hey... im a person that most ppl can get along with. i always have a positive attitude. and i love to give advice. i lived in reno nevada and then moved to Montana when i was 12. i like to feel that ppl can talk to me about anything. i like to be a reliable person. so if you have ANYTHING to ask me just go ahead and test my skills. ill give it my best.if you have a question about something just ask me i have been through a lot of things from guys to family. thats how we do up here in Montana baby.i'm pretty easy going and generally know how to chill out during extreme times lol so if you need advice hit me up ♥
E-mail: blondpie08@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: montana
Occupation: being a total flirt
Age: 17
Member Since: November 25, 2005
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After 3 years of dating my true love, she decided we needed some time apart to get our priorities straight. its going on 3 weeks, and not a day goes by without her calling me, we hang out from time to time, however, there is ovbiously no intimacy. I love her so much and I know she loves me cause she has told me. My question is, with valentines day comming up, iam not sure if i should get her the flowers and a present...I dont wanna look like im trying to push her into getting back with me, and at the same time i dont wanna look like i dont care about her if i dont give her anything...what should i do? (link)
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all you need to do. is call her up and plan a dinner date adn keep it semi-casual. not too formal. not too casual. then talk about everything. get things together. know what you want to tell her. and shell most likely respect it. hope i helped. ~hotrod
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months. Everything was great. We were in love and always wanted to be together. We made plans to go to college together and we were each other's firsts. But for the last few months he has put me on the back burner for his schoolwork and the high school wrestling team, so we see each other no where near as much as we use to. Now lately I have been feeling very lonely and depressed. I cry all the time and I have no friends and everything seems to be going down hill for me. I didn't make the softball team after playing for the high school for 3 years, and that was always my way of coping with stress. Now I have to work to pay my bills and keep me busy. I feel so depressed because it feels like he doesn't want to spend time with me and he doesn't show his love for me they way he use to. Have we gotten use to each other or are we not in love anymore? Because honestly, I don't know. We argue more now, I cry to him all the time. Sometimes I feel like he'd rather be doing something else with someone other than me. Not romantically, but like he'd rather be home watching tv or playing paintball with his friends. But I use to be his number one. And now I'm not. I'm just his girlfriend that he has and doesn't feel the need to get rid of. I'm so lost and I don't know what to do. Things don't seem to get any better. I miss him terribly and like I said, I am so incredibly lonely. I would try to go out with friends but they work too. Am I just PMSing 24/7 or am I depressed? Or am I just over reacting, because I don't know. Please help me. (link)
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k. what you said was he is putting school and wrestling in first place over you. well, you can't be everything. he is only in high school. as are you. stay young, and have fun. he prolly loves you no less than before, he has other things to do along with being with you. if he hasnt mentioned breaking up or anything, tell him. dont cry and wine to him. hell become annoyed. tell him that your lonely, not desperate. and that you wnat to hang out sometime just the two of you. and work around his schedule adn yours. i hope it works. it sounds like you have a good love going. and i want the best of it. you dont see that very often. not these days. bye
~hotrod
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When a guy says "will you go out with me?"
What are you supposed to say? Just yes?
Were confused!
Thanks in advance!
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just tell him what you want. if you want to say ya. i would love to go out with you. and i guess it also depends on if he means, bf/gf, go out. or date, go out. hope i helped and made sense. bye
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im 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 5 months..we had unprotected sex but he pulled out before he came..im really worried that i am pregnant, and i could never tell my parents..i have been gettin pains in my stomach, but it could jsut be me worrying..or my period is coming..what should i do..i cant keep the baby..and im jsut really worried..is there ways i could get an abortion with out my parents knowing?..like the morning after pill
please give me some adivce what to do before i go insane (link)
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ok. 1st dont panic. when u worry ur period stalls. pains happen all the time. the morning after pill will work for up to 72 hours. get it if you still can. 2nd im not going to preach, but if you dont want to have to worry about this then you should have PROTECTED
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17/m
well, theres this one chick. and shes hot. but thats besides the point. i like her and i THINK she likes me, but she doesn't want to date. she told me some crap about how shes bad with relationships and she wanted to be fwb. I was all like...um, idk. so now were just sort of like...more than friends but less than other stuff...that whole thing. and the other day she told me that she was going to be all protective of me and stuff. and to me, thats like...WHAT THE HELL!? cause its like, you dont want to date me, but you dont want me dating anyone else. so idk what to do, because I really want a relationship. i tried telling her this but she just told me that she's bad with relationships. (link)
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k, well i honestly think that she likes you and she is truley scared of being in a relationship, but you can't play her games for too long. i went through this stuff too. its a hard deciesion. but you need to make it. keep up with her game. dont get played. let her know that she is confusing you. and tell her that if she doesnt want to date, but she wants to be protective, that she is confused obviously. she needs to come up with a choice too. i hope i helped. xoxo ~hotrod
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How do you attract boys? I mean this might sound really ditzy, but I'm having serious problems in that area. Does anyone have any tips for me as far as getting guys interested in you?
PS. Im 14/F (link)
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all you need to do, is hang around a lot of guys as just friends. if you have a problem with this too, then just ask a guy that you talk to at school to hang out sometime. with a group of people. then once you start hanging out with several guys choose which one you like. once you've done that. let him know that your interested. see what he says. the most important thing about what you do through this entire transformation, be yourself. hope i helped. ~hotrod
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You have answerd a question with,"actually everyone is wrong. how do i know. my dad is a dentist. what happens is the uv rays attract to your teeth just as it does to your skin. the only thing is you need to have some whitening gel on them. and keep a smile going. i have a kit that whitens my teeth 5x better in the tanning bed than on its own." I was wanting to know what kit that is..or what i could buy at the store that would work the same
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ya i can definately tell you. the kit is called hollywood whites. you can get them on "www.hollywood-whites.com". what it is, is a mouthpiece that holds your lips open so the uv lights can get straight to your teeth. there is a teeth whitening gel included in the kit. you spread it evenly with you fingertip, and put the mouthpiece in and tan. that simple. with a great outcome. hell, i got voted whitest teeth in my class, and i havent had my teeth bleached since i was 14. this is much cheaper, and has as good of an outcome. my dad even recommends it. lol. hope that helps. later.
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I broke up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago. Since about the week of our break up, I've been hanging out with one of his best friends, and we've become extremely close. I'm beginning to fall for him, and likewise... but whenever this happens, I change my mind. I like the challenge, but once the other person starts to have feelings for me too, I'm bored and don't like them anymore. I really don't want to do that this time... because I really care about him.
I'm afraid to have a relationship, because I know that, being the way I am, I'm going to ruin it and lose an amazing friend.
Help?
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ya i know how you feel. i had this problem a long time ago. it sux. it was simply a phase for me. i hope itll pass for you. it sux. i know. i think what you should do is tell him that you care for him. but you dont want to make anything exclusive. because your afaid to hurt/be hurt. k taht way he has an idea of what i going on in your mind. hell respect that. if he doesnt, he isnt worth it. k sweetie. i hope i helped. xoxo hotrod
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well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
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he probably just wants to get to know you a little bit better. i think he might be worried that since you see eachother as little as every week that maybe a relationship cant be held onto. if you know what i mean. i went through this with my ex. just tell him flat out that you like him a lot and want to take your relationship to a new level. he may react the way you want and then again maybe not. but it is always worth a try. lol. i really do hope i helped. drop into my inbox how everything went/goes. xoxo.. hotrod
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Yea sure that'd be cool. (link)
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cool. that would be awesome. if you have msn or yahoo. add me... msn- duarteshelby@hotmail.com and yahoo- blondpie08@yahoo.com... k. and ill talk to you anytime you want. lol. so by the way, what did you do about the poem. did you give it to her. or what. let me know.
love always, merree.
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I have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart. Hes everything i want and more!! We've been together long enough to.
Anyway, before him i was in love w/ my bestfriend( a guy) and i might still have feelings for him. Now he has a gf but before when he didn't it was hard to flirt with him.
Hes still my bestfriend but i need to know how i can get away from any feelings i have from him w/o losing him as my closest friend!
Could Ya Help? (link)
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to be honest i dont think there is anything you can do to get away from your feelings. its something that just happens on its own. i like a guy that i cant possibly like cuz he is from a rivaling school adn he is one of my friends. you know. but i like him and i try not to. but i cant help it. so u have to jsut try to ignore the feelings. you have a great bf. stay with that path. hope i helped some. xoxo hotrod
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does anyone know where i could find straight-leg jeans? for cheap? i rate. (link)
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hey i think you could probably find some good jeans at wet seal. or maybe the gap. hope i helped. xoxo hotrod
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One of my friends has been with her bf for ever it seems like. A few years. Anyway, they are in a tuff spot right now and possibly heading toward a break up.
Ive never been w/ a guy for 2-3 years so Im far from knowing how she feels. All i would like to do is be there for her.
Any suggestions to how I can help w/o butting in to there relationship? (link)
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k i was the girl dating the guy in this situation once. when me and my ex were dating we were so close. we dated for 4 yrs. ya holy shit huh. im 16. adn a junior in high school. when my family moved his did too. we were not only bf and gf but also best buds. towards the end we started drifting away. adn it scared me. then we just got into a fight. cuz he thought i cheated on him. but everyone told him i didnt. so i dont know. what my friends did for me was they did their absolut best to make me happy. they did a good job. we had girl nights and talked. if you want to keep their relationship going then you need to maybe help her set up a cute little dinner date for them. you and a couple other friends can be the hostess'. you know. i hope everything turns out for the best. bye.. xoxo
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hey im that kid that wrote the poem. You said your single lol
but theres a problem ur in ca im in nj (link)
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yeah. but uh thanks for noticing that. thats cool. but seriously that was an awesome poem. my ex was over here and he saw it and i was like why didnt you ever do that. and he was like i might have to now that this guy took ur breath away. lol. even though we cant date we can still keep in touch online and such if you want.
just reply to this and let me know.
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I don't really know if this is considered "love life" or "friendship" cause it's kind of both. Anyways, I'm a senior in high school, and I'm not really one to go out and get guys attention, or talk about them all that often. I mean I certainly think about them as often as the next girl. But anyways, one of my friends is totally boy crazy, she's into about every guy she meets, but the guys never really like her. Maybe it's because she's so obsessive? Anyway, i always get stuck with all the guys liking me. Not that it's a bad thing, but just i always have to hurt them when i tell them how i feel because often times the feelings aren't mutual. Anyways through this my friend becomes really close with all the guys since they have something to talk about. I don't know if i'm jealous or what, i guess it just kind of hurts that i lose all of my friends to this. Any suggestions on what i can do to maybe change this? (link)
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wow... you explained my love life to the t. i have pretty much the same problem. my friend always falls in love with just a random guy. people she never talks to. the guys end up liking me cuz i act like myself. and she picks guys outta her league. guys i hang out with. what you need to do is tell the guys that you like them just not the way they want. you want to have them in your life tho.you just dont want to regret anything. becoming friends with all of these guys will make you have a lot of new friends to run to to talk about everything. and if you ever need a date to something you have one. its what i do. but not to use them... im there for them just as much as they are for me. hope i helped sweetie. if you need anymore help drop it in my inbox.
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i picked this out to show a girl how much i care what do you think?
I'm not sure if you know or not
But I really do love you a lot.
You still hold a special place in my heart
And you did, right from the start.
But when he came along and took your breath away,
I was devastated and didn't know what to say.
I spend my nights crying, time after time,
I spent my days lying, saying I was fine.
Little did you know, my heart was crushed inside,
And on that day, a little of me died.
But with her, you look so in love
'Cause you are an angel from above.
I now have to teach my heart to move on,
For, you are now forever gone.
But about one thing I am unsure:
Why it can't be me, and not him?
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that is so good. i wish a guy would do that for me. what you need to do is give this to her. no reason not to. if she doesnt see that your a better choice. then you need to move on. im single check out my page and let me know. lol. but seriously. hope i helped. xoxo.. hotrod
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Im in the 7th grade. && I like this 8th grade boy. I see him 3 times a day He doesnt even know me AT ALL. I know him beacause i looked him up in the year book, hehe. And see i cant have enough to really talk with him, beacause i only see him in the halls and we have 5 mins to get to class and all my classes are really far apart to im usally always late. How can i get this boy to notice me & like me as much i like him. (link)
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ok not to be mean. but you have to know someones personality to like them. you have a crush on him. that means you simply think he is hot or cute. but what you can do is try before or after school to talk to him adn get to know him. jsut try. hope i helped
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my girlfriend keeps asking me why i love her. and i want to give her more reasons then 4 so can someone give me some reasons ty. (link)
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i would but you cant ask that. you have to know why you love her. just tell her, you love her for who she is. not too much to say. but says everything. and if she wants more detail. say i love you. i mean it. and thats all that matters. you cant set reasons for loving someone. trust me i knwo. i always used to ask my ex why he loved me and he said this. and it was the cutest thing i heard.
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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
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ya i think that most ppl are just so hurt by a breakup. me and my ex broke up a couple months ago adn ive had a bf since. adn i know i loved him. and he knew it. i still have everything he ever gave me and all of the pics of us together and his senior pics. i think its normal. but ya i noticed that adn it affects me the same way. i hate it
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19/m
Ok I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a month. a couple days ago i was hanging out with one of my female friends and she pretty randomly kissed me. i pushed her off of me almost imediately, and we talked about it afterwards and were ok with it now and are still friends. here is where it gets a little more complicated. this is a girl that i used to have very deep feelinfs for. i wouldnt quite call it love, but it was close. i never told her, because she was for various reasons unavailable and i got over her. then i met my current gf and fell for her. now my gf knows that i used to like this girl, and she was ok with me being friends with her. now my worry is if i tell her what happened shell be uncomfortable. i know she would never try and forbid me from handing out with her, because she is one of my best friends, but i know it would make her feel uncomfortable. now because of an age difference (my gf is a little older than me and my friend is a bit younger) they will most likely never meet on their own so my gf would probably never find out. so my question is, should i tell her? (link)
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yes. you need to always be honest. if you arent. thats when a relationship ends. trust me. happened to me with my best guy friend. only i was just hanging with him and he gave me and hug. and we were in a public place and a kid taht always lies told my ex. adn we broke up. and he wont believe me. so ya. can you help me out a lil too. pleez thanks
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