about

Im JESSiCA i have a brother and a sister ,im in the middle. im preety good at giving advice so ask me anything. Spring is here yay REDFACE you know what that means SOFTBALL. heres a little info
*Name-Jessica
*Age-14
*Height- 4"9-4"10 shut up im short
*Hair- brown
*Eyes Hazel
*Location- Queens,New York
*Stats- TAKEN
*FAvorite Color- RED
*BEST FRIEND-Allyson
*BEST PERSON EVER-Allyson

intrests'/ eyeliner i always wear it i love it / boys /loud music / school dances / my friends / goin to the movies / black eyeliner / lip gloss / my cell / fruit / pictures / computer / neclaces / bracelets / red roses / mall / him / walking around outside / summer / pools / tanning / skirts / flirting / tight jeans / inside jokes / random things / kissing / trampolines / softball / volleyball / gymnastics / shopping / earings / rings / being in my room / candles / CHRIS / WRiTiNG THiNGS iN CAPiTALS EXCEPT FOT THE i / cheerleading / lots more haha ALLYSON YOURE THE BEST

advice

how can i lose 100 pounds in a week

ok well this is a really stupid question theres no way you can lose 100 pounds in a week my friend lost 50 pounds in 1 1/2 week but that was frum not eating anything and liek excersuzung liie crazy but dont do that she died from that Jessica

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well i'm 13 and i'm a female and i totally broke out on my forehead and i have a dance coming up!! i need help on how to get rid of it fast!! any advice or suggestions? also, is it because i ate chocolate or like junk foods? (i've heard that the reason people break out...)ThAnkS fOr uR HeLp!!! *i RaTe*

clearsil

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sorry, didn't know what category to put this in. i get really bad razor burn/ bikini bumps. i get razor burn on my legs too but they go away and the ones on my bikini area don't! i use shaving cream and a fresh razor blade (venus) and i put on lotion and neolsporen (sp?) when i'm done but its still not going away! so my question is:

a) how can i make it go away now
b) how can i prevent it in the future
c) will waxing or somehting else help... or hurt?

thanks! i RATE HIGH!

you can get something called a finishing touch with a bikin trimmer it says bye bye to razor bumps.JESSiCA

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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared

you cant get pregnant from anal sex unless his penis goes into your vagina but you cant always go by when your mom gets her period yours could be late JESSiCA

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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!!

There's nothing wrong with trying it out if you don't like it then at least you know and you won't have to worry about it anymore. There's no harm in giving it a shot.
I wouls say you were bi since you like making out with the both but mabey nor but it is okay toexpiement with bolth to find out which one you like .. JESSiCA

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pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz

theres no 100% of the month to have sex but after your period but use a condom and if you want put one condom on then another so its extra safe if you want .. hope it works out. JESSiCA

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how many crunches should i do a day?

well even though im fir i still do 10 sets of 20 crunches a day but do like the ten sets throughout the corse of the day

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OK I think i LOVE one of my best friends.We became good friends in the 7th grade but i met him in kindergarden.He knows I like him and all that but he always tends to like my best friends.I just don't know what to say to him or anything.He's leaving to Florida saturday for 15 days for spring break and im in the 8th grade and i never had a boyfriend yet and he's my first REALLY BIG crush.HELP!

juss continue being friends and ask him out

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does yoga help you lose weight?

yeah and if youy drink 8 glasses og water a day it helps you get your matoblism faste which makes it easier for you to lose weight

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okay, so i really love that punky makeup look, sooooo i was wondering where i could get some good products. especially eyeshadow. i've seen some girls with hot pink eyeshadow and it looks awsome but every single time i've gotten a pink it just ends up looking too pastel or fuchia-ish! any good products or ideas?

hot topic or you can go to khols(sp?) theyre ishadow is liek 10$ but its really good you might be able to find it ther or mabey tight aid im not sure bout there .. hope i helped. JESSiCA

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Ok... I was in a porno Video cause i needed money to go to a school trip in France..! But now All of the guys at my school .. Are porno freaks.!! and all they want is sex from me..! i dont want to give sex to them cause i only did that 1 time to get money for a trip and all the girls think im a slutty ass bitch.. and im not i was always the nice girl and now after one mistake i am called a slut! All the guys try to talk me into sex but i dont want to.. when i go on a date i always get forced to hhave sex. its really annoying and bad.. I hate it and i dont even think i want to go on this trip. after all thats happening.. One of my friends told me that She over heard her boyfriend and his friend saying that this kid that goes to our school may rape me.. Im scared and i dont want to start more drama .. Not only that but the tape was sold on the internet. Im doomed for life. What do i do to repair my reputaion and stay away from getting raped..

any advice is apperciated..

Ps- IM NOT A SLUT!

ok well first be liek im better htan you mare sexy n stuff then mabey you can liek make another porn video thats like not porn at all its like an appology tape and put it on the internet and id be liek look im not a slut i did it because i needed money for a school trip .. hope it works out for you. JESSiCA

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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing

ok well youre angey because your pmsing and theres nothign you can really do except remember to relax and try and stay clam .. hope i heiped. JESSiCA

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Hey im 16, and iv had sex alittle over a few times. It seems that almost every time i have sex, I get these weird pains in my stomach (almost like his thing is puncturing my insides), what is this? Can i fix it?

the same thing happened to my friend she died a year ago because of AIDS go to the doctor right away .. hope i was useful. JESSiCA

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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...

signs are missed period, morning sickness, your appetite gets bigger, etc. if you're that worried then go to the nearest store that sells pregnancy tests and go to a friends house and check and everything and also if youre pregnant you can get an abortion .. hope i helped. JESSiCA

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I ahve ben going out with this girl for about 11 months and we both want to do things together but we never have time between school and sports we dont really get to see eachother and her parents are going out next weekend and she'll be home alone should we just do it then or should we wait and not have to take the chance of her parents coming home early and catching us what should we do????

DONT DO IT!!! .. unledd youre ready to be the best danm father in the world .. JESSiCA

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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!

ok well the one who got raped it wasant her fault thats why its called RAPE and the other one it was her own fault she could told her boyfriend no and even if they used a condom she still ahd sex with him the other one was raped .. hope i helped. JESSiCA

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Hey guys, I've been single for a really long time now and I really want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f, and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again. I still feel really bad from my last relationship. I have no guys to talk to or anything. When I go places, I hate seeing people with their boyfriend or girlfriend and having a good time, or even Valentines Day and Sweetest Day. How do i meet guys? I used to always go to the mall and the movies, and I liked people there but I'm really shy. It's hard to just go up to people and say something. How can I get some guy friends atleast, so I have someone to talk to? Thank you so much to anyone who answers! I'm so sorry this was long.

well jus start talking to a guy in a class or someone you see a lot and ake a risk ask a guy out it worked for me now i have a boyfriend .. hope it goes well. JESSiCA

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hey, i need some help. i'm a 16-yr-old girl, 110 lbs, and 5'6. i'm really skinny. i guess there's some good from that, like not worrying about eating something yummy with a huge amount of calories in it. but still, i want to gain some weight before i go to college next semester (i'm graduating early). the thing is, i will probably be one of the yongest people there and i'll look very small among all those 18-20-something-yr-olds. what can eat that's healthy and rich in calories at the same time? and how can i make myself look a little older without being fake? i know, its silly but i already feel like a baby in my senior class, i don't want to feel like that in college.

well youre gonna have to eat some junk food dont exercize and you can eat cholocate an ddrink water juss do the exact opposite of hwat you would do and eat if you were tryin to lose weight .. hope it works out for yu. JESSiCA

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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think.

be liek im against abortion because or i agree with abortion and go frum there .. hope i heled. JESSiCA

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what are some exersises i can do daily to help lose weight?

(without any machineary)

do you have any good diet suggestions?
do you suggest eating fruits more?
ahh please help

ok well only drink water eat 5 small healthy meals a day 50 crunches when you wake up 50 before you go to bed you can take a walk around yer block or run and you can juss dance around yer room for liek an hour listening to musick and when you talk on hte phone stand or when you do anything that you can stand doing but you sit stand .. hope i helped. JESSiCA

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