your master gland (pituitary) to realease hormones, including Melatonin, which causes the sleepy feeling you would normally get when you get tired. Therefore it is the only really safe and unaddictive product to use in your case it will also help get your body back to it's normal sleep cycle. once you get back to that you won't need them anymore, until the next time your internal clock gets screwy. which by the way can be messed up by anything to a lack of natural sunlight, to pure stress or exitement. Again please avoid Tylenol PM specifically as long term use will have a very negative effect on your liver.
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can bulimic people get ulcers??? (link)
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you bet, matter of fact they are extremely likley to get ulcers. with bulimia along with the food that comes up acid from your stomache does as well. that acid hitting your esophagus is even scarier, in time you can even get a hole in it. If you think a hole in your stomache lining will hurt imagine one in your throat and esophagus. If you get one there theyll put a tube in your throat or put a sergical drain in your stomache that they will use to feed you. If you have HBO watch thier special documentary called THIN. I'ts extremely informative.
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Hi. This morning, as i was in bed, i tried rubbing my eyes, and my right eye, really hurt. so after a few hours, i got up, looked in the mirror, and there was some sort of yellowish-green thick liquid, on the edge of my eye, and my eye was slightly red and runny. there is also a tiny little spot on the edge of my eye, that hurts also. My eye hurts when i blink, or look around. is this an eye infection, or something worse? will it get better with eyedrops? thanks. (link)
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Since your concerned enough to ask Im going to assume this yellow green liquid is not your usual morning eye crust. because this yellow green liquid is thick it's practically another way of saying pus. skip the eye drops and hit the docs office. chances are you have an infection. the tiny spot could be an infected sore or nast bug bite.
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i have a serious problem (or maybe it's just serious to me). my house can be really warm, and i'll be FREEZING. like i'll feel like i'm outside in the cold, and i shiver & shake, and my teeth chatter. every night i go to bed with 6 really large blankets & some shorts with a big shirt & a hoodie, and i'm still shaking. i did that the other day but i had pajama pants, a big shirt, socks & a hoodie on and i was still cold. is there something wrong with me for being freezing all the time? i'm like this during the summer too. my skin feels warm when you touch it, but i feel colder than ever, and sometimes i have goosebumps and my hair stands on end. i told my mom and she looked at me funny, but i think there might be something wrong with me. help? (link)
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I agree with pockets you most likely have anemia especially if your on the slender side. you can eat more meat for awhile and it will help if it's not severe or chronic. but if you been like this for more than a month you'll have to visit the doc.
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So I'm going to describe this the best i can, but i'm not sure if you'll get it. On the left lip of my vagina, like on the underneather part, it was hurting the other day and its still hurting so i went to go look at it and it feels like there is a tiny hard ball like thing inside of it. When i touch it, i feel a bit of discomfort but it doesn't actually hurt. Also, its not very big though.
And i'm starting to get what looks like the chicken pox around my bikini area but i have already had them, they don't itch or anything but they are just red dots. So help? (link)
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If you shave down there it would explain the red dots. If you do it's probably nothing but razor burn. The bump could be nothing more than a zit. If it has a white tip it probaly is just a zit, if your not sure use a hand mirror and a flashlight to take a peek. this however is all best case scenerio and assuming your not sexually active. If you are sexually active and or you dont shave get to your gyno/ doctor pronto, because if your having sex you may have contracted an std. If your not active and it apears to be a zit to you, give it 7 - 10 days to go away, if it doesent, again with the doc.
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I am 43 years old and have been married to a loving, thoughtful man for 16 years and we have a 14 year old son.
Unfotunately,a recent argument has spurred my husband to suddenly decide to take an overseas civilian contractor job in Iraq for 6 months! The original source of the argument was petty (I moved a drinking glass) but he says that he's short tempered because he's been under a lot of stress lately over the deep financial debt we're in. (We have an astronomical mortgage payment and three vehicle payements which take up practically our entire paychecks.) He says this job will pay $8000 a month and we can have all the cars paid off in 6 months and will be able to live a little more comfortably.
To make a long story short, I'm so angry and scared over this that it's making me physically ill. We've had several fights over this and I'm at the point now where I can barely stay under the same roof with him. He says I'm not being supportive while I think he should have looked into local job options or let me take a night job. Most of all, I think he should have given this more thought. (My husband has a long history of doing impulsive things only to regret them later - which is why we have the three car payments and the huge mortgage!) Instead, he let his friends talk him into this and only three weeks after the initial incident which started all this, he's all processed and is set to fly out on April 29th. So much for giving this some thought!!!
I've got no one to talk to about this and have been pretty much keeping to myself over the past couple of weeks. I just don't know how to cope with this. He slapped me with this so suddenly and expects me to be cool with it.
Am I being unreasonable? I'm so confused and so full of resentment that I can't think straight. One minute I'm crying and the next minute my blood is boiling in rage.
Any advice would be appreciated. I know that you military wives are in a different situation because your husbands have no control over where they are sent and you are put into a position where you HAVE to cope while my husband will be going over there voluntarily. But I'd still like to hear how you cope. What emotions did you have to deal with?
And if there are any other overseas contractor spouses out there in the same situation I'm in now, I'd definitely love to hear from you.
Thanks. (link)
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I'm a military wife, and believe me I feel your pain and rage. My husband joined the army right out of highschool "volentarily," what they dont mention on the news at that most at his age with no work experience don't have a lot of options. He is nearly done now one year and two months exactly and we are free. I have been sick with fear outrage and disgust, for nearly three years. however we have been beyond lucky he has not had a tour in Iraq yet, but he did spend one full year in south korea without me, we'd only been married about 7 months, when he left. It was right after he joined they packed him off. anyways more to the point if there is a such thing as coping with this sitch I'm clueless. our marriage was nearly destroyed. However alot of military wives will give you all kinds of BS like be proud your husbands doing a good thing. theyll tell you to let your friends and family help you through it. if thats the route you take good luck, I found friends and family can't help because they don't understand what your going through. I personally drank and smoked pot the whole year, completely not kidding. obviously that is not good advice, just honesty, I did not cope well, but unlike other people i will tell you what sure as hell would've helped had I known it then.
1st get him a really good cellphone and half a dozen phone cards to take with.
2nd get yourself a voice over internet phone VOIP
comcast and other cable companies now offer it. I however use sunrocket (you find them online) either way get international. because if you don't and you plan to talk to your man that 8 grand won't help a whole lot. 3rd do everything you can to make all your phone or internet convos pleasant, absolutley no fighting. theres nothin worse than getting off the phone with you both pissed and him thousands of miles away with no wifely supervision. whether its true or not believe me your mind will go wild with possible scenerios. 4th avoid watching the news, everytime someone gets killed there (daily) youll trip out with worry. 5th make sure you have complete acsess to the funds he's making if he will be helping to pay the bills (ie the cars). talk to him often on the phone schedule time for it because there like a day ahead of us over there. 6th, keep busy, go out with your girls as often as possible and I found it helpful to help my friends let them lay thier troubles at your feet, It'll keep your mind on others probs instead of your own. Keep a calander and tick off the days that actually really helps. last but not least stash as much extra cash as you can i know you need to pay your bills but anything else save save save save so when he gets home you guys will be set for awhile if you don't it will be the same all over and he may turn around for another go at it. feel free to email me at nighthunter020@yahoo.com if you ever need to chat. by the way if your into reading buy like 50 used books that sound good and read one every day or week depending on your speed. the time will fly by. Good Luck
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Lost my job no money about to loose everything family to take care of now what? (link)
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As I'm sure you already know, start looking for a new job, ASAP. Next big thing you need to do is contact your creditors, the bank if you owe on your house, your credit cards, utility companies ... all of them. Explain what happened, work out a minimum payment plan, ask them to withhold turning you over to a collection agency for one month. It's not a long time so they should be willing to wait. However you need to be actually working somewhere by the second week to compensate for waiting on your first check. where you fired from your old job? laid off? or quit? if you were fired or laid off you may be eligible for unemployment which would help tide you over. contact your unemployment office. Also with a family to look after you may want to contact your local social services agency and get hooked up with a link card to buy groceries at no cost to you. If you have very young children you may also be eligiable for WIC. A group that also helps with groceries and diapers and things like that. If you dont find a job or dont think you will in time definately get to social servive office they have all kinds of programs to pay rent, utilities, and groceries, dont wait on this as all goverment processes take time that you dont have. If you lose your roof, or think your going to, sign up for section 8 housing. the wait list is long so you may need to stay with friends and family until an apartment or house becomes available. keep in mind if you have any money at all apply it to the necsessities, like your rent/house payment, groceries and heat if needed. all the other crap, phone, cable ect. are expendable. not to mention luxury bills can wait if this is a real emergency. It won't look good on your credit but better your credit than the roof over your family's head. Seriously good luck to you.
Another possible option is contacting churches, speaking with a local pastor or preist, (I have heard of christian churches helping those in your situation). you may also need to look into possibly selling/down grading some things. I wish I knew whether or not you owned or rented your living space. Anyhow, you have a car? I would sell it for as much as possible and then buy a much cheaper (but safe) car from your classafieds. cars being sold in the paper by individual owners are usually a lot cheaper, but still reliable. If you rent, use some of your car money to get you into a cheaper apartment. If you own your own home can you get a loan using it for collateral? have you also considered an auto loan? all you need for that is a car title but use it as a last resort i used to work there as a teenager, interest is outrageous and it will only buy you a few weeks. If you don't pay it back they'll take your car. Can you borrow from a relative? Please let me know what state you live in and a little more info regaurding your assets and I will keep trying to find new local information for you. Also are you male, or female, your age, number of children, and marital status, not to be nosey but some programs are more helpful to singles with kids and women with kids.
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I have a toshiba satellite laptop computer.It got a virus in it a long time ago and it kept getting worse and worse.Then i went to use it,it wouldnt work.It has windows xp home edition.The computer turns on,and the screen comes up ( it always came up its a password you have to put in to turn the computer on.i guess thats the best way to explain it.) then the ap home edition loading page comes up and it takes a long time (never took this long..took like 10 seconds before now about 5 minutes.)next a box comes up it says log onto windows. user name and password (like if you were on a company network.) it never had that before..before all the user names would come up and you click on the one you want and put a password in.when you put the name and password in,it takes a long time then a background screen loads.and a error box comes up.it says explorer.exe - application error
the application failed to initialize properly (0xc0000006) click on ok to terminate the application. .... then when you click on it it comes back up.then the next time it stays off.then the icons or bottom task bar does not come up. its just the screen.nothing else works.if you try ctrl alt del .. half comes up then it says not responding.
i was just wondering if you could help me.
if you just want to answer on here its ok.
other wise i can im you and explain to you a little more if you need more info.
thanks alot.
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When it gets that bad, I would reccomend taking your original programming disc that came with your computer and wiping that sucker clean. youll lose anything you ever saved but if it's that bad it might be worth it to you. I have done it twice in four years it will put your computer in near new condition as far as speed and viruses go.
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14/f
after school, i'm doing a sport and well around now is when i'm supposed to get my next period. So I already know that I can't wear tampons when you do not have your period. Well for now until my period starts I am wearing Maxi Pads and well they have the slips that you tuck under your underwear so they stay in place...
My question is when I change in the locker rooms (i can't in the bathroom) there's gonna be almost 50 other girls there... and well I really do not want them to see me with a pad, so my question is what if I wear some kind of workout tights/shorts underneath my jeans at school, and then after school when we change nobody can see my underwear, and so i would just change into shorts.
does that seem weird? would people laugh??
if this sounds like a bad idea- how do i make my pad seem less visible in front of people when I change?
I CAN'T wear a tampon yet because i havn't gotten my period yet, it's gonna be starting pretty soon, so i just wanna be prepared.
PLEASE answer quickly. thank you! (link)
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Again your right no tampons just yet, however a good thing you might find verrrry helpful, get a thin panty liners with no wings. Its exactly what there made for. no wings mean no visable tags, if you worry about it slippin wear tighter undies durring this time,but panty liners are so thin no one will see it even if there is a freak lookin for it.
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okay i ended my last period on feb 28 and i didnt get it the month of march, usually i get sore breast a week b4 i get it but i didnt get either of them, i've been having mild cramping. im worried about why i missed it. me and my bf never had sex. however on march 2nd and 9th he did finger me and i jacked him off and he cummed but after he cumed he washed his hands with soap and water. im really worried that im pregnant, right now i dont have sore breast nor tired or vomitting but i have been having cramping. is it really easy to get pregnant by fingering if cum was on his finger? and i didnt get my period. and i usually dont miss mine.
wats a first sign of being pregnant? (link)
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you say he washed his hands, before or after he fingered you? if he washed his hands free of semen before fingering you, theres no way your pregnant, especially if he used soap too. However, if you let him ejaculate near or on your genitals, theres a possibility that you got pregnant. there is also a possibility that you got pregnant if he had semen on his finger when he inserted it into you. all around the possibilites are there but slim. get a pregnancy test from a dollar store, there like 4 bucks there and just as good as the expensive ones. as to your period, have you been worring about this for awhile? I've known many females that have stressed themselves into misses periods. if your worring about it, it can stop it, also if you started dieting or excercising alot lately can stop your period as well.
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13/f
my mom won't let me make my own decisions. I realise that if I screw things up, it'll be my fault & I'll have to suffer my own consequences. My mom explained that whole thing to me and I said I was willing to do that, but then at the end she's all like "ah I'm still not letting you. that was hipathetical" and I'm like WTF.
She thinks that I'll get pregnant or have sex or do drugs. and I already told her that i'm not stupid & i won't do that. All I want to do is go over my boyfriends house, and i'm not even allowed to do that. My boyfriend has been over my house every single time. Now my boyfriend is mad at me because I'm never with him, and everytime we're over my house we're being watched over like a hawk.
I know I'm only 13 but i'm not stupid. And everyone else is allowed to be with boys. I'm even interested in having sex, and my mom says that all boys this age are. Even if it's true, he won't be anywhere near me. My mom is ruining every single relationship I have. (link)
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first yes, kudos to your mom, better over protective than none at all believe it or not. 2nd, you say your not stupid and would not be pushed into sex, i believe you. now you have to show your mom that you are smart and responsible. to do that take on more responsibility. clean up after yourself, and the household, be helpful if there are animals or younger siblings help out with them as well. when your boyfriend comes over if your family is in the kitchen, ask if you and he can watch some tv or talk in the living room, if thier in the living room ask if you two can go sit in the kitchen and talk. either way the minute you two are alone use the oppurtunity TO PROVE YOUR RESPONSIBLE! if theres a door seperating you guys from the family, open it, and act grown up about it. no more whining or complaining. talk to your mom again in a couple months and tell her you feel that you have really started to be more responsible, and i was hoping that in time you could learn to trust me more. start small, ask permission to take walks around the block with your boyfriend. work your way up and all the while keep up with your chores and schoolwork, and help your mom any way you can. and im not advising this to make you work your but off, but the fact remains your young, if you want to be treated like an adult you must first act like one.
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I want to burn my boyfriend a CD. All the songs are in MP3 and WAV. I burned it, but it didn't work on his CD player or XBOX. Apparently it doesn't read those files. It only works on his computer. So, what is a preferably free program to change these files to work on a CD player?
Also, What are those files called?
Thanks so much. (link)
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transfer all of your mp3 files to windows media player, create your playlist, select it, click on burn from the top toolbar. when it opens all your songs will be to the left, and the right side will say insert a recordable disc. put your disc in (yes a CD-R)on the right hand side you will see a drop down bar that says CD:drive yada yada, click the arrow till it says audio, data is mp3s, only good for mp3 players, but by switching that to audio,and clicking burn cd, media player automatically changes your mp3 files to audio for the cd. an audio cd is what you need for your boyfriends older model electronics. P.S. you don't need different file types your mp3s are fine you just have to change the type of disc your burning before the burn process.
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Well I recently turned 13 last month, And I've had pupic hair since about 12 in a half, and idk why but it scares me, like when im in the water (the bath tub) it makes me feel funny and its itchy..., I want to remove it, In fact I've been shaving it off for a while now, but it grows back ictchy, stubbly, and whiskery (hate that word!) I tried nair once, but it hurt REALLY bad and made my pours bleed.
Plus it grows back really fast for me, like in 4-5 days for me, and it itches SO BAD.
is there any way I can get it off without shaving and using nair? thanks =] (link)
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Okay, as a shaver myself, it's as simple as this, Don't use ANY kind of chemical hair remover down there, EVER! you have a few option, get a brazilian bikini wax, every few weeks, hurt like hell, but lasts longer than shaving. electrolosis, which is permanent but very expensive. Or do what the rest of us that hate that hair do, Shave it, every other day just like you would your leggs or armpits. no stubble because you keep it shaved, never grows back cuz you don't let it. However, keep in mind many a careless woman have had to take trips to the ER cuz they were not careful, always be careful, go slow, an don't use soap or shaving cream to shave there, makes your skin too slippery, more risk of cutting yourself.
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Alright basically i was diagnosed with anorexia two years ago. Now my question isnt about me being it cuz i know im not ive been keepin an average menstration cycle. My question is should i go on a diet or do you think that would be stupide becuase if i restrict i might become anorexic again. Im weighing at 115 im size 2 and small - medium in shirts..so im not huge but im not very very thin..im 5'3" if that helps you get a vision of my boy type im fit but i wonder if itd be okay to limit my foods. Im supposed to be at 124 but 115 is okay to..id like to be down to 112 im 16 years old. alright now that ive rambled on what do you think? (link)
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I have studied eating disorders for many years and everything i have read has told me if you have been anorexic the last thing you want to do is try to diet. dieting will make you 100 times more likely to have a relapse. based on the description you gave your weight is fine right where you are. the choice is yours as we cant make it for you but as someone who knows alot about all eating disorders i would not reccomend you diet in any way. excercise 30 mins a day to maintain your weight and keep your metabolisim up. if you exceed 30 mins a day too often you could go overboard in that department as well. good luck
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If my boyfriend went down on my with kanker sores what would happan? (link)
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whether you or your boyfreind have cold sores you should neither kiss nor have any sexual contact with the sores untill they are completely gone. cold sores are a type of oral herpes and they are very contagious.
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I was in a relationship with a violent man for two years, he got me pregnant and i left him (for the baby's sake) and i still have flashbacks everyday, and it has been a year since i left. i moved to a different state. how do i make the dreams and flashbacks go away?
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i think the best advise i can give you is to focus on your child and the strength you have. fortunately for me i only had to witness abuse, you see my father was a man violent only towards women. thru out my life ive watched him hurt his girlfriends, the real problem that i was unable to understand is that these women were so "in love" they would come back, over and over. 7 different women in 10 years two with children and as much as i felt for these ladies, to this day i wish theyd put thier children 1st. i feel that you have taken the 1st few steps, your away from your abuser, and you did so for your child, now in order to move on i think you need to turn inward in a positive light, being in an abusive relationship is very damaging to your self esteem. however you can reverse the effects hes had on you by focusing on the courage it took to leave and the power in being a mother strong enough to protect her child. the next step i would take in your shoes (if your intrested) is learning to defend yourself, one thing ive seen in all women that walk away from abuse is the fear that thier weak, or that it will happen again. by taking the lead and learning to defend yourself, you will be able to feel strong and in control of your life again. its not a matter of becoming a bully by any means, but it is important to reinstall your self worth, and to know that you can take care of yourself and your child. life has taught women that they are weaker, than thier male counter parts, but in hand to hand martial arts makes us more than equal. i think the inner peace you would recieve from learning self defense would enable you to fight back in both your dreams and flashbacks as well as real life if the need arose. my mother was the 1st of many to be hit, like you she left and dident go back, even tho i witnessed it 1st hand (he was not a threat to his children) my mother taught me and my sisters that abuse was NOT okay and could not be tolerated by any woman, and with this knowledge fortunately none of us kids (3) as young adults have had to put up with it. we were brought up wth that knowledge deeply ingrained, you will have to ingrain it in yourself and your child. martial arts is only one way of getting that strength and self confidence, theres also therapy, but it is my personal opinion, theres no better therapy than learning how to, and kicking the shit out of a punching bag and imagining it as your ex. excellent way to work thru the anger and the fear. up to you. sorry so long. good luck to you, and way to go wonder mom! you did the right thing dont ever doubt yourself.
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theres this guy that loves to hang out with me. id hang out with him too but he stinks.. i mean really really stinks. its a horrible smell!!! and he's always always following me... so since he's always around me, is there a nice way i can tell him that he smells really bad? lol. thanks xoxo (link)
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is this guy an adult or a teenager? if hes a teenager and its a kind of a musty smell, chances are hes leaving his laundry in the washer for more than a day before drying it, this happens to a lot of teenagers that dont know if they leave it sit damp it will stink, so if you think its comming from his cloths try just casually asking if he leaves his cloths in the washer if he says yhea just tell him you might not want to do it anymore it makes them smell moldy. he shouldent take offense since its not him personally. if its comming from him and its like body odor, try asking him to do some shopping with you, when you get thier head straight for the deodorant isle, pick your brand up and say o0o0o im almost out, wouldent wanna be stinky, and kinda laugh it off. then you can say what kind do you use i love old spice, or axe on a guy. (pick up the brand you decide to say you love pop the cap off and sniff like your in heaven, then you could say i think id like to smell this on you and wink) if hes following you around sounds like hed love to please your nostrils.
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