If I wanted to get tested for STDs (just to be safe) where would I go?
If you don’t want your parents to know you can go to a planed parent hood. If you are open to you parents then you can just go to your regular doctor!
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I am a bit nervous, and I hope someone can help me. I have never had a regular period, I don't know why, but it's never the same time of month and sometimes I skip a month. So I never really know when it is going to start. Anyway, last night I went to the restroom and there was a little blood, just a few spots. I just thought I had started, though it was weird because normally when I first start it is heavy. Well today, I haven't bled at all. What could that have been? Is something wrong with me? I have heard of girls spotting before, but I don't remember the reason and if it's even close to normal? Thanks anyone who can help me : )
Yes, its normal. it depends on your age i dont know how long u have had it for, but it takes ur body awhile to ajust to your cycle. everyone's is different. but if its been like this for a while talk to your mom about birthcontrol it hels regulate, im on it just for that reason trust me it works greate i felt the same way!
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okay me and my best friend lets just call him louie and i have been friends for 3 years but this year i started having feelings for him and one day we started ....cybering and then i told him i liked him (well i let my other friend tell him) and like the day after he found out we cybered again only the second time was more intense and we went a lot farther then we thought we would. the next day i didnt regret it but he IMed me and told me the only reason he did it was to c if id actually do it and i never felt more like a whore then that moment. Now we still talk like we use to but i cant forget it n he always likes to avoid the topic. what do i do? and whats worse is i dont like him nemore i just really REALLY want him.
what shuld i do?
I think you should talk to him, I think he said that "he did it was to c if id actually do it" was maybe he was embarrassed because he didn’t know how you would react to it and he might of thought it was weird so if you tell him how you feel he might surprise you on how he feels as well. And may i add if he doesn’t feel the same then he’s not a very good friend to begin with if he’s going to pull crap like that!!
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I was only wonderin if like you could fall in love with a person who you just had sex with??
because i did but he has been my friend for a long time but now I dont know how i feel... i dont know whether i see him as a friend or something more
help!!
Well your first time can play with your emotions horribly, so just take some time to think about it then just talk to him maybe he can answer the question your looking for. and maybe my answer is what you wanted but really your heart and mind is all over the place you need to take a time out a think..
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i'm 15/f and i get my hair dyed blonde frequently. like it would be normal, it wouldn't fall out or anything. well recently i got my hair dyed auburn and ever since then my hair falls out. like in the shower i'll scrub my hair and i'll find clumps of it in my hand. what do i do?! i'm freaking out and it looks so thin and flat (usually its very voluminous)
thanks
First tell a parent you need to go to the doctors it seems like your having an allergic reaction to the chemicals in the dye!
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What are the symptoms of a kidney infection?
Signs for a kidney infection are:
~using the bathroom a lot more {urinating}
~this is pain in your lower back
~and you feel kind of sick like you want to vomit
If you have these problems please see a doctor this is nothing to mess around with and there’s a chance it can turn in to kidney stones, and talk to your parents they'll know what to do.
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Ok, I'm 16/m, and i was wondering how i can tell if a girl wants me to kiss her. What are the signs or anything i would need to know
Ok this Question is very easy to answer, you can tell a girl want to kiss you when:
~She cant stop looking at you.
~every time you look at her she’s uncontrollably smiling at you.
Also you have to remember this question is going through our minds too
what we want is for you guys just to go for it if you believe she likes you the way you like her she wants you too and if your at a party and a girl is eying you !She wants you to! But always remember to be careful
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Alright. A few nights ago my boyfriend finally ummm did 2nd base to me.. and so now I'm wondering if he expects it back. I mean I guess I'm fine with it. But do you think he expects me to do it back to him like right away?
Thanks!
He might but that doesn’t mean your expected to give it to him if he care a lot a bout you he wont want you to do anything your not ready for.. but for some insurance talk to him, he'll tell you how he feels. But REMEMBER never do any thing do don’t think is right or you don’t want to ok!
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okay, so me and my boyfriend were having sex on the floor, and we changed positions to where i was on the top. After "doing it" for a while, he hit a certain spot kinda up near my butt and it hurt really bad, and i started sweating and then i got light headed and then my vision started fading out, and i could only here light muffled sounds. my boyfriend was yelling but it sounded like he was far away and it lasted for like 3 minutes and then went away. Is this normal? has this ever happened to anyone before? thanks. please don't tell me i need to see a doctor because as of right now thats not a possiblity.
Im really sorry hun I know this isn’t what you want to hear but yes you have to go see one but if you worries about what your parents will say then go to a planed parent hood this is a confidential facility and your parents wont know about it. And they can help that’s what they are there for!
Truly AskKris
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can you get pregnant if you have sex in a pool??
Yes, It is a posibliity because the cemicals in the pool can deteriate the condom material.
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ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. i of coarse want to use a condom and hes fine with that. I just wanted to know as much information i can on what to do before hand to prevent anything bad. Like where can i find information on the pill and what types of tests do they do on you to check for stds. i also wanted to know where i can go to get on the pill with out my mom knowing. Im 19 f if that helps
Ok First off Relax! Now with out your mom knowing you can go to planed parent hood to get the pill, condoms, tests and information there. But honestly you really should talk to you mother about all this. you might not think she'll understand all this or think she might be mad but if she found out you got the pill on your own she might be more upset but it depends on how open you are with your mother. But to be put on the pill at planed parent hood they will give you a pap smear and all that is; is they take a long Q-tip and just swipe the wall of your vagina! it does not hurt. And any other questions you have you can ask them there.
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I feel as if my husband is tried of me sometimes i sence that because the way he would answer me if i ask him a question(like; did you miss me? or why didn't you call me today?. but the question i would like to ask is; why do men feel they have to lie or keep secrets if they were checking out a nother woman? why do he feel he has to talk to another woman about his feelings and then say she is a friend? he my husband says babes you can ask me anything but when i do he wants to why i'm asking him this question... any way can some one help me answer these questions....thank you.
Dear Men and Secrets,
Your husband is not tired of you. he loves you very much; its just maybe he confides into someone else is because its easier to talk to someone who they’re not around all the time. If he had a serious problem he would come to you about it but he needs space to talk to other people.
Truly AskKris
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ok can i get sick if i eat someone out when there on their period??? is is bad???
No, its not bad it might actually make the girl feel either better because we're very sensitive when on our period or uncomfortable because we sometimes just want to be left alone lol. but if it will make you sick... all I can tell you is you will be ingesting some blood but also talk to the girl it depends on her blood flow!
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Are there any ways to get herpes other than from sex?
Sure, it's a pretty simple question, but everywhere I go they only talk about the sexual side.
[Is this the only side?]
Yes, you can get any type of [STD] from sexual inter course along with Oral sex. So no matter what sex is happing always have the guy were a condom and if the guy is giving oral sex to the girl they make condom covers for oral sex for girls! So....You can have fun but ALWAYS do it the safe way.
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well,yesterday at school i was sitting in the shed with all my friends just talking and messing about.and then in a flash this basketball was kicked into the side of my head where my temple is and then i banged the back of my head into the wall.i stood up and i fell back down again because i went all dissy and my eyes went blury.i felt like vomiting and going to sleep all yesterday.today im home from school because i have a really bad headache and i still feel like im going to get sick.my appetite is gone.and i just feel exhausted ater having 10 hours sleep.im just worried of it because it was the temple of my head.should i get it cheaked out by a doctor?
I hope you told your guardian about this incident because that is a very sensitive place to get hit. I really think you should see a doctor even if its nothing that’s nothing to fool around with ok!! Please, Please go, at least call and just ask what the on call nurse has to say!!! and if your scared of doctors all you have to do is relax take deep breaths and remind your self your doing this make sure you ok!! Every thing will work out 8).
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i'm in love with a guy that i've only had 1 date with... he's my soulmate i can tell already. like omg.
well, he's about 2 1/2 feet taller than i am... so I don't know how I can kiss him...
I'm going to ask him to go bowling for our 2nd date... but when is the best time to kiss him?
and how am I going to accomplish it when he's so much taller?????
thx
Dear Kissing Help,
I know the feeling you are having the same this is goin on with me but he is much taller then me! im only 4'10 but he is soo sweet and if he likes you the way i think he does the way you just talked about him when the time is right for the two of you to kiss he'll bend down enough for you to reach him. and It is awkward at first but it gets easier and trust me you guys will start to laugh about it: but in a good and fun way! good luck and go for that second date. And i know everything will work out the way its suppose to.
Truly AskKris
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I get so scared when I babysit this kid named Tommy. Whenever I go over there, this person always calls saying, "Nice outfit," or "Is Tommy asleep yet?" I have told the parents, and asked them if anyone has called like that but they think I am joking. Assist please!
Well the next time this happens you must call the police!! you've probably seen the movie the police really track the caller and if you tell then this has happened more then one they probably wont pass you like you may think! and another thing the next time you baby sit bring a FRIEND and check to see if its one of your own friends people can be cruel and if it happens every time someone knows your babysitting!!
Truly AskKris
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Is it normal for an 18 yr old girl to be addicted to wathing gay porn (guys having sex with guys - especially when oral sex is given)?
(I also love watching girls giving oral sex to other girls)
So is this considered normal??
It is not something that you need to feel ashamed of and not something unusual all girls your age tests these types of movies. Your 18 you may just be confused and just experimenting, or it depends if you haven’t had a boyfriend in a while you could just be feeling only lonely and you feel comfort in sexual videos no matter what the genders are or if you’re a virgin you may just be felling this tension that you are ready but nervous. But try watching a strait sexual porn video see if you feel more comfortable with that.
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