My name is Heather im 14 going into high school. I play basketball and volleyball, and just enjoy partying and gettin out with my friends. Im really good on advice, like everyone comes to me. Things that are serious that i've done is helped a kid get out of wanting to kill himself. I'm realy nice and i just love to help anyone and everyone, ill try my best to help you out.
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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore.... (link)
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ive only really gone out with two guys, ive had a few hookups but they didnt go anywhere. And really my only serious realationship was with one guy. Yeah guys like me, but im soo picky on who i go out with, maybe you're heads just tellin you to find the right guy, before you go out with anyone. I still right now dont feel like going out with anyone, even with some guys liking me, Dont worry, you'll find someone eventually i promise, try hanging out with different guyss=] hope i helped
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What are some tips on becoming a really good kisser? like i have the basics down...but what are some things that makes you really good?
like guys...what do you like the most when you're like making out with a girl? (link)
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Well somethingyoou can do that guys really like, is kissing there neck.. but mostly for kissing you Just change up yours kisses, dont use too much tounge and go with the flow. Like the other person said you can lightly bite their lip, theres one really crazyy kiss that ive down before its really funny, you like suck on their tounge for 2 secondsish then let good..look up typesof kissin on the internet or something, or usually in most magazines they show different types of kisses.
hope i helped!
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1. Does it make you gain weight? My doctor says it depends on the person but I want to gt a clearer picture. I'm already a little overweight and I don't want to make it worse.
2. Does it make your breasts bigger/even? My right breasts is a little smaller than my left and I was hoping it would even them out.
3. I've heard this pill makes youe extremely emotionally unstable. Is this true for you?
THANKS SO MUCH (link)
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it will maybe make you gain weight, it made me gain a couple pounds so ive just been excercising a bit more
it does seem to make your breasts biggerr=p
i went on seasonelle, and i hate it.. it does make me feel like shit all the time. When you usualy first start the pill you will feel extrememly different. but after awhile you get used to it.
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ok. is there any other way we can talk then on here because i think im gonna keep coming back or do you just want me to keep asking questions on here? (link)
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haha if you have AIM, get at me there.. or whatever, my screen name is brautiganh212
im like always on
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im really sorry i feel like im bugging you.but yeah i have talked to him before hes 17 and he sounds really like hes 9 but that could just be the phone you know? or just puberty. but we live like across the country. and we both have school. and he always says he wants my parents to be there when we meet too but i dont think i want my parents to be there they would be mad that i did that. (link)
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yeah the voice thing is def. something to be careful about, this kid my friend talked to on the phone for a month and on myspce he sounded like he was relaly lil and claimed to be 16. we came to a conclusion hes some lil dweeb =P No matter what you do, your parents def. have to be with you, its sooo unsafe and risky not to be, not matter what he says
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but i dont know if i can do that.like i just moved to a new school and everything and im not exactly having the best time i mean i have friends and stuff its just not the same so everyday i come home and i just look foward to all day talking to him.and like i dont know how i wouldve done it with out him. and i just cant picture my life without him like i know it sounds so werid but its true but your right. i never thought you could actually "love" someone but i just dont know what im feeling then. and then all the stuff that has gone bad in his life and all the suicide stuff like you could be right he could be totally lieing but then again he couldnt be and if hes saying the truth i dont want to put someone through that after everything. (link)
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Well keep talking to him. Help him out, maybe arrange for you guys to meet sometime. BUT with your parents comming with both of you. Just make sure he doesnt end up hurting you badly, have you ever talked to him on the phone? so you can hear his voice and see if its real.. or is it all internet
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ok sorry im the same person from the online datting thing. i forgot to put something in there. ok so he like really loves me everytime ill like break up with him he'll like cut himself and stuff like that last time he went to the hospital and im scared of what will happen if i do it again (link)
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thats sweet hun, but from my experiences, never go out with someone online. My friend went out with a guy for a year from online and he was the exact same. He lied saying, his mom and brother died, hes tried commiting suicide, he cant come visit her because he moved to florida, and soo many other things. And me and my friend after a year found out the truth, his parents were still alive, he only ever had one sister who was alive, he lived in PA, and he was a totally different person than we thought. Him and his sister must be horrible, because they called me and my friend giong omg your boyfriend died. And it hurt me and my friend so bad. Theres no way he can "love" you from justtalkin to you that liil, somethings really weird about that. My advice, as hard as it may be and my friend had to do it to, block him out of your life, dont talk to him anymore or anything at all dont be like though im not talkin to you anymore, and dont read his messages. It will work, i promise. theres other guys out there for you that you can actually see and know in a relationship
goodluck
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ok so im in 8th grade and like all my friends always tell me about how they go and make out or whatever like they just tell me what they do with there boyfriends and anyways i feel really bad cause i havnt even got my first kiss. and idk why like i wonder if im just not pretty or what?idk i just need help with what to do ? (link)
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oh trust me sweetie i know gorgeous girls that are in like 10th grade that havent gotten there first kiss or anything, the day will come trust me =) try talkin to some guyss.. that you like! its not that scary as some people will make it for your firstt kiss. try hanging out with some guyss.. hopefully things will goo good. good luck hun! =)
remember, dont be afraiad to make the first move
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i moved to a new school about a year ago and you would think by now i would already be used to it but im not. at my other school we were all one big group with guys and girls we were all popular and i felt comfortable there and here its not like that. i have like a small group of friends like 5 people and were all girls the popular group is just like i was at my other school. its not that i want to hang out with them just because there popular but its more because thats just the kind of people i like as friends but now i dont know how i can get in there after a year (link)
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If they cant accept you for who you are, they arent worth it. But just be yourself, im pretty sure if you fit in with the popular girls at the other school you must be gorgeous with a great personality, they'll eventually accept you. Try doin activities that those girls might do, its always the best way. Hope I helped =)
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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.
thankss
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Boyss! haha they're so confusing, but i know what your dealin with..this one guy i talked to over the summer was the exact same way. If you really really like him, try talking to him. Sounds like he's playing games, and girls are sometimes so vulnerable. You need to tell him you like him, but you dont feel like he always likes you, and he seems to be playing games. Dont be easy hun, play hard to get. Leave him, and see if he ever comes back. You may just be a girl he likes to get with, or maybe hes just confused with what he wants, you never know. But let me tell you, his excuses are lame, and theres something gion on with him. But mean while, try to find some other guys, hard yes I know. but you'll eventually find someone. Remember, he's just a guy.. these are things us girls will always get from them, so just expect it =)
Hope I helped, if you have any other questions just ask!
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Im 13/f
SO.. this girl in my school likes my boyfriend. Shes constantly hitting on him and flirting. So the other day i went up to her and told her to back off. Now she is hitting on him MORE just to get back at me. She is REALLy ugly and thinks he likes her, but he doesnt. How can i get her to stop hitting on my bf? Any advice it greatly appreciated!! (link)
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Jealousy sucks. But if your boy doesnt like her, why dont you get him to talk to her about it. He might be worried about making her feel bad, but he needs to know its making you feel bad. Girls wont listen to what other girls say, they're so selfish. Hope I helped you! =)
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my dad watches porn late at night when me ans my sis are suppposed to be a sleep...i hate it..does he not love my mom...i don't know wat to do...i told my mom and she was really disapionted...i wish i could help i don't know wat to do...i'm scared they're going to get a divorce... (link)
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same exact thing with my dad! Tell your mom, thats what i did. Hopefully she'll talk to him about it, i also showed my dad signs that i was pissed off at him.. he just started actin the way he used to a couple days ago.. hopefully things will get better for me and you
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Im 16/f
I want to go on birth control for sexual and period reasons. I heard that when you go on birth control you only get your period once a month for like a DAY or TWO. To me, that alone seems worth it. My periods are really irregular and annoying though. PLus, I am a sexually active teen with my boyfriend who i am in love with. (we use condoms too)... But yea.. how could i bring it up to my mom without seeming like im in way over my head? (link)
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Just talk to her about your period being irregular and bothering you. And then tell her you would like some extra protection so you would feel safe if you and your guy were going to move to the next level (even though you already have;-)
hope thigns go well!
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I dont know how to bring up the issue of birth control to my doctor. She knows my mom somehow and I think its weird for my moms friend to know i want to go on birth control. I dont want my mom knowing that I want to go on birth control.. But theres no way that I can get it without getting a prescription, meaning my mom would have to know!?? right???
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Im pretty sure you can go to planned parenthood, or something like that.. and they can keep it confedential from your parents and family.
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Well, my situation is as followed.
I have two best friends. One of which I dated, and we broke up. Now my other best friend whom is a girl, always thought my boyfriend was hot and lusted after him.
I trusted both of them completely, and not even a month after we broke up they had sex. Well, If one of them would of told me - it would of been nice but I found out thru HER ex boyfriend, and only because there was a pregnancy scare.
I feel betrayed because she promised she would never do anything with him, and I am still in love with him and she knew that when she did what she did.
He's away at basic in the army, and I had to deal with her. Her response was, "It's in the past, I cant do anything about it now." and her explanation for the event happening was that He started it, and she said (I quote) "I'm a ho, It's in my blood. Someone wants to hit this, I let them!"
I don't know how to deal with this situation. I didnt deck her like I wanted to, but I stayed over at her house and chilled that day because I wasn't sure how to react. Now she calls and I don't want to anwser her phone calls...how do I deal with this?
She seems to feel no remorse for it.. wants to be friends still..
But I know I can't just go on without having my say in it or else I will always feel bitter.
Yes it's in the past but the consequences are NOW.
I need help right away!
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That was really low, youshould let her know exactly how you feel and you dont think yo ucan be friends anymore because that hurt you! Tell her she should have thought about you and her actions for once, instead of being a ho and not controlling herself.
But if not, put it in the past.. and maybe you two can be friends again
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okay if i eat breakfast, little lunch and dinner, would that help me lose wieght and also exercise like walking? (link)
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Here's a good diet. Huge breakfast, cereal is the best way to go and water. then yeah a small lunch & dinner
another good one is replacing to meals a day with water and cereal! It works, just make sure you excersize and try to jog instead of walking!
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I've heard a lot of things about the pill and I wanted to know if they were true.
Does It make your periods more regular?
Does it make your periods lighter/not as painful?
Does it make you gain weight or lose weight?
Does it help clean acne?
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Yes it makes periods more regular and not as painful, and it may clear up acne! But all the others are highly unlikely. The only way it may make you gain weight is the pill may cause you to retain more fluidss, and then if you go on a certain type of pill cause there are many kinds, there is one made to make your period shorter/lighter. hope i helped!
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Me and my girlfriend have just recently started having sex..and for some reason its been hard for me to come..i waited like a week without masterbating because i told her i would wait until we did it..the first night we had sex i drank a little and im pretty sure that the alcahol was the reason..well one day during the day we had sex and i came..it felt amazing and then like 2 days later i tryed to masterbate and it was difficult to come..it took forever..not like normal..what seems to be the problem?
Also the one time that i did come i went in her..shes on the pill so its fine..but that was on tuesday and we've had sex since then but i didnt come in her..she says that it still burns a little when she pees..is that normal?
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Well since im not a doctor or a guy, im not sure. It sounds like something that could be medical, so maybe you should get it checked out! You might have an std? Her burning might just be from having sex.. but like i said an std could also be a factor? goodluck!
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Can you pee with a tampon in?? also...is it ok to wear a tampon even if you dont have your pieriod?? and does it hurt more to take out a "dry" tampon??? (link)
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You can pee with a tampon in, like if you dont have another one with you.. but if not, then its probably best to change it just for sanitary reasons. It doesnt hurt all that bad, but it does feel a tad bit worse then when its not dry.
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what if your married....and the guy you love doesnt like your body? it would be totally foolish if you got divorced the night after?? plz tell me.. i am really curious (link)
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Well if he loveed you, he should love everything about you! Who cares about your body no body in this world is perfect, and if he cares about that then honestly he's not worth it! You shouldnt have to feel like crap from your own husband!
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