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Girl hitting on my Boyfriend
Im 13/f
SO.. this girl in my school likes my boyfriend. Shes constantly hitting on him and flirting. So the other day i went up to her and told her to back off. Now she is hitting on him MORE just to get back at me. She is REALLy ugly and thinks he likes her, but he doesnt. How can i get her to stop hitting on my bf? Any advice it greatly appreciated!!
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There isn't anything you can do about this girl. The more you try to stop her, the worse she will get. However, your boyfriend can put a stop to it. Talk to him. Say something like "I know you won't leave me for her, but it is really bothering me to see the way she acts around you. Would you please ask her to back off?"
If he tells her to stop, she will continue for a little while out of denial. If he tells her again, firmly, she should stop.
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Some girls are just stupid bitches. & you just gotta learn to ignore it. If your boyfriend has no interest in her, then what do you have to worry about? She's not getting attention out of him. All she's trying to do is get attention & a rise out of YOU. The truth is - she doesn't matter. So don't acknowledge her or let her get to you.
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If you say she's ugly then you shouldn't really be worrying about it but then again she is a psycopath that will try to do other things.What you have to do is first tell your boyfriend that you don't want him near her or talking to her whatsoever,not even to stare at her,completely ignore her,keep an eye on the enemy,show that girl how much you too are into each other,make her very jealous so she gets really upset,when your guy does what you tell him she'll get the message that he doesn't like her at all,and only has eyes for you.
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Jealousy sucks. But if your boy doesnt like her, why dont you get him to talk to her about it. He might be worried about making her feel bad, but he needs to know its making you feel bad. Girls wont listen to what other girls say, they're so selfish. Hope I helped you! =)
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if i were you i would say "hey i really think you should step off my man because he likes me NOT you and you could never break us up because we love eachother so go find someone who isn't taken because i dont want to have to start any crap with you." thats a good way to put it because its not being really threatning and mean but its definitely getting the point across. and if she doesnt stop after you say something to her face then get your boyfriend to let her know that he does NOT like her. hope i helped ♥
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The most I would do is try to talk to her about it, and not in a really harsh tone, cause that might tick her off, and make things worse.
Just let her know he's your boyfriend, and you're sorry, but he doesn't like her, because if he did, he wouldn't be dating you, he'd be dating her. And just tell her to stop flirting with him because it's not working and it's not going to break the two of you up, it's actually making you two even a more stronger couple, so if she wants to keep you two together more, then by all means, she can go ahead and flirt. She's just making a fool out of herself. And ask her if SHE had a boyfriend, would she want some girl all over him and flirting with him? I think not.
And talk to your boyfriend too, just let him know you're worried about her flirting with him, and ask him maybe whenever she starts flirting, to ask her to stop or something. And just hang out around him alot, and if you notice her starting to come over, just sit there and link arms with him, or hug him or just show her that he's yours.
But I'm sure if you tell her that flirting with him makes him like you MORE and brings you two closer together as a couple, she'll want to stop.
I hope I helped.
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If I saw a girl flirting with my boyfriend:
I would march right up to her and say something along the lines of:
"Hey, back off my boyfriends yes BOYFRIEND. He is mine and not yours. Find your own man and stop trying to steal mine, mmkay thanks =]"
Or if you're not the bold type like I would be:
Try talknig to her again. Be kind of like,
"Hey my boyfriend dosen't like you, but maybe (someone else) does. Try him?"
If she still dosen't back off and it bothers you, try talknig to your boyfriend.
I'm sure you'll have nothing to worry about =]
hope it helps
Laura =]
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