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hi my name is jess im 13 and my boyfriend and i are oviously together but thats not the problem. The problem is that his parents say im to young fo him when hes only 14 so he they made him break up with me but now we're secretly going out cause we cant be apart. What can i do to get his parents to let him go out with me?
luv Jess (link)
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Hey~ well maybe you could talk to his parents about you guys hanging out. as "friends". So then at least they'll prolly say yes, and you could talk to him more, but still secretly be together. Then when they seem ok w/ that, have him tell them he likes you again...then maybe they'll be ok w/ it. Hope I helped! Love yah!
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What is the purpose of life? like why are we even here? (link)
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Read the Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. Awesome book! But if you don't go to church or anything like that, the book goes into detail about why God put us here, and we all have a purpose...we're on Earth to learn to become like Christ so that we're prepared for eternity...IM me if you wanna talk about this more! Love yah!
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do you know if colored courdoroy pants will be in style this fall? (link)
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Um no i dont know if courdoroy pants will be in this fall. I'm not a big fan of courdoroy lol! But you should look at lucky magazine or instyle.com if you really wanna know. Sorry i wasn't much help! Love yah!
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I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable? (link)
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You could ask about her ex-boyfriend and if she's ok and everything and ask her why she broke up w/ him. Maybe she did it for her own reasons, not bc of you...but if it was bc of you she prolly wont admit it but if she does you could just tell her that it really means a lot to you but you think it would be awkward for the friendship to get back together again! ok well hope I helped!
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i live around chicago IL, and were having a drought, so its really hot around here. it gets really humid - and my hair is naturally wavy. if i scrunch it and wear it curly, it gets frizzy, and if i straighten it and wear it straight, it doesnt stay striaght, it puffs up etc. i have to go to summer school every day from 8-12, and i have very thick and quite long hair, what are some easy hair styles that i could do quick in the morning that doent look sloppy? (link)
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Use frizz easy shampoo and conditioner by john frieda and use step 4 wind down it makes your hair wavy! You can get it at wal-mart and target--places like that!! Hope i helped! love yah!
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see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please (link)
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Wow. You sound like me! I know how you feel bc I don't have a BEST friend here...just tons of friends (love yall) but yea I would just start hanging out a lot more w/ this person you want to be your best friend & talking more online or even calling them just to say hey and ask them about their day and stuff! Hope I helped! Love yah!
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What is the Vitamin that makes your hair grow? And were can i get this Vitamin? (link)
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Uh hey. It's Vitamin D and its in the sun, and buy orange juice w/ it in it. Also, a lot of protien helps your hair grow really fast. But i don't really know how long it takes to work but after a day in the sun i swear my hair is visibly longer! And don't take vitamin D supplements bc if you have to much of it, its like a toxin or something! lol well hope i helped! love yah!
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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?
MizzNiceGirl (link)
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Hey babe! Well, if you don't wear makeup, wear some eyeliner/eyeshadow but not too much! and smile a LOT and just go up to a guy and start talkin to him...it says something when a girl has confidence like that! And I'm sure you're
g o r g e o u s !!! haha! Well hope I helped! Love yah! (and its not soooo bad being a nice girl lol!)
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hey this is emily and i have a friend that is really pissed at me and i don't know y. everytime i try to make things right, she just gets even more mad at me. i think she is just stressed out and lets it all out on me and i am like her only friend b/c not that many people like her (so acctually i am doing her a favor for being her friend and putting up with her). please help!! WHAT SHOULD I DOOOO!!!????!????!???!!!! (link)
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Hey Emily? I'm sorry i don't think I know you haha but maybe you should think about the things that happened when she first started getting mad at you, and maybe you did something really little that she should've gotten over by know...i really don't know. But if you can't think of a reason why she would be this pissed at you, then talk to her about it and tell her that you really have tried to fix the situation. And I'm sure that a lot of people like her and she has other friends besides you bc everyone has friends. And if she truly doesn't have any friends (which is pretty sad) then you shouldn't stick around bc you feel sorry for her. Just do whats right for yalls friendship! Hope I helped! But tell me who this is haha i feel really bad if i'm supposed to know you from some where! lol! Love yah!
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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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Hey babe! I think this guy definately likes you and you should definately go for it! But if a boy likes you, he might be mean to you like in a joking way i guess and call you names and stuff bc guys are just weird like that! But if he likes you then he'll do sweet stuff like "save" you too! haha! Well, hope I helped! Let me know how it goes! Love yah!
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Ok,i have this friend Tina. I know tina id going to become friends with my other friend. I do not want them to be friends but i no they are going to become really close. Tina always puts me in the shadow and she gets all the attension. How can i except that Tina and my friend are going to be come close..and not care? Not feel sad and left out inside? Not feel missing and alone? How can i just be happy with everyone? please help (link)
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Hey babe! Ok well if your other friend is a guy and you like him you need to tell Tina that she has no business talking to him but if its a guy you don't like like that or a girl then talk to both of them and explain that you feel left out. If they were truly your friends, they would respect your feelings and apologize. I'm in a similar situation here myself haha. But if they don't care that they're hurting you, move on and find better friends! But you really should be happy that these people are becoming friends bc then yall can hang out together and not have it be awkward if they ever stop ignoring you! Well, hope I helped! I hope it gets better for ya! love yah!
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my name is EJ and i have a friend that i have know for almost a year now and i have liked since the first time i saw her and i was wondering if yall could give me some advice on how to ask her out so if she says no we can still be friends (link)
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Hey EJ! I would just ask her when you talk to her if she likes someone right now and if she's even looking for a relationship. And if she tells you who she likes and it isn't you, just change the subject. But if she doesn't like someone, then she'll prolly say yes to you! Hope that helped! Let me know how it goes!
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im planning my b-day party and i need some help thinking of themes (link)
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Maybe you could do like a beach/tiki theme bc i know they sell a lot of stuff for that! That's all i could think of sorry! hope that helps! love yah!
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I've been searching everywhere to find the bathing suit that I want. I cannot find it anywhere. I'm looking for a plain black string bikini and absolutely no stores have it! If you guys know of any stores where I could find one I'd appreciate it. I rate 5's! Thanks so much in advance. (link)
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Yea I got my plain black one at Target last year. Old Navy might have some too? I'm not sure...ok well hope that kinda helps! love yah!
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Tommrow im going with my grandma to her "Bring your kids to work day", and I have no Idea what to wear?
Any Suggestions?
Thanks;) (link)
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haha hey there! I went to work w/ my dad today! But we got free tshirts haha! Ok well, wear a nice pair of capris..not denim. And a cute (not slutty) shirt. Like maybe a shirt you'd wear to church? Or a skirt. But not a miniskirt. And of course find really cute shoes to go w/ your outfit! Make sure you do your hair and makeup really nicely too! Not too much tho! Ok well hope I helped...it's hard to tell you tho bc i dunno what kind of clothes you have haha! Oh and bring like a nice sweater or jacket incase its cold in there! haha! Love yah!
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Well i like this guy and ive liked him for ages, he says he likes me but his got a girlfriend. He always says his going to leave her and i fool for it. then when im not interested he will try it on. but i really like him i mean when im around him i feel me and him are meant to be i know it sounds stupid question but what should i do should i just move on and forget about him please help. (link)
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Yea I know how you feel...but if you have feelings for him, maybe they're supposed to be there?!?! Talk to him and tell him you're not gonna wait for him anymore and I'm pretty sure he'll pick you over his gf bc he prolly feels the same about you. When you're not interested in him, he can prolly tell and thats why he gets a gf bc it hurts him maybe. hope i helped! love yah!
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How do you start a conversation with a boy? Say if you were at a Arby's and it was just you and this boy you liked, how would you start a good conversation with him. Now keep in mind, he doesn't know I like him. That would be some other nice advice, how to tell him that I do like him!!! Thank You Very Much! (link)
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Be like "hey whats up. hows your summer going" ask him if he's going anywhere or playing any sports and stuff like that. I wouldn't just come out and say "i like you" but ask if he's single (even if you really do know he is) then ask if he likes anyone...I'm not too good w/ this myself lol! hope i helped! love yah!
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i have a bf and we've been together for almost 2 months. its almost the end of the year and i want to get him something. i'm not sure what to get him though. i want it to be meaningful. any ideas? (link)
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If you have a lot of pics of the two of you then make him a scrapbook or just put them in a cheap photo album or something! It doesn't have to be that fancy! and on the pages you could write all the funny stuff that happened around the time the pic was taken...like inside jokes/memories if you have any. Thats all i can think of right now! hope i helped! love yah!
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hey what some good website for quotes??
P.S. i will rate high (link)
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well prolly try quotes.com
but i like http://web.syr.edu/~klrainer/quotes.html
http://groups.msn.com/AwesomeQuotes/yourwebpage.msnw (hit refresh if it doesnt show up the 1st time)
http://sparkayy.tripod.com/id10.html
kk hope that helped! love yah!
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OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?! (link)
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That sucks babe I know how you feel tho it happened to me last summer. If your friends are discluding you from stuff, talk to them about it and ask them what you did. I'm sure you have one true friend tho so just talk to that person and hang out w/ them this summer and next yr you'll meet a ton of new people that will treat you better! well hope i helped! love yah!
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