I was only wonderin if like you could fall in love with a person who you just had sex with??
because i did but he has been my friend for a long time but now I dont know how i feel... i dont know whether i see him as a friend or something more
help!!
jesa21 answered Monday April 23 2007, 6:01 pm: well, some people prefer love to come before sex, but either way I just want to give you a heads up to be sure of how you really feel before risking your friendship. Theres a very different chemical reaction that happens in womens brains durring sex that don't occur in men. Those chemicals often make women feel a false sense of connection with their sexual partners. I'd reccomend giving yourself some time and space from your friend to evaluate your feelings, as well as giving the chemicals a chance to cool themselves, allowing you to think on it unbiased. If you decide you have stronger feelings for him talk to him about it, hopefully he feels the same. I have heard good friends make the best boyfriends. [ jesa21's advice column | Ask jesa21 A Question ]
GetItGurl answered Monday April 23 2007, 5:55 pm: if you knew you had feeling for this person then you has sex then there could be feelings appearing. well if you think about him alot if you day dream about him dream about him when you look at him you think of him as more than a friend then you like him. just talk to him about it maybe he can help a little more then i did. hope this helps. =] [ GetItGurl's advice column | Ask GetItGurl A Question ]
modelkate11 answered Monday April 23 2007, 5:55 pm: it's possible that you just like the sex or whatever else you're doing. i was recently in this situation and i thought i really liked the kid but once he moved i couldn't stop thinking about the sex, not him which sounds really shallow but i realized i didn't like him as a boyfriend. hope this helped. [ modelkate11's advice column | Ask modelkate11 A Question ]
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