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19/f. My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
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honestly, if a guys feeling you up, what would he think if your boobs are two different sizes. for me, ones like a small A and the other is a B . i know he should only care about your personality blahblahblah but i was just wondering the real truth about whether hell be freaked out or not, thanks!
Honestly, he probably won't even notice. Most guys are just happy to be feeling them to notice that they're different sizes (most girls do have two different sizes, it's not as noticeable as you might think).
Yesterday i gave my boyfriend a hand job and he came around my vagina area i had my underpants on im a bit worried could there be any chance that im pregnant? im 17
I doubt it. He didn't come inside you, but there's always a possibility you couldbe.
If you're incredibly worried, take the morning after pill. Also, go on birth control and/or use condoms.
I had sex with my boyfriend last night around 6 o clock, I just realized I started ovulating Wednesday, and it was Thrusday that we had sex, before we did, I had given him oral and he ejaculated, then he went to the bathroom, and it was an hour and a half to two hours later that we had un protected sex for about 2 minutes. What are my chances of getting pregnant? I am thinking about taking the Plan B pill tommorow around 12 in the afternoon, will I be okay? Please help me..
There's always a possibility you could become pregnant. Take Plan B and don't stress about it. You'll be fine.
I suggest going on birth control. If you don't want your parents to find out, go to planned parenthood. All you need is a donation of $15 - $20. Call before you go. Birth Control is the best way to prevent this from happening again. you can never be too careful.
as I guess you can probably tell I have little tiny boobs! Wearing a 32 a cup while all the rest of my friends seem to be at least a C.
Is there anything I can do about this or am I just stuck with what I have? Don't worry you don't have to talk me out of getting surgery, I'm not that stupid ha ha however I would like to know if there are any pills or anything I can take.
Does anybody have any experience with this?
Well, it would've helped if you gave your age. Breasts don't stop growing until you're about 17. If you're 13 or 14 posting this, give yourself a break!
16 or 17? I hear that birth control can sometimes make your breasts become larger.
im 18 and my girlfriend and i have just started having sex we were both virgins and i have trouble keeping an erection i only last a few minutes its really embarrassing also takes awhile to get an erection is there something wrong? what can i do?
foreplay.
keeps the tension strong.
will i loose weight if this is what my diet consist of:
breakfast:less then half cup of oatmeal (the kind you boil, not instant), half a cup of SKIM PLUS CHOCOLATE MILK (no fat and a lot of protein but a lot of sugar and carbs..) big cup of coffee with half and half (i have half a mugs worth, then a thermas full of it then sometimes if im hungry i have two small ice coffess with half and half and splenda)
snack: 5-10 carrots
lunch: salad with grilled chicken and water. or salmon in salad or quinwa (however u spell it!) with chicken, or salad with sliced turkey breast (u get what i mean....)
(here is where the second small ice coffe comes in if im hungry)
dinner: either grilled chicken with veggies and kasha. salmon with veggies and kasha. quinwa with chicken. or tuna steak with mushrooms. (i take the left overs for lunch the next day.. hence the repeat)
then ill have a diet coke and dont eat after like 7.
and im planning on adding in tredmil or eliptical twice a week.
i have been doing this for about a week now and im wondering if its worth it to continue this. will i loose a lot... how long till it shows.... lets say i dont excerice will i still loose?
PLEASE LET ME KNOW! OR HAVE ANY ADDITONS OR WANT TO ALTER THIS IN ANY WAYYY PLEASEEEE.
well, i would skip the chocolate milk and just stick too the full half cup of oatmeal. it's more filling so you won't over-eat later on.
NEVER replace breakfast with coffee, you need FOOD to break the fast. not caffeine. on mornings without oatmeal, try toast with peanut butter. i like to have a banana with my foods, it keeps me full and i like it in my oatmeal! you can have coffee on the side, but don't over-do it. or stick with tea. it's healthier for you.
the lunch and dinner sound good. so do the snacks. carrots in the morning is a bit odd. maybe an apple instead? and saving the carrots for a before-dinner snack.
as for the diet coke, i would drop that altogether. if you can't, maybe drink it at lunch instead of before bed. just because it's diet doesn't mean it's good for you. it's loaded with chemicals and things that you just shouldn't eat.
exercise = YES. exercise is a great stress reliever. three - five times per week is most effective for weight loss.
just make sure you drink plenty of water. that's another big concern.
other than that, keep it up!
17/f
gahhhh i'm about to rip this guys head off because he's soooo confusing!!!!!!
so me and this guy had a thing for a while (a few months) while i was dating my boyfriend. ( i know i know.. that was a mistake and its wrong, dont need the lecture) and all of a sudden he stops talking to me... everytime i try to text, he wont answer. he wont pick up my calls. sometimes he even picks up and then hangs up right away. i tried inboxing him on facebook but he wont respond. i checked his wall and he's on sometimes and he talks to his friends. one time i even saw him post this on a girls wall "hey we haven't talked for a while, you should text me sometime" WTH!!! then today i just checked his page and it wont come up on search pages... meaning he deleted his facebook account. i searched his other friends and checked to see if they were still friends with him, and they aren't.
I have NO clue what's going on... its so sudden. I have a slight idea that maybe he's busy with college classes and work and family.. but why would that be an excuse as to treating me this way??
what do i do?? i still really really really REALLY like him... like i can't stop thinking about him and checking my phone to see if he responded. gahhhh he's soooo confusing!!! HELPPPP. thanks
so i feel like you left something big out that you don't want to tell us. did you do something that would make him mad? say anything that you didn't mean too?
maybe he feels betrayed. he probably liked you more than you thought or knows how you treat boyfriends and dropped you because of it. i don't know, but feel free to inbox me so i could try to help you out.
18/male and ive been with my girlfriend for alomost 6 months she my first girlfriend and well ive got a really small penis im really embarrassed about it the other day we were making out and she started to undo my pants and started to take them off i got nervous and i had to stop
im nervous about her seeing my penis im nervous about talking to her about it she wont get put off will she? can i even please a girl?
she's probably not even going to care. you've ben with her for 6 months - she's not going to dump/make fun of you because you have a small penis.
and if she's a virgin it will make the first time hurt less.
just don't worry about it. she'll except it the way you are.
my boyfriend fingered me for the first time, and it kind of hurt. he wasn't doing it too hard or anything, he was being gentle and stuff, but is it normal for it to hurt?
yeah, its normal.
just give it time, it won't hurts so bad after a few times.
Me and my boyfriend had a romantic evening last night. Didnt have sex but he cummed on my tummy and breasts, sounds stupid i know, but im scared it might have found its way south... really dont want to be pregnant
do you think i should find a morning after pill to take, or am i just being paranoid?
if you had jeans or even just underwear you'll really be just fine. even if you weren't there's nothing to worry about. relax, this happens to almost every girl who has a boyfriend. take the pill if you must, but you would really feel the cum going to your vagina.
15/f
So I weigh around 110 and I'm 5'5.
I'm not fat and I know that, but just my stomach bugs me. So I just want to be healthy and find someway to lose most of my stomach.
I know I should eat healthy. I just don't want to have to do the whole counting calorie stuff. What kinds of food should I stay by and what foods should I stay away from? Also, what snacks are better to eat? And exercises? Thanks!
It's great that you want to eat healthier - but you're terribly thin. 110lbs and 5'5. that's 15lbs underweight!
Eating healthier is pretty easy. Avoid soda, drink more water.
Increase your intake of fruits and vegetables. Chuck the junk food.
the games are fun and i want cool pets but how do i get them?
you need to create an account first.
after, verify your information with email, etc.
go to my account >> create a neopet.
any other questions feel free to ask me, i've been playing neopets for five years now. hah.
heyy i was wondering if you know anything about green tea and diet plans, i wanted to start a diet to lose close to 10 lbs in a month. and I heard green tea was a good way to burn fat.
Do you know a good diet plan? and Im 16f and a vegetarian.
hey - i'm a vegetarian too and i actually found that it was a lot easier to loose weight when i became one, mainly because i already ate pretty healthy as it is.
green tea does wonders for you. all you really need to do is boil some water, put a tea bag in a mug, add the water, and let it sit. it raises your metabolism, clears your skin, and keeps you awake! aim for around three cups a day. preferably in the morning so you can get some sleep!
other than tea - i'll tell you what my diet plan consists of:
breakfast: plain oatmeal with flax seeds (grind them in a grinder) and slices of banana on top. skim milk on the side.
** flax seeds are really good for vegetarians. they contain omega 3's, something we apparently lack of if we're not eating right!
snack: greek yogurt (has a ton of protein, usually around 12 grams per serving). with an apple or some type of fruit.
lunch: marinated tofu (usually at health food), carrots, spinach, and bean sprouts in a whole wheat wrap.
snack: low fat cottage cheese with honeydew melon or some type of fruit.
dinner: whole grain bun with veggie or "unchicken" burger. have half a plate of vegetables for a side.
**also remember to stay hydrated.
i would suggest getting the book "skinny bitch". i actually borrowed it from my library - but it's a vegan diet, easily a vegetarian diet. it has good tips on how you should eat and you drop weight pretty fast.
i am having a really hard time with weight. im overweight i need to do something about it for my health! i just dont know where to start. i stopped eating for a bit but was getting bad shakes and hunger pains. i know its wrong but i dont know what else to do please help!! i have been exersising tons i just need help with eating! i need to get fit and healthy! help please thanks.
the person below me is also correct, but i believe they forgot proper punctuation
just remember, being healthy =skinny. unhealthy = well, fat.
foods you should eat: oatmeal, peanut butter, learn turkey and chicken, fish, flax seeds, olive oil, low fat or non fat dairy products, dark chocolate, any type of nuts, whole grain bread/pasta (no other type of bread), sweet potatoes (no other type of potatoes), fruits, and vegetables.
organize a menu plan for the week, planning is so much easier than just grabbing the first thing you see in the fridge! mix and match.
basic menu:
Breakfast - Oatmeal with ground flax seeds. Banana. Cup of Green Tea. Skim or Low Fat Milk.
Breakfast Snack - 1 Piece of Dark chocolate, 1 cup of strawberries.
Lunch - Turkey Whole Grain Wrap with Low Fat Swiss Cheese, Cucumbers, Lettuce/Spinach, Tomatoes, etc. 1 Apple. 1 cup of skim or low fat milk.
Afternoon Snack - Carrot Sticks and Hummus. Slice of whole grain bread.
Dinner - Baked Chicken, Steamed brown rice, 1/2 plate of vegetables. 1 cup of milk.
you can mix it up a bit as well - and you don't have to follow the exact plan. if you don't have access to this - work with what you have and ask yourself - is this really healthy? what is it going to do for me?
stay hydrated through the day. drink at least 2.2 liters of water.
also exercise. try walking around the block a few times for an easy workout!
I'm aiming to loose weight by the summer, I've started to do sit-ups and a few other things a couple of times a week. But, my mum told me that its not my diet that I need to change. Just recently I've been eating more fruit though. So, I just want someone else's opinion about my diet?
Normally for breakfast, I don't have that much time in the mornings, I have either cereal or toast with a cup of tea. For lunch I have a sandwich, crisps and a nutri-grain bar. I have a variety of things for my dinners, from pizza, pasta, chicken veg and potatoes, curry (not very often). I have an apple or a banana as soon as I come in from school and maybe some grapes later on after dinner if I get hungry.
So, is this alright? Is it just exercise I need to concentrate on? I think maybe I need to make minor changes in my diet, but I'm not too sure? :/
i suggest eating about five small meals a day. cleaning up your diet would definitely be a big change.
first off, you need more vegetables! they're lower in calories and carbs. fruits great, but there's a lot more sugar! try snacking on carrot sticks, celery, sugar snap peas, bell peppers, broccoli, etc. add them to your lunch. also - switch the sandwich for a healthy turkey whole grain wrap with spinach, tomatoes, red onions, and more vegetables to your liking. kick out the nutri-gran bar and save it for a breakfast snack.
i'm doing this kind of backwards, but for breakfast, you should go with oatmeal. oatmeal keeps you full and is loaded with whole grains which are good for your brain! have a side of a banana, or an apple with a cup of skim/low fat milk.
your dinner sounds good. always try to keep your meal 1/4 protein, 1/4 carbs, 1/2 vegetables.
a perfect bedtime snack would be some type of fruit with cottage cheese.
so summary:
breakfast: oatmeal. banana. cup of milk. tea.
snack: nutri grain bar with some type of fruit.
lunch: turkey whole grain wrap. carrot sticks. cup of milk.
snack: some type of vegetable with low-fat ranch dip.
dinner: 1/4 protein 1/4 carbs 1/2 vegetables
snack: cottage cheese with some type of fruit.
drink 2-3 liters of water per day. chug more on days you work out!
as for working out - 30 minute to an hour is ideal. try riding a bike, running, swimming, hiking, etc. anything outdoors, really!
hope i helped!
im 17 male my girlfriend and i have been together for 9 months weve been talking about having sex for awhile now we are both virgins weve been taking it slowly im still nervous about it im not that well endowed am i worried im wont be any good i dont want it to be bad first time what can i do? can you please a girl with a small penis?
Well, of course you can. Just because you're smaller doesn't mean you can't please her.
I suggest putting a pillow underneath her, it'll help make it go deeper.
My Original question:
Help! I am 2 weeks late on my period.
I am never regular (and usually late) but this time especially, I am freaking out. I have not had sex since October, but I have done other things (in a safe manner) since my last period involving male body fluids. I am not on birth control.
In October, I had 2 periods and it was really weird. In November, I was on my period from around the 19th to the 24th. December has been super stressful for me because I have had college midterms and I found out my boyfriend of 2 years has cheated on me and I broke up with him.
Do you think I could be pregnant? Or what the chances are of becoming pregnant without having sex? I can't think of any reasons I could be pregnant. No fluids ever went inside of me.
Do you think it could have to do with doubling up on my period in October? Or the stress?
Exactly 1 year ago I had the same problem and skipped my December period all together.
I don't know what to think anymore and I'm very scared.
UPDATED*****:
It's been about 3 weeks now and a few days ago I started getting this dark red/brown discharge. It looks like old blood. It's been a lot by now and still going and this has happened before. Do you think I am okay when it comes to being worried about being pregnant? Is this a sign that I'm not pregnant? I don't really know what this is.
I've gotten the brown/red discharge type thing instead of a period before.
it sounds like its normal. not pregnant - just stressed out.
17/f
me and my boyfriend just had sex about one hour ago, and apparently afterwards he told me right away to rinse because he wasn't sure if the streak on his balls were his or mine so he told me to rinse right away. the thing is, i was quite confused a bit because usually the streak on his balls he usually says that it was my cum, and it happens everytime we have sex and i wasn't pregnant from it. the streak on his balls looked like the usual thing, my cum. it's always on his balls. and the thing is it wasn't around my vagina, it was around my butt hole.. he says it was "perfectly organized" around my butt hole, and nothing else was near my vagina. which again, i thought it was normal because after we have sex i usually have white stuff around my butt hole. but he didn't know that cause i didn't want to tell him now and then i stick my finger on my butthole to see what's making it feel really weird and it's white. after i said that, he was alot more sure that it was my cum instead of his. but we're still being careful about it, and he's getting plan b just in case. i took plan b before, about 4 months ago. so my question is... if i took plan b for the first time 4 months ago, would it still work as it did before? what's your opinion on this? we're hoping that we're just overreacting on this. and his mom mentioned something about a condom and a sponge for protection.. what's a sponge?
what i would suggest is going down to planned parenthood and getting plan b (morning after pill) asap. while you're there, get on birth control. as long as you're under 18, you can get it for free (well, a donation, but under $20). even better if you have insurance. you don't have to let your parents know - just ask your boyfriend if he can take you.
Hello im 18/f i want to become more healthier right now i eat alot of fast food and i drink a ton of pop and little water. I'm 5'6 and 143 pound and i want to lose a few pounds and not just lose weight but become healthier. I'm just wondering what are foods that are very good for you when you're trying to diet i've heard high protein low calories and carbs. Any examples for food that i could eat regularly would be appreciated! Thanks I rate!
Healthy foods Consist Of:
Chicken, tuna, oatmeal, sweet potatoes (no other type of potatoes), whole wheat bread (only type of bread you should have), non-processed lunch meat, non-dry fruit (don't overdo fruit - fructose generally goes to your liver instead of your muscles) cheese, nuts, bacon, cottage cheese, eggs, vegetables, steak (ideally lean to reduce calories).
Eat five small meals a day. Making each meal approx. 400 calories. Always aim for 1600 per day. Stop eating after 7pm.
Cut out soda all together. Even diet, sorry. If you need that carbonated spark, try seltzer water. Or just plain old water/tea. It's all I drink, really, and I feel fantastic.
As for exercising, weight training has tons of health benefits. I suggest looking into it. Even it's just 4 pound dumbbells you're using. It fights different kinds of cancer.
Hope I helped!
I'm pretty fit, I just have a bit more weight to lose. What kind of exercise is kind to my knees but burns a ton of calories?
I would suggest the Elliptical. Start off small (level 3 or so) and work your way up. Pedaling backwards for a few minutes helps as well. It works out your glutes (back of your thighs) and burns an extra 7% calories.