I have a boyfriend who i love with all my heart. Hes everything i want and more!! We've been together long enough to.
Anyway, before him i was in love w/ my bestfriend( a guy) and i might still have feelings for him. Now he has a gf but before when he didn't it was hard to flirt with him.
Hes still my bestfriend but i need to know how i can get away from any feelings i have from him w/o losing him as my closest friend!
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SaturnMoonie answered Sunday January 8 2006, 5:35 am: The only thing you can do is keep your feelings to yourself, in time you'll get over him, this may seem like a stupid answer, but trust me. Just like you aquired the feelings, you'll loose them, it may take sometime (and I should know, because I went through the same thing), but don't risk your friendship with him, and most importantly, don't risk your relationship with your boyfriend. In the end, it's about who you love most, and you should think long and hard...write a poem about it if you have to (it's what I did, lol). Just make sure you think everything through if you decide to do something because you might end up loosing someone special. [ SaturnMoonie's advice column | Ask SaturnMoonie A Question ]
TheLoveDoctor answered Saturday January 7 2006, 4:29 pm: well, there isn't much you can do. but, what i would do is basically ignore any feelings you might have for him because your closeness is probably the basis of your friendship. [ TheLoveDoctor's advice column | Ask TheLoveDoctor A Question ]
hotrod answered Saturday January 7 2006, 3:11 pm: to be honest i dont think there is anything you can do to get away from your feelings. its something that just happens on its own. i like a guy that i cant possibly like cuz he is from a rivaling school adn he is one of my friends. you know. but i like him and i try not to. but i cant help it. so u have to jsut try to ignore the feelings. you have a great bf. stay with that path. hope i helped some. xoxo hotrod [ hotrod's advice column | Ask hotrod A Question ]
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