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i blacked out...


Question Posted Monday April 23 2007, 8:45 pm

okay, so me and my boyfriend were having sex on the floor, and we changed positions to where i was on the top. After "doing it" for a while, he hit a certain spot kinda up near my butt and it hurt really bad, and i started sweating and then i got light headed and then my vision started fading out, and i could only here light muffled sounds. my boyfriend was yelling but it sounded like he was far away and it lasted for like 3 minutes and then went away. Is this normal? has this ever happened to anyone before? thanks. please don't tell me i need to see a doctor because as of right now thats not a possiblity.

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Additional info, added Monday April 23 2007, 8:47 pm:
the pain was really bad, i felt like i was gonna die... i fainted a minute into this....it felt like i was going unconcious..

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AskKris answered Thursday April 26 2007, 10:22 pm:
Im really sorry hun I know this isn’t what you want to hear but yes you have to go see one but if you worries about what your parents will say then go to a planed parent hood this is a confidential facility and your parents wont know about it. And they can help that’s what they are there for!
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foxy answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 6:08 pm:
Is there any possibility you could have an STD? If not, it sounds like he simply hit a bad spot---perhaps hit your cervix? Unless the symptoms continued, it was likely that since the blood was flowing less to your head and more to your naughties, then just like vertigo, you just got a little dizzy from izzie here. If you continue to have pain during sexual intercourse as well as the other symptoms, you HAVE to have yourself checked by a doctor. You can't play with your health. If the symptoms do not reoccur, then write it off and go on. Always make sure to communicate during sex---if it hurts, let him know!

you asked if there was an std that has that symptom---many STDs will cause pain during intercourse. It sounds like you just got bumped the wrong way though, truthfully, and it was your body's response to the flash of pain. If it doesn't happen again, just forget about it.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Monday April 23 2007, 10:13 pm:
It sounds like you fainted because the pain was so bad. Nothing more. Just be careful from now on. There's no reason to see a doctor unless you faint again. On a side note, there are NO circumstances that put you in a position where seeing a doctor is not a possibility. If something happens to you and you feel like your health is at serious risk, see a doctor. What if, from having sex, you got torn up inside and the bleeding would not stop? That could happen as could a plethora of other dangerous things. I mean, you passed out, that's almost as serious. Sex comes with a lot of responsibilities. If your reasoning is that you are afraid that your parents will find out that you were having sex, that's not a good reason and you are not yet ready for these responsibilities and should not be having sex. Alright, so if it's got nothing to do with your parents, I apologize. Still, you must admit, whatever your reasoning is, you need to get past it and be able to get yourself to a doctor when necessary or stop having sex until you're ready. Being ready isn't just about being mentally ready for the physical encounter. It involves being physically and mentally ready for everything. Good luck.

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