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I don't really know if this is considered "love life" or "friendship" cause it's kind of both. Anyways, I'm a senior in high school, and I'm not really one to go out and get guys attention, or talk about them all that often. I mean I certainly think about them as often as the next girl. But anyways, one of my friends is totally boy crazy, she's into about every guy she meets, but the guys never really like her. Maybe it's because she's so obsessive? Anyway, i always get stuck with all the guys liking me. Not that it's a bad thing, but just i always have to hurt them when i tell them how i feel because often times the feelings aren't mutual. Anyways through this my friend becomes really close with all the guys since they have something to talk about. I don't know if i'm jealous or what, i guess it just kind of hurts that i lose all of my friends to this. Any suggestions on what i can do to maybe change this?
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wow... you explained my love life to the t. i have pretty much the same problem. my friend always falls in love with just a random guy. people she never talks to. the guys end up liking me cuz i act like myself. and she picks guys outta her league. guys i hang out with. what you need to do is tell the guys that you like them just not the way they want. you want to have them in your life tho.you just dont want to regret anything. becoming friends with all of these guys will make you have a lot of new friends to run to to talk about everything. and if you ever need a date to something you have one. its what i do. but not to use them... im there for them just as much as they are for me. hope i helped sweetie. if you need anymore help drop it in my inbox.
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talk to your friend..if she really is your friend then she'll understand how you feel
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I don't understand why you loose friends over this. I know that you don't mean to hurt those guys feeelings by telling them the truth, but that's the right thing to do of you and it's better if you just tell them how you feel then lieng to them. Just because you don't like them in that sort of way doesn't mean you can't still talk and be friends. You shouldn't be jelous of your friend because you can find things to talk about with them too.
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