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Friends with benifits??
okay me and my best friend lets just call him louie and i have been friends for 3 years but this year i started having feelings for him and one day we started ....cybering and then i told him i liked him (well i let my other friend tell him) and like the day after he found out we cybered again only the second time was more intense and we went a lot farther then we thought we would. the next day i didnt regret it but he IMed me and told me the only reason he did it was to c if id actually do it and i never felt more like a whore then that moment. Now we still talk like we use to but i cant forget it n he always likes to avoid the topic. what do i do? and whats worse is i dont like him nemore i just really REALLY want him.
what shuld i do?
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I think you should talk to him, I think he said that "he did it was to c if id actually do it" was maybe he was embarrassed because he didn’t know how you would react to it and he might of thought it was weird so if you tell him how you feel he might surprise you on how he feels as well. And may i add if he doesn’t feel the same then he’s not a very good friend to begin with if he’s going to pull crap like that!!
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So wait, I'm lost here. Did you guys actually have sex or did you "have sex" online? I'm lost.
If you actually had sex, then he was just in it for some ass. He's a jerk & he used you for his own pleasure & personal needs. Talk to him about it, even if he avoids the topic. Don't give up until you give answers.
If you did it over the computer, then play it off. It was over the computer, and it didn't really count. Just continue to be friends, but also let him know how you feel.
You're not a whore by the way.
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so.. you two did it?.. i think for one. hes an ass for doing that to you. and your not a whore. you had feelings and it just went to far. just, stop talking to him, tell him that you didnt like what he did to you and that you think he needs to learn respect for girls. hope i helped<3
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