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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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Okay, like im not sure i should actually live anymore. Like, honestly, whats the point, when i see no future? Like, c'on...i would rather be dead before day of judgement anyway...yeahaa...dont wanna live then, thats for sure!!!!! Plus, if im not seeing any positive aspects in life, and ive TRIED SOO HARD TO CHANGE THEM, what is there left to do? yea...so im not sure about life anymore, life is an odd concept to fathom...what is ur idea on this master genius Tayiba?

OKAY, as a muslim and human being I say to you...GO GET DRUNK. IT HELPS. If you're too strict muslim, then fine okay....HOOKAH IS THE ANSWER ! WALLAHI! if both of those fail...then im sorry you have no hope..go kill yourself.
either way YOU BE BURNIN.

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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

okay if he cheated on you, then obviously the relationship is over

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hi im in luv wit emmy rossum and im wondering how to ask her out or w/e.

hey well if you're friends then just let her know how you feel and if you're not friends, then get to know her first.

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My guy friend needs help. He was just on the phone with me ( cause he knows about my site and figured i could help ) and said that theres this girl that he really really likes, but this other girl that he dates ( not a relationship, just dates ) likes him, but he doesn't like her anymore. And he told me she cries to him sometimes on the phone and that she says she doesn't want to lose him and such and he doesn't want to be a jerk, but he doesn't know what to do, and I don't know how to answer. Please help.



Love,
Mel

well he cant just stay with this girl to make her feel good you know? it may be hard but he should really tell the girl he doesnt feel the same for her.

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Okay, my friend (we'll call her mary) and I are about the same size, except i'm a bit leaner because i'm tall and stuff. But she ALWAYS wants to borrow my clothes. I didn't mind at first but now it's coming to every day -- she sees what i'm wearing and says "I'm borrowing that." Also, our other friend is like 2 sizes smaller than us but "mary" has even borrowed clothes from her. "Mary" has worn my petite friend's favorite hoodie more times than she has!
Its really starting to get on both of our nerves. During the summer I let her borrow one of my coolest skirts and she got a stain on it. Yeah, it's tiny. But I mean, come on. Also, she always says I can borrow any of her clothes whenever I want when she borrows mine. But the truth is, her fashion sense sucks. All she does is buy brand names and the clothes are usually the wrong size for her because shes in denial about being a size xlarge. So, she gives the clothes to our small friend who could practically wear them as nightshirts their so big on her. Anyway, so should I just keep kinda ignoring her requests to borrow my clothes or just let her borrow them once in awhile to keep her sated? Or just outright tell her that she stretches out my clothes? WHAT?

let her know sometimes you feel like wearing clothes but you can't cause shes borrowing them and tell her this happens often. ask her to go shopping with you and suggest taking her to stores you shop at cause she obviously likes your taste

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alright. so i am a 13, turning 14 year old girl and i want to have a birthday party. im inviting 20 or so people, girls and boys. what are some fun ideas for something to do.
i just had this big party, and my parents werent to happy about that .. so i think just having a party is out of the deal

truth or dare is always fun, watch a movie, just dance with eachother, take pictures, pig out...

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I need to make a 10-30 slide powerpoint by monday on a topic but I have no idea what to do mine on. Alot of people are doing theirs on clothing stores & I want to be original. Anyone have any ideas? 5's for anyone that trys to help. Thanks, Meg

people that have inspired you(people you know or celebs), places you want to visit, a trip you took, your friends, your hobbies, places you love to shop, bands you love, sports you like, books you like, movies you like, foods you like...

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ok i am starting to feel really, really guilty after i eat anything(even a salad or fruit).my freinds tell me i need to stop worrying and that i am stupid for feeling that. my freinds say i am gonna have a "disorder". thoughts?help?thanx.

P.S. i am 5'4" and 106.5 lbs. if it hepls any.

dont feel guilty unless you're overweight and eat junk food all the time. Your weight is perfectly fine, you can even gain 15 pounds and not worry about anything. and never feel guilty about eating salads or fruits...thats very good for you.

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Hey advicenators! =P

What do you think should be the curfew for a 15 year old girl? I'm asking this because I'm going to the movies with my guy friend and my parents want me home at 10pm. I'm a very trustworthy person and I WON'T have sex with him, that's for sure. He's only a friend. I'm kinda pissed about this because I want to stay out later, but they're strict & say only 10pm. I know I'm lucky because some kids can't even go out with friends yet. But, what do you guys think? Thanks.

10pm is a reasonable time if your 15, and trust me if you stick to the curfew without breaking it, as months go by your parents will loosen up cause they know you respect their rules. Besides it is a dangerous world and they're just tryin to make sure you're safe

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whenever im home alone, or even at school with other people, i constantly act as if im being watched. if that makes sense. and at night while im laying in bed i pretend as if im somewhere else and that im not mearly a student, but that im a secret agent hiding out for the night, or that ive been evacuated from the state because i know too much and im in the white house. im 18 years old..wtf is wrong with me? what do i do?(female)

lol either you have extreme paranoia or you just have a crazy imagination. I suggest going to a psychologist and letting them run some tests on you just to be sure, and many ppl go to psychologists so dont feel weird

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whats a good program that i can use to get rid of the viruses on my computer and make it go faster? and also to get rid of junk thanks

norton antivirus is the best

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if i wore baggy sweatpants(either black or gray) and like a band tee, or logo tee and really cute sneaks that are like torquise, would i look ghetto?

i wear sweats with cute tops and it doesnt look ghetto...try sweats with a express hoodie or american eagle top...thats a cute look.

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I'm turning 16 soon and I've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed. It's making me wonder if there is something wrong with me. Is there anyone else out there around my age who has never had a boyfriend? I know this isn't exactly an advice question, but it'd make me feel better if I knew there were other girls out there like me!!

Theres nothing wrong with you, my motto is .. the right guy will come when we stop looking and also, highschool guys are so not worth it.

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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..

i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?

i rate high for good answers.

yeah smoking is just nasty and so unneccessary. there plenty of guys out there that don't smoke and respect their bodies, i suggest going out with one of them

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In a lifetime is only one love in your life or a couple "loves"? you know how people...claim to have been in love a couple times?

personally I think you end up admiring many people through out life but only have one true love. But thats just my opinion, ask the people who've been married more than once lol

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My sister is 11 and in 6th grade. She weighs like 89 pounds. She is about 4 11. She cares about her weight a lot. She thinks shes fat but I've seen her friends and they say she nots and her stomach isnt that big at all. She is also muscular. Like she is a fast runner and she is strong. So do you think she is heavy for her age?? And do you know any ways that she could lose weighgt??

shes too young to be worrying about being fat and no she is not fat at all. My sis is 12, 5'3 and in the 6th grade as well, she weighs around 105 but she is slender & her body is well toned cause she's athletic. You should give your sister support on being muscular at such a young age and make her feel good about her body.

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My best friend and i have known each other since 3rd grade but now she is HORRIBLE! She tells her other friends that she hates me and says mean things about me to other people! At scholl she ignores me and she is rarely nice to me! She is not as loyal and truthfull and just nice as she was! I need help! Also we have each others secrets! Please no smart ass comments! thanks
~Me

shes not your friend so you should just stop talking to her and hang out with your real friends. If she cares at all, she'll come back, apologize and get her act together.

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how do you get rid of dandruff with out like scratching it out or buying shampoos?

like home products if you can make something

besides making something, just go buy head and shoulders or this other shampoo my brother use to use called Selsun blue, it works well ( :

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my parents and I ALWAYS fight. Right when I turned 13 they started becoming so overprotective. They track my e-mails, text messages, and phone calls. They won't let me hang out with my friends either. I got invited to Washington with my BFF for Fall Break and of course they said No. When I asked why they started yelling at me and grounded me for " being a brat. " I can't take it anymore. I'm stuck in my room everynight for the dumbest reasons like, I got an 83% on a math test (apparently a B isnt good enough ). I CANT TAKE IT. pleasee help, I'd really like it.

PS: I've never been a bad kid. I'm responsible, great in school, I don't get into trouble or do drugs or anything. SO why did they become so overprotective ?

thnks bunches.

these days kids are so bad that its hard for parents with good kids to let go. but you're parents have a trust issue, and maybe over time you can win them over by showing them what a good kid you really are. study and get really good grades & then try talking to your parents and lettin them know you have no intentions in doing anything "bad" cause thats not you.

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ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
also latley i have been feeling guilty after i eat. help with that too plz.

lol you are so not fat at all. the fact that you're tall adds to your weight making you think you might be fat. but omg 106 ? you have nothing to worry about,but just chat with your family docter about it & he/she will let you know how healthy you are and stuff

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