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Depression or PMS?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months. Everything was great. We were in love and always wanted to be together. We made plans to go to college together and we were each other's firsts. But for the last few months he has put me on the back burner for his schoolwork and the high school wrestling team, so we see each other no where near as much as we use to. Now lately I have been feeling very lonely and depressed. I cry all the time and I have no friends and everything seems to be going down hill for me. I didn't make the softball team after playing for the high school for 3 years, and that was always my way of coping with stress. Now I have to work to pay my bills and keep me busy. I feel so depressed because it feels like he doesn't want to spend time with me and he doesn't show his love for me they way he use to. Have we gotten use to each other or are we not in love anymore? Because honestly, I don't know. We argue more now, I cry to him all the time. Sometimes I feel like he'd rather be doing something else with someone other than me. Not romantically, but like he'd rather be home watching tv or playing paintball with his friends. But I use to be his number one. And now I'm not. I'm just his girlfriend that he has and doesn't feel the need to get rid of. I'm so lost and I don't know what to do. Things don't seem to get any better. I miss him terribly and like I said, I am so incredibly lonely. I would try to go out with friends but they work too. Am I just PMSing 24/7 or am I depressed? Or am I just over reacting, because I don't know. Please help me.
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you are so not over reacting your man should put you first you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel you guys should plan a time when each of you are free and get togther then hope i helped
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k. what you said was he is putting school and wrestling in first place over you. well, you can't be everything. he is only in high school. as are you. stay young, and have fun. he prolly loves you no less than before, he has other things to do along with being with you. if he hasnt mentioned breaking up or anything, tell him. dont cry and wine to him. hell become annoyed. tell him that your lonely, not desperate. and that you wnat to hang out sometime just the two of you. and work around his schedule adn yours. i hope it works. it sounds like you have a good love going. and i want the best of it. you dont see that very often. not these days. bye
~hotrod
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