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Okay, so, im 15, and im going into my first year at high school. Its summer and there is this soar program (summer school basically) the introduces me into algebra. The thing is, I am like majorly terrified! what will high school be like once the year starts? will the people be nice? the school is like a maze, im gonna get lost for sure, I am so scatter brained! What should do? Does any one have advice for starting the school year or surviving the treacherous mayhem of algebra and puzzling world I am now cursed with? (link)
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i started high school when i was 14
i was really nervous but high school isnt all that bad
just be yourself and dont worry much about your image
because when people worry about their image they tend to change who they are
now in septemeber i will become a sophomore
high school its great
algebra its not that bad
i did algebra in the 6th, 7th and 8th grade and i love it
just dont make anything get you down
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a few nights ago i was with a friend and two older boys (3 years) weve hung out before, and this guy pressured me into haveing sex with him but i wouldnt. i dont like im or anything its just a hookup. the thing is im a virgin and hes not and then i was drunk a few nights ago and ended up doing something im starting to really regret. sex. i lost my virginity to someone i dont even like he made it seem like it wasnt a big deal and everyones had it so i just gave in. at first i was okay with it but now im starting to think.. what am i going to telll my next boyfriend? or my friends? i dont know if i should just forget about this whole thing and say im a virgin. im just getting upset and i dont know who to turn to and im not going to a councelor or anything. i guessi just need some moral support.. thank you
and no we did not use a condom, we were in a hot tub and he swore to me that he would pull out before, but we didnt even get that far into it i think. plus hs going off to college and hates kids. so im pretty sure im safe. please help thank you (link)
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girl seriously thats wack
you shoudn't make someone pressure you into doing something you dont want to do even if you like the boy
what might help its talking to someone you trust
or
writing your feelings down but keep it secret hope it helps
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Okay...So sorry if it's terribly long.
Anyways...My best friend and I found out that we weren't invited to one of our friend's parties. Let's call her Mandi. So, that kinda got us mad. Over aim, Mandi, who was having her party had up on her away message,"The fab. 5 are over!" And so, I just imed Mandi and I asked her "Who are the fab. 5?" and she replies, "Not you!" In a mean way. So we get in this huge fight. And Mandi's best friend was over there, and we shall call her Alise. So, my best friend and I are talking, "Okay, 2 of our really great friends are over there, and they aren't even trying to stand up for us, or tell Mandi and Alise that this isn't right." So we got pretty upset, because our 2 great friends told us they do stick up for us when Mandi and Alise talk bad about us.
So, my best friend and I kinda made a little vow saying that we don't need them as friends anymore, because friends don't treat their friends like that. We were never rude to any of the "Fab. 5". But later on, my best friend kinda forgave them because she's going to high school with 2 of them, and she would have to deal with them. I on the other hand, did not forgive untill many weeks later..
So, I went back to being friends with (let's call them Niki and Jane),who were the ones who didn't stick up for us, the ones who were really great friends to my best friend and me.
Well anyways, Mandi one night asked if I was still mad at her, and I told her I don't want to bring up anything bad tonight. But, I did tell her I wasn't mad, just kinda sad about the whole thing.
And then, Alise goes to my other best friend and says "You, Me, Nike, Jane, and Kat(me), need to hang out really soon!" But see, my other best friend hardly knows Alise.
And now, Jane is hanging out with my best friend (mentioned in the beginning), and I'm just so confused. I made up with Jane, but we never really hang out. We went to the movies, but that was it...I just sorta feel like she really doesn't want to be my friend. I'm just not sure.
I told myself, I didnt' want anything to do with the "Fab. 5", but I kinda felt sorry for Niki and Jane, when I've been great friends with them since Kindergarden. Niki never calls me anymore or even talks to me on the computer, but she hasn't been on the computer in forever. But, that doesn't mean she could call my phone and just talk. I just don't know if I really need them anymore. Because, we act like we aren't friends, but we don't act like we are enemys. More like strangers.
Also, Jane moved, so I thought she would have like a little party or something or house warming party since she was moving. To show off new house. But, I wouldn't know, she never talks to me anymore really.. Then of course, she had Mandi over yesterday.. And Jane would always tell my best friend and myself, how she despised Mandi. So I have no idea.
And now, I feel like crying.
Can anyone tell me how I can make this better?
Or should I leave everything how it is?
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like kayelen or whatevr said
try to be their friends and if they show no signs of wanting to cooperate then your better of without them you can find a new friend thats not had to do
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ok well at the beginning of summer my best friend Anna and another one of our friends, Katie got drunk at some party and decided later that night that they didnt want to be friends with any of my friends anymore..but i talked to my Anna about it and she said that she only really wants to be friends with me and none of my other friends, but Katie didnt like that..katie and anna were best friends before and she was always mad that me and anna were best friends for like 3 years after that. anyways now katie has been saying bad things about me that arnt true and she is trying to get anna to not talk to me anymore and i think anna is listening to her..i really dont want to deal with anymore of this never ending drama, its really bugging me! another thing is that anna has some of my clothes i let her borrow and if she ends up hating me then what do i do? (link)
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try talking to each of them that you want to be friends with both. spend time with them probably both feel you dont like them take a day off
you have a hot date-with your bff's
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what is the legal consent age for sex? some people say tis 16 and some say its 18. which one is it? (link)
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its usually 16
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Hey, Im a 16/f and recently i stayed over and one of my guy friends house, and we were fooling around and ended up having sex, and he told me he wanted our relationship to stay as friends but still be able to do things like that. Do you think thats wrong? (link)
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yes that its so mean
he wants to be friends but have sex
what a cheeseball
that will classify you as sex buddy
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :) (link)
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yep you just meet someone and your heart starts racing you feel like you've known them forever
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My boyfriend has had sex with many other girls before, and he wants me to lose it to him. I love him but, i want to know the symptoms that might occur after we have sex. I also would like to know how, it would feel and how long will I bleed. I get horny easily but, i will never try to masterbait and, i just want to know if i should endure in sexual intercourse with my boyfriend or not!!By the way i am a female! I also would like to know if i should suck him off!! (link)
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if you dont want to have sex with him dont, tell him, if he loves you the way you do he'll understand
dont lose your virginity because your boyfriend wants to have pleasure
dont have sex at that age its illegal
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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right? (link)
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you were probably really nervous soyou tightened up
if you really want to ahve sex with him loosen up
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How can I bring up wanting birth control to my mom? I dont think she ever had sex until she was married..and she was brought up in a strict christian home (no sex until marriage) but i dont find a reason wrong with sex before marriage. I am 16/f and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. I love him and he loves me and we are sexually active (condom every time). I cant let her know I am sexually active because i dont think she would understand. Should i start pretending to complain about cramps so she will get hints or whaT????????? (link)
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if you want your mom to know yourself sexually active tell her when she's in good mood thats i can offer
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Im 16 and sexually active i either have sex or oral sex at least once or twice a day. Can this hurt my sperm count or density in any way?? Im worried becuase my sperm looked alittle thin (link)
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may be you should cut having sex that will help your sperm come to normal
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ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready? (link)
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dont have sex because your friends are doing
you want to have sex with a special person dont you?
and make it special
dont just get pressured into something you dont want to do
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ok my friend and her boyfriend have on & off for about a year, and they both lost ther verginity to each other. But after they started having sex he only talk to her when he wants to have sex. And when she tells him that she loves him he never say it back. Hdoesn't even call her his girlfriend and everytime she brings up love or anything like that he gets pissed at her. the only time he is not mad at her is when she is not around or when there having sex. I don't have the heart to tell her this but I think he might be useing ehr for sex. What do you think, any help i would really love!
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that its so terrible .
you should tell your friend her bf its using her for pleasure but in a calm way or she might get pissed of at you and ruin your friendship
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Okay...I'm only 13 1/2 and I know what an orgasm feels like and I have them on purpose. I use this massage thing that you're supposed to use on your back. I keep thinking i'm really abnormal because i "like" having them and I do it about every other day...am I too young to be doing this? SHOULD I be doing it? No one knows I do it at all. IF it's okay for me to be doing this, would it be okay to tell my mom maybe? I share everything with her and she's a nurse so I don't think she'd be freaked out or anything but i think i would be very embarrassed if even she knew. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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keep it private
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ok. well i was wondering if it's true that you miss chances to grow if you wear a bra at night. like a bra with an underwire and such as you would wear during the daytime. answers are very much appreciated, and thanks ahead of time!
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like hottie114 said its just uncomfortable
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Im considering going to sleep away camp for my first time. Im 14 & Female. Its a boy/girl camp and I was just wondering if anyone could tell me everything I need to know about going to an overnight camp. Its in 10 days so Im nervous. Do camps let you use cell phones? And also, I straighten my hair every day..what about that? Also, any advice on how to meet friends? What is important to bring or ABSOLUTELY essential to bring? Ill take ANY advice about going away. :] thanks! (link)
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just dont really worry about going to camp.
think about the fun your going to have
and to make friends just have a casual conversation with people and be yourself
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my boyfriend and i have known eachother for a year but we have only been dating for 4 months...we liked eachother longer than that but its a long story but anyways, almsot every girl i know likes him and i get really jealous which starts fights because i am so scared he is going to leave me, but i dont know how to stop being so jealous..i love him and he says he loves me but i feel like one day he is going to realize he can do better and i will be left by myself. i also have really bad trust issues because while i was at the beach about a month ago he went over to his ex's house and he said they didnt do anything but after i asked him if he went he lied and said he didnt which makes me wonder if he lies about other stuff so i just dont know when i can trust him, i have started trusting him morebut its just really hard whenso many girls like him...so how can i start trusting him and get over my jealousy? (link)
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dont jump to conclusions when there's nothing going on that should force you to mistrust/ not trust him.
but do trust him that will make him feel special because you trust him so he will realize your special and not leave okay
dont make other girls get you to become the greeen monster
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hey i have really tiny breasts, so i was wondering if thers anyway to make them grow bigger? like w/o any madicine or anything (link)
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having tiny breast dont change who you are you'll grow them dont worry about them a lot
because if you do then you kinda think you have problem while you dont
fell goood about yourself
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This is kind of long, so sorry in advance.
one of my friends did a chat room on AIM with his friends and me. one of his friends was the only other person there my age and we talked for a bit. a few weeks later he IMed me again and we talked a little more and i enjoyed talking to him (not sure about him). We have a lot of similar interests. I met him once at youth group but we didnt talk much and now we hardly talk on AIm either.
I want to be friends with him, but i can't really figure out a way to do that if he doesnt really talk to me anymore and the idea of just asking him "will you be my friend" sounds really retarded, even in my mind. He goes to a different school and i only know him through my other friend.
So basically my question is... how i can become friends with him if he hardly talks to me and i only see him rarely at youth group? (link)
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try having a casual conversation with him and he'll come around
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