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Is this normal?


Question Posted Wednesday April 25 2007, 5:06 pm

Is it normal for an 18 yr old girl to be addicted to wathing gay porn (guys having sex with guys - especially when oral sex is given)?
(I also love watching girls giving oral sex to other girls)
So is this considered normal??

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lizzielovesyou answered Friday April 27 2007, 9:33 am:
umm its unusual but dont be ashamed have you ever had feeling fore a girl becase you might be bi ????which is not a bad thing

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AskKris answered Thursday April 26 2007, 9:15 pm:
It is not something that you need to feel ashamed of and not something unusual all girls your age tests these types of movies. Your 18 you may just be confused and just experimenting, or it depends if you haven’t had a boyfriend in a while you could just be feeling only lonely and you feel comfort in sexual videos no matter what the genders are or if you’re a virgin you may just be felling this tension that you are ready but nervous. But try watching a strait sexual porn video see if you feel more comfortable with that.
Truly AskKris

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foxy answered Thursday April 26 2007, 12:14 am:
Is there such a thing as normal when it comes to sexuality?

Are you asking if this makes you gay? If so, then the answer is no. When you're a teenager, it's normal to be curious about all aspects of sexuality. It's visual discovery! The only way to tell if you are gay or bisexual is if you have sexual feelings/are attracted to members of the same sex. There are many women who are turned on by watching men go at it. There are people turned on by transsexuals. There are perfectly straight males who liked to dress up as women to have sex with their girlfriends.

What one person might call deviance is just another night in the bedroom for another.

There are as many ways to enjoy sexuality in this world as there are human beings. As long as you're obeying the laws of your country and state, enjoy carnality however you see fit!

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Sledding answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 8:39 pm:
Just means you have raging hormones and are looking to explore your sexual side. Not sure how active you are, but when you satisfy these urges make sure you practice safe sex!!!! And who's to say what's right or wrong?!

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 7:35 pm:
What one person thinks is normal another person may not. That's the trouble with the word. Some people may think watching any kind of porn is wrong or not normal while others enjoy it and consider it part of their normal routine.

To answer your question there is nothing wrong with watching pornography if you are 18+ of any variety. It doesn't make you gay or bisexual either to watch the type of porn you are watching.

Odds are that you are extremely curious about this kind of sex and sexuality and are interested in seeing these films. The novelty of them will eventually wear off and you'll watch them less and less.

This is only a problem if you are doing nothing other than watching these movies and not having a regular life or watching regular TV and movies and going about your life. It doesn't sound like an addiction to me right now.

It's sexual curiosity combined with your always wanting to know about this sort of thing. Even if you were gay or bisexual there's nothing wrong with looking at this kind of pornography. Many straight girls do in fact look at gay porn and may be turned on by it or girl/girl. That's normal and again it's all fantasy and curiosity about this kind of thing and the lifestyle itself. Don't worry about it.

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Xenolan answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 6:36 pm:
If you really mean "addicted" in that you can't get by without it or that watching porn is having a seriously negative affect on your life, then no, it's definitely not normal, and you probably should seek counseling.

However, if you just mean that you enjoy it... then it's still not entirely normal, in the sense that it is rather unusual. But that doesn't mean it makes you a pervert or something, just that you have a particular turn-on that is unusual. A great many men have a thing for watching two women; there's really no difference.

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joujou answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 6:26 pm:
no it is not are you guy to watch things like that

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