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i wanna make my boyfriend know that i like him. like i dont want him to break up with me cuz i feel like i havent been the best. and two other girls like him and i personally think they're prettier than me =/.. and i just really dont wanna loose him..like i feel like telling him i love him isnt enough but i dont wanna sound corny if i say more..help!
Just remind him every now && then of how much you love him. you dont need to necassarily tell him in words. you can get him candy or something he likes. just a little gift. You have to remember that he asked you out cause he liked you in the first place. hope i helped
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ok so my mum has this friend and i spent some time with him when he came over to stay.I thought he was very nice but the strange thing is he keeps asking me to stay at his house and i am 16 and he is like 30 something.He also keeps telling my mum i am lovely and beautiful do you think that he was just being friendly?because he only asks me to stay at his house and not my mum!
He's being wayyy too friendly. ONLY go there with your mom. don't go there by yourself. you never know what he'll do. hope i helped.
ive been dating this guy for 5 months&we really got to know eachother before we even started dating. he ended up getting grounded over the summer for failing spanish&we havent gotten to see eachother since then. we decided it was pointless to date over the summer if we never got to see eachother, so we went on a "break". i think he might be interested in this other girl he just met. she plays basketball with him&his friends all the time. i dont know if he just thinks of her as a friend or more. he said he wants to start dating again as soon as he's allowed to see me again, but i don't know if i should or not. what if he has or had feelings for the other girl? should i trust that he really does care about me&want to stay with me?
If you two have really gottent o know each other before you two even started dating, then you should trust him. you should really ask him if he has feelings for the other girl. If he's HAD feelings for the other girl, then it shouldn't matter because then that means he's over her. I think you should trust that he cares about you. Ask him about the other girl, if you two know each other very well, then you guys are obviously very good friends. he should tell the truth. good luck && hope i helped!
Ok well my friend and I when we were like 13 We kissed (she's a girl) because neither of us had been kissed before! But I realyy like this boy that likes me back a lot. We've gone on dates and kissed. But the kiss with him seem's real and when I kissed my friend it was just an example. Now my friend is OBSESSED with me, I mean I told her the kiss wasnt real and she is just obsessed! My boyfriend HATES her and now I'm starting to hate her! Please help!
um....Just tell your friend that you have a boyfriend that you'd just like to be friends, and ONLY friends. make her understand that. don't hate her just because you may think she likes you, and your boyfriend shouldn't hate your friend if he knows that he HAS you and he knows that you're not going to all of a sudden run off with your friend. he has no reason to be angry. Just settle your friend down, and talk to her. if she still doesn't care, then that's when you can get angry and cut the friendship. hope i helped.
i like this one girl, and she's really sweet. we've made out a couple of times, but we don't have a serious relationship. my mom is threatening to disown me because of our relationship. not because we're both girls, but because she's also my sister's daughter. but i think that my mom is completely over-reacting, because i really like this girl. should i continue to see this girl and strengthen our relationship, or should i break it off so my mom loves me again?
Break it off. Maybe if the girl you liked wasn't related to you, then you could continue seing the girl and strengthen you relationship with her, but this is a totally different situation. she's your niece. you shouldn't date more specifically make out with family. It's not right. You're mom is saying that because she doesn't want you to make a mistake. fix it before it becomes worse. good luck and hope i helped.
i'm in 8th grade and everyone i know has had or has a boyfriend, but i have never had one. i am kinda shy and i'm friends w/guys but nothing ever happens withour friendships. but anyways i am moving at the end of the school year and there is this guy i really like how can i get him to ask me out or get a boyfriend before i leave?
p.s. i rate high
well..to be honest, you shouldn't want a boyfriend just because everyone has had or has a boyfriend at the moment. You should just let you love life take its course, you can't force anything. and if you're moving at the end of the school year...there's really no point in trying to get the guy to ask you out. you two will be apart...well unless you're going to the same school, but if you're moving away, then you should start new at that school. if you're staying at the school your attending right now, just tell the guy straight up that you like him. be confident and don't push yourself down. good luck and hope i helped.
I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a month now. We broke up for like 3 days but got back together. Everything has been going good...at least that's what I thought. Then this afternoon at school I went to the cafeteria and we were messing around. Well everytime I moved closer to him he moved away from me so I moved away and was like F*** you B****. As a joke but then he got all mad it seemed. He acted almost like a 4 year old child. When the bell rang he just walked away like normal and I tried to ask him what was wrong but he kept saying nothing. When I asked him to at least to say good-bye but he just walked away. At lunch he usually sits by me but he just walked past me and sat down on the other side of my friend Bobby. I went over to him and asked him what was wrong. He told me he had to move back to Chesterfield with his mom this summer. I left cause I didn't want him to see me cry. I don't know what to think. I can't believe his father would do that to him. I want to believe he is making this up but I don't know why he would except to break up with me. Can someone please help me. I'm begging you..please help me. What do I do?
that's probably why he was moving away from you each time you tried to move closer to him. He doesn't want to make it harder for him to move away from you. When he moves, he's probably going to be extremely sad. I think he was acting that way because he doesn't want to become more closer to you because when he leaves, he doesn't want to make it harder for you two to separate. I dont know if that helped at all what so ever, but i hope it was a little help.
My sister is dating this guy, and he has a really hott, so sweet, caring, brother my age and i really wanna go out with him...But I'm too afraid to ask him out. I don't know why I'm so scared. I'm shy...I see him every morning and I already wrote a note but I didn't give it to him....My friends say I should ask him out, but I'm sooo shy and I'll be too afraid to give him the note. So..what should I do? Do I ask him out directly, give him the note, or don't ask him out? Oh and what do I do about the shyness??
I rate high for good answers!! please gimme a reply!!
i dont think you should give him the note. Guys tend to think that you're not confident, or you don't want to really face the guy if you talk to him through a mere peice of paper. I say you should ask him out. face to face. your shyness? Just tell yourself that you can do it. If you keep having second thoughts and doubts, then that'll just get you to be even more shy. just stay confident! good luck && hope i helped!
Ok well I have this really really hott boyfriend, and my friend really really likes him I mean alot! And just to be nice I invite her to go bowling, movies, dinner with us! And recently she's been like sitting by him, and on her web site she said that they kissed and held hands (but she wont say his name) I have discovered that the only reason she's really hanging out with me is to get closer to him and go out. Now i've asked my boyfriend about the haolding hands and kissing but he said nothing ever went on their just friends! And he wouldnt lie to me! So now she's lieing (sp) and trying to take him away from me. If you have any good advice can you please help! Thank you so much!
~Ashley~
hey, you should really confront her about it.It's not nice for a friend to use you just because of the guy you're going out with. I think you should talk to her about it. You can't do much more than that...unless you want to yell at her and break your friendship. i highly doubt you want to do that. Just tell her that you dont like the fact that she puts that stuff on her website. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, then it most likely means he's your boyfriend. If she just keeps denying it..then she's not a very good friend. and maybe you should kind of slowly stop inviting her to everything you and boyfriend do, because that just makes her become more attached to you and definately your boyfriend. good luck Ashley && hope i helped.
I've always wondered this...
Why do teens think that they "need" a boyfriend or girlfriend? What's so great about it?
I follow that at least in high school and college it's kind of a time to experiment with relationships and all, but I just don't really follow why teens think they "need" someone, especially since a lot of it seems to end kind of painfully for people.
Anyway, long story short, I'm confused about why people think it's something they need, why they seem to look so hard for it at a young age, and what's so great about having a boy/girlfriend.
Thanks.
well...i'm 13 and basically most girls in my grade talk about wanting a boyfriend or their boyfriends 24/7. Me? i personally think that young people think they "need" a boyfriend or a girlfriend because they want someone to hold, to talk to, someone that cares for them in a sweeter way than friends do. having a friend and having a boyfriend/girlfriend are two totally different things, and that's probably why girls or boys seek to "need" a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Yes, lots of the relationships people have do end up painfully for people, but that's just life. that's how we people find the "one" but yeah, i agree that it's kind of stupid that people my age are saying they need a boyfriend/girlfriend, but hey, you never know. one of those guys/girls can be the person you stay with up until you pass away. hope i helped.
Hi my name is jess i like this kid named Egore and i think he likes me to but the onl problem is that hes black i dont mean to sound mean but my dad says i cant date black people i mean i really like him but i dont want to disrespect him ehat shoul i do.
You're dad is wrong to say that you're not allowed to date black people. You should be able to date whoever you like. It's not your dad's choice to tell you who you should and shoudln't like. It's your choice. show him that exactly. make him understand that he can't guide your life into rasism like that. Talk to him about it.If he still doesn't like what you're saying, go out with Egore. Stay firm in your belief, not your dad's! good luck && hope i helped.
This guy named Tom and I are friends with benifits. We have only intamitly cuddled nothing serious. But now that I think about it im kind of fallnig for his best friend Greg (which might be becuase I havent hungout with Tom in a while). Greg and I are friends but we do flirt (like yesterday he kept turtle snappnig my bra hehe). The biggest problem is he likes my best friend Phoebe. What do I do? Sandy-15-f
Well, if you really think you're falling for this Greg guy, then i highly suggest you stop doing whatever with Tom. such as cuddling. Greg might just like you, but he might think that you like Tom a lot. Tell Greg you like him. and see what happens. good luck && hope i helped.
Yestersday I was walking into a classroom and this boy walks up and pops my bra strap then walks away real fast. What the heck?? He's a loser so I would never like him. Then later on this girl asked him "whos hotter me or Jordan (this other girl" Then he goes "Lets just say that (me) is the hottest" Whats going on???
he obviously likes you~~ hey, afterall, he said that you were hotter than that Jordan girl, right? I definately think he likes you. He has an immature way of showing it though, flicking a girls' bra strap is stupid. Just ignore him if you don't like him.
Okay well you see I like this guy. Lets call him D. And everyone says he likes me. But this weekend I'm suppose to go over to a friends house and be with this other guy who I'm just friends with. But Taylor, my friend, said that the guy I'm going to be with for the night said he'll go as far as I let him. And everyone who's coming wants me to kiss him. But it'd be my first kiss, and I don't want to waste it on someone i don't like. But then if I don't kiss him he might think I'm prude. But I'm not. But I really like the other guy and I only like the other guy as a friend. What should I do? Please someoen get back to me by Saturday!!!
Don't do something you don't want to do because your friends or this guy friend is pressuring you to do. Don't kiss the guy if you don't like him. your first kiss should be special, and you should give your first kiss to the guy you like. and you're right, you shouldn't waste it on someone you don't like. and if your guy friend thinks you're prude, then tell him you don't want to kiss him because you really like some other guy. if he doesn't understand you and keeps saying you're prude. screw it, he's not a good friend. good luck && hope i helped.
well i like this guy and he lives near me and the other day i went to his house and i hooked up wit him but now ever since i did it he has been like avoiding me and i think its just because he doesnt want his friends to know because i am 13 and he is 16. Also, some of my friends who go to his schoool are saying that hes always with this other girl and is always talking to her and near her and that they like eachother. He used to always talk to me online and like now hes being like boring and is like hi and oh and stuff u know?? what do i do
Tell him how you feel. that he doesn't act the same around you anymore.If he acts weird or seems like he just doesn't care, then dump him. go look for a better guy. he's most likely using you if your friends are saying he's w/ another girl. good luck && hope i helped.
hi ,i m really confused wat to do .theres a guy in my class whom i really like but i haden't told anyone bout it.then few days back i got to now that my best frnd also likes him.that was too heart broking but then i thought i shud sacrifice my luv for her becoz i didn't wanted to hurt her.but just after few days when i was having headache i was sitting in the class alone,that guy came to me n said that he loves me very much .i was really shocked actually very happy.he said he wants my answer in few days.i m really confused now.i dont want to say no to him but then i also think bout my frnd.wat will she think of me when she will get to know that i m involved wid that guy.plz give me some answer soon!!!!
You didn't do anything wrong. It's not your fault that he likes you. If you say that this friend is you 'best' friend, then she'll understand. If you really like him, go out with him, and make your friend understand the situation you're in. She'll find a different guy. hope i helped.
at prom there was this guy i was dancing with and when we were slow dancing he pulled me close and are faces touched and he was smiling. i'm thinking this is a way of affection. also he was pulling out my chair for me and opened the car door for me. was he just being nice or is it something more??
I definately think that this guy has feelings for you!!
hey i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help!
I think you should talk to her face to face instead of writing a letter to her. She might respect you for that more. It shows that you want to talk to her about your boyfriend and that you really care that you want your relationship to work with your boyfriend as well as with his mom. Just tell her how you feel. That you never intended to hurt your boyfriend or anything. Tell her that you think she's not very fond of you. Let her explain to you why she acts this way towards you. good luck && hope i helped.
I've liked this guy for a long time now, and he doesn't know it. For a while, our relationship was kind of acquaintanced .. sometimes we would greet each other in the hall or we'd talk a lot on the bus or something, but recently this past Tuesday I went to his house and I feel we've gotten closer. My friend even told me (because I brought her with me) that we seemed like really close friends that day. Well, I think these last 2 days I've been bugging him and annoying him lately. When I talk to him he just mumbles an answer and when I try to talk to him online, the answer is that he simply does not answer. I know I've felt a little closer to him and maybe have been talking to him a little more, but I don't know what I did wrong. I mean, I don't act much different than what I acted like before I went to his house. He's gotten a little weird and has this major attitude and it makes me think i did something wrong. Tomorrow and the next week I've decided try to just ignore him--unless he talks to me first--and see what he does. The end of school is coming up in 2 weeks and I don't wanna lose him as a friend. I think I've been annoying him a little bit but I just don't know what I did .. help?
Just leave him alone for a while. See what he does. If he just ends up coming to you for stuff he needs,then he's not a very good friend. but if he comes up to you and starts talking like you two used to, then there you go ^-^. You could try to talk very little around him. Show that you feel sorry that you think you've annoyed him. hope i helped.
I really like this guy, he's a senior and im a freshman. It used to just be like an admiration type of thing, but i really think I like him now, and i dont want to be upset when he leaves. I don't know what to do, spend time with him, although some days we don't even talk, or should I just back off, we're not super close, but there is an attraction, bigger on my side than his. What should I do?
I think you should just let him go. That doesn't necessarily mean to not talk to him. You two should just be friends. I think your age differences are pretty big. Look for some other guys in you grade of a little bit older. not freshmans.You should talk to the senior and just be friends with him. good luck && hope i helped.