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what can i do?
hi my name is jess im 13 and my boyfriend and i are oviously together but thats not the problem. The problem is that his parents say im to young fo him when hes only 14 so he they made him break up with me but now we're secretly going out cause we cant be apart. What can i do to get his parents to let him go out with me?
luv Jess
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Hey~ well maybe you could talk to his parents about you guys hanging out. as "friends". So then at least they'll prolly say yes, and you could talk to him more, but still secretly be together. Then when they seem ok w/ that, have him tell them he likes you again...then maybe they'll be ok w/ it. Hope I helped! Love yah!
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WOW! Not to insult you, but I think if this guy REALLY 'liked' you, he would have had the guts to stand up to his parents and tell them to back the fuck off. It's **NOT** their decision to make. And the whole thing about you being "too young" for him is just a bunch of bullshit they're trying to throw at him to get him to end the relationship. PERSONALLY, if MY boyfriend dumped me because his mommie and daddie told him too.. I'd NEVER associate with his ass again. I mean, is he ALWAYS going to live HIS life for OTHER PEOPLE???? If that's the case.. living is pointless.... Do you honestly WANT this guy if his 'love' for you can be so easily swayed or taken away altogether???? Think about that......
But to get them to like you more, keep the contact to a minimum for a while. Don't call after 7:30, only come over once every two or three days, and try to have your boyfriend call YOU instead, that way you are less likely to get on their nerves. Being polite is a MUST!!! And don't be too loud or obnoxious. Even doing all of these things won't guarantee you their acceptance. They seem like disgusting and ignorant people, so who cares what they think anyways...
Goodluck to you; hopefully everything works out!! :)
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