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Hey everybody! I've been through the most you can be through in life.. I know how it is. If anything at all is wrong just come to me and I'll tell you the way to go. I love giving information because Im real.. as in not one of those spoiled rich freaks that never have problems.. haha. So I'm right here when you need me...

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-Brit-

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Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?

ahh you poor soul!!! talk to your mom and be like..."mom please dont try to do anything stupid and hook us up, cause its never going to happen." keep telling her what you think she's up to.

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what are some good songs you can dance to at a party?

any type of music is fine w/ me thanks!

try kevin lyttle, everyone loves him. also try nelly and some punk bands....like blink 182, sum 41 etc. just mix it up. whatever you do, dont have too much rap music...you want music you can dance to...music thats fun!!!

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ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks

well, he is much younger than her, so he may be just saying she was hott. its like saying you think ..for example.. ashton kutcher is sexy. its just his opinion. or, he may like her, if you think this then talk to him, and tell him that you are uncomfortable with him acting that way around you.

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Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.

thats horrible that you were raped!!! tell someone as soon as possible!! go stright to your parents and tell them to call the police. they will help you find his fucking sick son of a bitch rapeing ass. dont have sex with your boyfriend just yet. wait until you tell your parents and call the police. then tell your boyfriend the truth, if he gets angry and worried, tell him not to hold a gruge or anything. he my try to find the guy himself. if you know who the ass-hole who calls himself human is then go STRIGHT to the police. rape is a serious crime and devastating to live with, do anything you can to get this guy landed in jail. thats a horrible disgusting thing that he did to you, invading your privacy and space. dont be afraid to tell anyone because you think he will come after you again, be strong, with your friends, boyfriend, family and police standing behind you, he cant do anything. what ever you do---> go to your parents first.

if you want to talk somemore leave one in my inbox-->you can always talk to me on aim just AIM ixsavedxmyself
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15 female

thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...

do i still have feelings for him?

you might have some feelings for the guy. or it may just be some aftermath pang of jeliousy, i got it all the time, but soon got over it.

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question. crazy or cute?
kinda pretty girl sees and talks to cute guy at work. (he is a client of hte office, she is the secretary)she does nto htink he will be in again for a long time. so she gets his number from his file and calls him...
is she crazy or cute?

wellllll its seems as if the girl *im thinking its you* ;) just an assumption ;) i think its both crazy and cute. if the guy knows where you get his number, be sweet about it and say somthing like "i couldnt resist!" or sumthing. just twist crazy into sweet or romantic.

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well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me

go to your parents before anyone else. this was a situation my friend was in, only the brother of the girl was threatning. call the police if the harrassment dosent stop, she can get in a lot of trouble for what she has done

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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?

yes, i believe that you did do the right thing by telling him. otherwise you would have kept your feelings inside and it would have hurt you more if you found out he didnt like you. you may not have put him in a akward position, he may be thinking about what to do, or if he likes you also.

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i have a horse and i really love her but shes getting to much for me to handle my mum says i shold sell her and choose another career and she wont let me have another horse if we sell this one and there doesn't seem to be anyone to help me

if u really love your horse then keep her. its a bond that will be horrible to break. try to make time to take care of her, and have your friends and family help you.

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If there is anyone Who LOVES HORSES please talk to me!! i need some ppl to talk to about horses... I have no horse buddies! Talk to me!leave ur aim or msn or email... later

hey! my name is brittany, and i also love horses, and i own one. aim me to talk about horses at ixsavedxmyself

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for people who've been riding for a while...

first of all i take lessons. second of all i found this really great horse.. hmm a little skiddish but i ride him.. well next time im cantering jumping him.. im sorta nervice... please give me some reassurance and advice on how to handle it...

do groundwork with him...groom him every time you see him, lead him around the paddock/farm/wherever. talk to him and help him gain your trust. he needs to know that he can be safe with you. get him used to your habbits and ride him as often as you can. when you start to ride him, take it slow, and make sure you dont let him know you are nervous (if you are). Be aggressive(lol, not like physicaly aggressive) and let him know that you are in control, while also letting him know you wont hurt him. dont ride with a crop, it will only create a space of tensity between your relationship with your horse and make him more skiddish. my horse is a little spazzy too, and shes bitchy cause she is a mare, lol. i am trying to the same things with her so she can gain my trust (because she is finishing her training).

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i hope we can talk about horses more!
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I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?

talk to your friend first. ask her if she cares. if she says no, that usually means shes uncomfortable. truthfully ask her and ask her to tell the TOTAL truth, you dont want to hurt her. dont tell him u like him unless you have talked to your friend.

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I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
wat should i do?

if you think that she still likes you, ask her out again! give it another chance and see what she says, you should always try.

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My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her.

you could always resort to research, in books or online. your horse could be lame, and horse can and cannot recover from lameness. make sure he is alone in a paddock, so that other horses cannot provoke him to run. also dont ride him or make him run. please try asking your parents/supervisor for help. if you own the horse at your home, it could be worse. you really need a vet, do anything you can to get money for the vet. you may not have time to save up for it, but ask for help from family members.

best wishes for your horse, please come to me for anymore advice, i'll b here to help :). I know how it feels to have a horse that is sick...
AIM ixsAveDxmYsELf to talk.

-sAveD

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Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

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that was the same thing that happened to me. but it was that i saw him too much. i'd go a little longer to see if anything changes, but if it really is painful for u, and you dont like him anymore, then break it off.

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hope i helped

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Ok, I'm wondering if ladies find me or people like me sexy! A little about me, I'm 5'10" 160 pounds, I'm a punk/sk8r, I'm a very random funny person(as known from other question), and I have been told that I am very sweet. I'm also starting a christian rock band, in which I will bethe singer. I've been told that I have a beautiful voice. so how many ladies would find me sexy?

actually, just by hearing your description, i think you are pretty sexy...also for the fact that you are christian ((me too)) is awsome. lol ur like the perfect description, cause i love punk/skaters....and i love a guy that loves music. i actually think alot of people would find you sexy.

:) hope i helped (hope we could talk more)
aim ixsAveDxmYsELf if u feel like talking, lol

-sAveD

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whats up with the number 69? what does it mean?

69 is when a girl gives a boy a BJ, and the boy (((ahhhh i hate this phrase)))eats the girl out at the same time....think of the 6 as the girl and the 9 as the boy......get it??

hope i helped

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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?

i dont think that would be a bright idea....i know ppl say "o, well if u really like him then it shouldnt matter what other people say"......but i went out with a guy ONE year older than me, and i was ruined. Your reputation would be obliterated....unless you really dont care about your reputation, i wouldnt try it.
[[[i know how u feel]]]

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what should i do should i stop bein friends with her cause me and her haven't been good friends since i moved 3 yrs ago and we been friends for 10 yrs. she blows me off when we are on the computer ever since she had her boyfriend.
what should i do.

lost friend in clarks

TALK TO HER! My friend had a boyfriend that she reeeeeeeallllly liked. After a few days, she started to blow us off the same way, whenever she was around him. My friends and i told her how we felt, and she totally changed.
[[[i know how u feel]]]

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can someone help me? i have been so depressed lately and i have no idea why. can you explain this or something?

it depends on what is going on in your life...parental, relatonship, friendship, or boy problems can lead to depression. dont sit and do nothing, get out, or do something. whenever i am depressed, i write for hours. another soluition is to read and listen to music you love. you cant stay depressed forever...;)
[[[I know how u feel]]]
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